Intention Action Lack Of Expectation (Part 2 of 3)

We believe we heard that word before. What word? Woo. Well, I guess I knew that. But I want to ask you about that, what is it in me that is in the way of me remembering? I ask to remember. The suggestion that you are given many times have purpose in that you don't remember. You are given suggestions not to remember. And there are many reasons that you yourself would actually agree with. would actually agree with for forgetting. Not so much that. Some of it is simply that in being made to ostensibly on one level forget, then you are allowed to simply be your natural self as your life unfolds and that other concept and other experience doesn't inhibit or impede your ability to naturally move ahead spontaneously. Another reason is that there are individuals on your planet that would have the ability to access information that would not be to the best benefit of your world for them to access. And so you are made to forget so that those individuals on your planet cannot access the experience you have had. For they would use it in a detrimental and negative where. To your people, in general. Who are the people who are the people? They are autonomous factions of your world that are recognized often by what you would call clandestine, endestine activities. That's your translation. CIA. Thank you. They're mentioning CIA, they will like that. Okay. They can access my memory? They have the technology to do so. And thus many of the experiences are cloaked with suggestions that you will not remember so that that information of that experience can not be used in a detrimental way on your planet. your plan. Could they tell it? They could they? They could. They can't tell it. They're in a way. They can't even cover up, in a way, in a way that they cannot access. In a way that they cannot access. They've got that technology from the grains, though, right? grade, though, right? And it was developed in other ways. But yes, some of it came from, some of those interactions, yes. Do you see, are any grades? Hmm. Okay. Anything else? Number one? Yes. So, so, so, okay, are they still mostly the grades that I'm interacting with? In general, although there are other. You have many other. different kinds of connections as well. We will go into them at some other time. Syrian and Arthurian, right? As we have already mentioned, but there are a few others as well. Okay. One moment, one moment, one moment. You are also one of us. In our contemporary time frame. Thank you, Michelle. I asked you that before can you... and you didn't have that information. I asked you, what do I do on your planet? Now is the time. I, yeah, I'm doing you. Now is the timing for you to awaken to more of that connection. Okay. Does this serve you?

few others as well. Okay. One moment, one moment, one moment. You are also one of us. In our contemporary time frame. Thank you, Michelle. I asked you that before can you... and you didn't have that information. I asked you, what do I do on your planet? Now is the time. I, yeah, I'm doing you. Now is the timing for you to awaken to more of that connection. Okay. Does this serve you? Is this, sir? Yes, sir. Can I do something for other questions? Oh, I suppose you could. Um. And I shall have questions. And they will be interesting as well. Thank you. I'll have nothing to do with it. At least not that. Sometimes, well, I didn't notice it before, like, almost a year ago, not quite a year ago. But I was looking at the star series and does dance. If I look at the stars, I dance. Now maybe other people know this phenomenon. Sometimes it will see. simply be a matter of the idea of your eye motion creating that illusion. Okay. Sometimes it will be an aberration of the atmosphere as the light passes through it. Really? Yeah. More often the doctor will find that will simply be a nervous reaction of the eyeball. Okay. And I want to get back to a few months ago when we were talking about corn, how it's both of this world and not of this world. It is a hybrid. And tell me, it's so beneficial for us to eat it. There are beneficial... If you are aligned with certain frequencies, yes. For individuals who may be going through certain processes that are not aligned with that frequency, no, it would be detrimental. But you are aligned. Thank you. And that is another very strong clue for another energy you can access from another angle altogether. I am... Looking into eating, you know, like some corn comes de-germs and d... Yes, but we're not really now talking about the corn specifically. We're talking about the energy that the corn symbolizes to you and has for many lifetime. Yes. Is there any more clues in that direction? I feel I've got your concept. It starts with a letter K. Do you know it? Which do you prefer? Kachina or Kelton? I agree. Let you. Anything else? Yeah. Yeah. I have questions on how do you scan the energy? How do you see it? I wonder when you scan energy. I would like to scan energy. I would like to scan energy. You are? All of you are. Remember, telepathy is in vibrational identification. The more that you are in love with all things, the more synchronous and harmonious you will be with them and you will know them. In that sense, then understand, to love them is to know them. You understand that's how it works and that's why we say it is not telepathy, it is telemathy. Make sense to you?

like to scan energy. You are? All of you are. Remember, telepathy is in vibrational identification. The more that you are in love with all things, the more synchronous and harmonious you will be with them and you will know them. In that sense, then understand, to love them is to know them. You understand that's how it works and that's why we say it is not telepathy, it is telemathy. Make sense to you? It makes a lot of sense. Telempathy. The vibration is the vibrational... It makes me want to already lead to you my story of my interaction. You may do so at some time in the future. Fine with you. Number two. Sure. Good day. Good day to you. And you as well. I was watching... I was watching... probably a couple weeks ago and there was a documentary on the history of rock and roll. History of rock and rock. All right, understood. And I saw the documentary footage of an event called Woodstock. Woodstock. All right, understood. It took place in 1969. Understood. Scanning a human consciousness at that time, could you sort of discuss or shed some insights on what you thought? insights on what you thought that was all about? It was the beginning of a cycle that will have its polar opposite in your upcoming year, of course, as you already know. 69, 96. In other words, the idea is that as you began that cycle of energy back then, of what you would recognize as freedom of choice, will begin to play a much more important role in your realities in 1996 as you count time. There will be a further breakdown of many of the structural institutions around the world that are representative of lack of freedom of choice. Thus 96 will be a pivotal point of acceleration of the breakdown of old paradigms and structures on your planet. One more quick question. As I'm beginning to meditate more and trust my intuition. Oh, thank you so it's very much. I'm beginning to... I'm beginning to... have vision of being a young child and there was this beautiful willow tree by our house. I remember now, I'm not sure if I'm seeing lights, I'm not sure there were interactions, I'm not sure if there were extraterrestrial meetings or something. You maybe define what they were. They were interaction and you are beginning to remember. Okay. It's all you can know that. This is true. We thank you. Thank you. Number three. Good day. Good day to you. I'm going to start off. You go right ahead. That's a good place to begin. A couple of weeks ago, during meditation, I had in touch this energy of a male child who is Samuel that I do it 12 years. Oh, yeah. And... And... Still acting as a speeded guy. Yes. I would like to know if whose energy has kind of been reincarnated into a present life.

