Co creating And Experience Of Disharmony Game Of Chess

Hello, Bashar. I knew you, good day. Speak up, speak up, and be bold. Okay. My question is about my household, my family. Speak up. Okay, I have two children. Yes. And I've been single mother for most of their life. Yes. And... Well, I would assume you haven't been a double mother. Right. Just one. All right. I don't know about that, though. Yes, I know. Whenever I bring someone else into the household, maybe a roommate. Yes. I've intentionally created this state of harmony between me and my children. And then when I bring somebody else in, I watch it disintegrate. You are creating a state of disharmony. Am I creating that? We are co-creating it, certainly. So... Nothing happens by itself. Right. If you're experiencing it, there is at least... some part of you that's involved in the co-creation somehow, especially if you believe that in some sense, you're actually having an experience of this that's affecting your life that you're creating an experience of. So obviously, you have a part in co-creating this. Why? Right. Why would I choose to... Yes, that's a good question. Why? What do you get out of choosing that? That's usually the question to ask. If there is something disharmonious in your life, something that doesn't fit, something that's not aligned with your preferred viperation. The only reason you would be involved in helping to co-create that would be that you have a belief that says that in order to do so, you're getting something out of doing it. Right. What would that be? And by the way, what game are you playing? Is it cards where you're not revealing your hand? I don't know. Playing poker are you? Maybe. Not going to tell you what I'm holding on to here. What are you doing? What game are you playing? What do you get out of the idea of putting yourself in situations that seem disharmonious with respect to the idea of your children? What story are you teaching them? What stories were you taught that you are passing along to them? That harmony doesn't exist in a family. All right. Well, so you feel that the only way harmony can exist is if you create it in some sort of isolated situation, yes? But as soon as another random element comes in, you have no. capacity to allow for harmony. Is that what you're saying? You believe it's beyond you, in a sense. Yes? I don't. I don't relate to it. You don't relate to it. I've chosen not to relate to it. All right. Well, what aspects within yourself do you find disharmonious with your true self? What beliefs are you holding on to that are disharmonious? All right, I'll ask it another way. A lot of times, it's easier to find out what those negative beliefs are by going in the opposite direction with them by amplifying and magnifying the negative beliefs. So ask yourself this.

relate to it. I've chosen not to relate to it. All right. Well, what aspects within yourself do you find disharmonious with your true self? What beliefs are you holding on to that are disharmonious? All right, I'll ask it another way. A lot of times, it's easier to find out what those negative beliefs are by going in the opposite direction with them by amplifying and magnifying the negative beliefs. So ask yourself this. What is the most fearful, terrifying thing you can imagine might happen if you were willing to simply allow harmony in all situations? That it would not last. That it would not last. All right. Very good. Why do you believe it would not last? Because it hasn't. So what? What's the past got to do with the present? Nothing. You know that for a fact? Guess not. I guess not. You understand that the present creates the past, not the other way around? Yeah, I've experienced that. All right. So the more you allow yourself to choose to be harmonious in the present and know that you can always choose to be harmonious in the present, it's not about the issue of harmony lasting. Because you're putting a condition on it that requires a, shall we say, maintenance issue, which makes it seem. difficult. I have to keep doing something to maintain harmony. Right. But if you just prefer the vibration of harmony, you don't have to do anything other than continue to prefer the vibration of harmony in order to continue to experience harmonious realities. Again, remember what we said earlier. Even if someone else has a negative intention or disharmonious intention toward you, it won't matter because the only thing you'll experience is harmony if that's the vibration you choose to filter everything through. You may still be able to recognize that they may be acting disharmoniously, but it won't affect you because you're not choosing to match their disharmonious vibration with your own fears, that it won't last. And thus you create self-fulfilling prophecies. I believe it won't last. Therefore, I attract someone who's going to be disharmonious, thus proving to me that I believe it won't last. thus I have created this prophecy and look how prescient I am. Right. You see, you're reinforcing the belief. But you see, this is what beliefs do. This is what beliefs are designed to do. By definition, any belief has to be self-reinforcing in order to be focused on the reality that is generated by that belief. So a negative belief is going to make it seem as if you can't have a positive belief. That's going to be tough to maintain a positive belief because the negative belief is doing everything and its power to maintain the negative reality that goes with that belief. That's what comes with the territory.

definition, any belief has to be self-reinforcing in order to be focused on the reality that is generated by that belief. So a negative belief is going to make it seem as if you can't have a positive belief. That's going to be tough to maintain a positive belief because the negative belief is doing everything and its power to maintain the negative reality that goes with that belief. That's what comes with the territory. But if you understand the skeleton key that all beliefs can be changed, no matter what type of a belief it is, then even when you experience a negative belief that is attempting to reinforce itself and make it seem as if no other belief is possible, you will always be able to go to that neutral space and go, ah, but I know that all beliefs can be changed. And then you have the key. going to unlock yourself from the negative one and you can choose whichever one you prefer. But you have to know, you have to believe that that key of unlocking is always there for you. Because every belief is going to do its utmost to reinforce itself and make it seem as if no other belief is possible. You understand? Yes. And that's why when you really tip the scale and really choose a positive belief system, that will also reinforce itself. And the idea that you could quote unquote, slip into or choose a negative belief over time will become unlikely because it will seem unrealistic and irrelevant to you because you have positive beliefs that reinforce the idea of the realities that go with those beliefs, which doesn't include the idea that you need to choose to buy into negative ones. Make sense? Yes. Thank you. Does this help you? Are you sure? Yes. And? So I just need to hold space. for myself to be harmonious in the present moment. Well, don't you prefer the idea of harmony? Absolutely. Well, allow yourself thus then to use this opportunity to dive down to investigate what beliefs you've attached to the idea that says that you cannot experience that harmony in all situations for yourself. Okay. When you find out and identify what that negative belief is, when you truly bring it to light, you will see most likely that it's illogical, nonsensical. Has nothing to do with you. Doesn't belong to you. There's a belief you picked up from someone else, somewhere along the road, growing up, and that you can be carrying this bag around your life, and you can drop the bag because it's heavy. Anything that doesn't belong to you gets heavy. The things that belong to you are liked. You understand? That's how you know you're dragging around a negative belief that belongs to someone else is you start feeling weighed down by it. So find out what it is, and as soon as you identify it, you'll see, oh, wait a minute.

carrying this bag around your life, and you can drop the bag because it's heavy. Anything that doesn't belong to you gets heavy. The things that belong to you are liked. You understand? That's how you know you're dragging around a negative belief that belongs to someone else is you start feeling weighed down by it. So find out what it is, and as soon as you identify it, you'll see, oh, wait a minute. That makes no sense. sense for me. That's not who I am. That belongs to so-and-so. You don't want to hold on to a belief that doesn't belong to you because if you do, that makes you a belief thief. You're stealing other people's beliefs. You don't want to be a thief. Give those beliefs back to them. Drop them. Oh, that doesn't belong to me. It's not mine. When you know it's not yours, you'll let it go. Make sense? Yeah, and I got it. Thank you. Thank you.