Creating And Trusting Your Unexpected Path In Life

Hi, Bishar. And are you good day? I have two questions. One of my, one of the questions is I just started a brandy career and I'm finding myself not to feel the way I thought I would feel before game. How did you think you would feel? Super excited and I just, it's just so different. Yes, well, congratulations on creating an unexpected path. You don't want it to be boring, right? No. Well, then unexpectedness is to be expected. if you want a life of joy and a life of true challenge and a life of discovering what about yourself you don't already know. So that, that, yeah. And in doing that, it gives you more information and experience to write about. Yes? Yes. Well, then isn't that part of the process? Yes. So what is not exciting about that? I just thought that maybe because I didn't feel the way I thought I would feel. I was like in the wrong career. I see. Well, it's always up to you to have the discernment to stand back and go, all right, maybe this isn't my path of preference, but also you have to have the discernment to make sure that you're not coloring it to make it seem unexciting when it could be. It may be an opportunity for you to examine that you may have a belief that's coloring things. If you determine that you don't and you recognize that it really isn't your path, that's all right too. Sometimes the thing to things that excite you, just excite you to pull you in a certain direction because that's the direction you need to go in. It doesn't mean that thing has to come to fruition. That's why we say you have zero expectation as to what the outcome ought to be. But it's also important to pay attention as to whether or not it truly isn't the path or whether you're just coloring it with your fear. Make sense? Yes. So, which is it, do you think? Fear. I know it's fear. Fear of what? Not good enough? No. Fear of what? Of getting hurt out on the field. Getting hurt? Yes. In what way? Physically. I don't know. I'm just afraid of... What was the career that you said you had chosen? Being a police officer. All right. Why? Why? Why chose it? Yes. To help people. I wanted to help people. All right. Well, you knew going in that there might be physical danger, yes? Yes, sir, I did. What's different then? I just thought that I would feel the way I thought before. Which was what? Like excitement and everything. But why don't you feel the excitement? You knew there was danger to begin with and yet you were excited. Yes. So why aren't you excited now? Just because I thought, maybe I was in the wrong career due to the fact that I didn't feel that excitement.

yes? Yes, sir, I did. What's different then? I just thought that I would feel the way I thought before. Which was what? Like excitement and everything. But why don't you feel the excitement? You knew there was danger to begin with and yet you were excited. Yes. So why aren't you excited now? Just because I thought, maybe I was in the wrong career due to the fact that I didn't feel that excitement. I don't know if that makes sense or... Is there something else you would rather do? At the moment, no. Are you sure? Yes. Are you afraid to become excited about something else? Because when you start doing that, you'll lose the excitement there too? Because it will be different than you thought? Have you done this before? Have done what... Have you... towards something you thought was exciting, only to find that when you did it, it wasn't as exciting as you thought? Yes. How many times? I don't know. I don't know. I really don't know. Once, I can, once for sure. Aside from the one you're talking about now? Yes, sir. Which was what? Nursing. So you thought that would be exciting. And it was. Until? I got bored going to the same place and just doing the same thing over and over. Why did you allow? it to become boring. Remember, there are no boring situations, just bored minds. I don't know. Yes, you do. Why did it allow it to be? Because I want to try something different. All right. Which was this? So you are an exploratory path of learning what it is you really are excited about, yes? Yes. There's nothing wrong with that, you know? Is there some reason why you have to settle on something? to settle on something? Decide on something? No. So is it all right that you may go into something and then discover that it really isn't your excitement? Is that all right? Yes. All right? So you may keep doing that then. What's the next thing you're excited about? If you left what you are doing now, what would be the next thing you think you might be excited about? I haven't thought that. Well, maybe... Yes, you have. Traveling. Traveling. Traveling in what way? What's exciting for you about traveling? Discovering new places. So if you go to a new place, we'll be excitement go away. Maybe eventually, I think. Why? Because that's a pattern I've been showing these past couple of years. Yes, all right. Well, so why do you have that pattern? I don't know. Yes, you do. I really don't. I don't know. I don't know. You are lost. All right, that's why. You just answered it. You feel lost. Why do you feel lost? Because I want to know this is a right, well... The right? The right, like, path I should be taking right now. What if it's not? What if you never find it?

right. Well, so why do you have that pattern? I don't know. Yes, you do. I really don't. I don't know. I don't know. You are lost. All right, that's why. You just answered it. You feel lost. Why do you feel lost? Because I want to know this is a right, well... The right? The right, like, path I should be taking right now. What if it's not? What if you never find it? What will happen then to you? Will you crumble to dust? Will you have failed miserably in your existence if you never find it? the path, the thing. What will happen to you? Please let us know. We are so very concerned about you now. We are so very curious to know how this story ends if you never find the thing, the one thing, your particular path. Oh, so dire. What will happen? Life goes on? Yes. You will always be able to find something. You will always be able to determine that something excites you, there may not be any one thing. What if your excitement is a number of things under an exciting umbrella that expresses itself in a number of different ways? What if there is a connective theme to all the things that you're doing? I want to help people. Nurse, policeman, you understand? Police woman in your language. You said you like to help people. Why? It brings how long? of happiness. It brings who a lot of happiness? Me. Why? To know that I'm helping other people just helps me. And so is the traveling connected to the idea of helping other people as well? Is that why the traveling excites you too? Or is there's some other reason? I'm just excited to discover new things. So like new places, new cultures, new languages, new food. So what you are saying is you are a wanderer. And therefore you're not really excited and not really happy unless you're actually all was doing something different. And that what you are calling a pattern may actually be who you are. Would that be all right? I don't know. It sounds kind of like a bad thing. Why does it sound like a bad thing? Because I know a lot most people like just choose one thing and they are happy to. Who cares what most people do? You're not most people. Why isn't it all right to be who you actually are? To be a wanderer. To explore. many different things, to be an explorer, to always be looking to discover something new. Why is that not a life, an exciting life? There are people on your planet that do that, you know? Yes, right. I understand. Well, can't you be one of them if that's what you really prefer? Yes, I can. Are you sure? Yes. Then isn't that exciting? Very actually. That you will always be doing something new. Yes.

explore. many different things, to be an explorer, to always be looking to discover something new. Why is that not a life, an exciting life? There are people on your planet that do that, you know? Yes, right. I understand. Well, can't you be one of them if that's what you really prefer? Yes, I can. Are you sure? Yes. Then isn't that exciting? Very actually. That you will always be doing something new. Yes. When you accept that that that may be who you are, you will figure out a way to make that work for you. You understand? Yes, sir, I do. And then you'll be able to gather all the different experiences that you have and help people along the way because of the vast scope of the knowledge that you collect along the way doing all these different things. You are just perhaps a Jill of all trades.