Good day. Good day to you. I'm going to start off. You go right ahead. That's a good place to begin. A couple of weeks ago, during meditation, I had in touch this energy of a male child who is Samuel that I do it 12 years. Oh, yeah. And... And... Still acting as a speeded guy. Yes. I would like to know if whose energy has kind of been reincarnated into a present life. Again, remember that the concept of spirit existence and incarnation is a simultaneous phenomenology. You will forever be capable of contacting the entity in spirit, even if they have experienced the concept of, quote unquote, reincarnation, because re-incarnation is a fallacy. It is multiple simultaneous. incarnation and every entity is its own discrete autonomous entity and it isn't exactly the same entity having another life. It is a completely new projection and creation of the oversaw to which both of those physical entities belong. So, to answer your question, yes and no. The entity is in fact 12 years old and still accessible in spirit, simultaneous. Wisconsin. content is where the child is. A boy of 12. Right. And, um... I don't know if you're going, can't... I don't know if the... One moment. Yes. Although you may find that there is also another name, we do not know if it is a family name associated with the first name of Samuel. We do not know if the Samuel is the last name, but there is another name associated that would be in your name. vernacular Toby. And when I make the contact with the energy, I... Stop! woman! Do you have, in your culture, familiarity with what you would call an art form known as comic book. Do you have a favorite one? Have you always had a favorite one? No. I know it's comic books, but I don't read them currently. I did not say it currently, necessarily. Did you have, in your youth, any particular attraction or affiliation? I have, yeah. What? Who? It's Calvin. It's a little kid, town and calm. Every time you thus read, you are making a strong connection to the incarnated Samuel and to the Spirit as well. It is a symbol being reflected by that entity as containing the appropriate vibration to make a connection between all three. You, the incarnated version, and the spiritual version as well. Spirit will use any device that works. that works. Right. And I know that I can now contact with a small connection. The connection is always there. If you want to be aware of it, you can be. Exactly. The other thing that I would like to ask you is, through my own growth, I have affected certain fears onto my dog and she was getting an eye infection, but I had talked to you about an infection that I actually had on my eyes. That my dog was reflected a couple of months ago. That went away.

connection is always there. If you want to be aware of it, you can be. Exactly. The other thing that I would like to ask you is, through my own growth, I have affected certain fears onto my dog and she was getting an eye infection, but I had talked to you about an infection that I actually had on my eyes. That my dog was reflected a couple of months ago. That went away. And in the last 10 days, my dog has got another eye infection. And... This may simply be your repetitive methodology for seeing in a new way. You may simply be using the same mechanism over and over again to see new things, and the new things and the animal is reflecting for you that aspect of the energy that perhaps would manifest in you in that way were the animal not siphoning it off for you and allowing you to benefit from the more positive side of that mechanism. You understand? Yes, but I had Gary, who's in the geology on May of the class today. Gary, yes. And when he said that I was holding on to this dogmatic, idea that was something of my older sister. Which would be what? I, um... How do you feel about your older sister? How do you relate to her? What do you define your relationship to be to her? In the past, as children, we didn't have a relationship. You had some kind of relationship. Right, it was good. Um... Even if it involved never speaking, that's the relationship. No, I don't want to go as far as saying it was painful, but we didn't enjoy each other. You were displeased with each other. Right. Well, that was intensely displeased. And now, in the present, we love each other, and I feel a lot of joy being with her. Is there any resentment? She has been resentful of me, yeah. Are you resentful? She resents you? I mean, I don't feel I'm resentful. I might say... What are you, then? Yes. That I'm hurt by it. I say that... In what way hurt? Rejection. All right. Resentment, rejection. Why do you feel rejected? Do you feel rejected now? Are you saying that you feel rejected because of how she behaved toward you in the past? Yes. She no longer behaved that way toward you. Absolutely, and I don't feel rejected. I'm saying in the past that that is what I could have. But you do not feel rejected now. No. Do you feel that she holds any resentment now? Not that I am aware of it. Oh, why. One more. One more. And your mother. Is that a different story? Yes. Part of it is, is that the sister does to some degree reflect some of the attributes of your mother to you.

feel rejected. I'm saying in the past that that is what I could have. But you do not feel rejected now. No. Do you feel that she holds any resentment now? Not that I am aware of it. Oh, why. One more. One more. And your mother. Is that a different story? Yes. Part of it is, is that the sister does to some degree reflect some of the attributes of your mother to you. You are clothing her lightly, but still doing it, in the guise of your mother, in certain circumstances where you are triggered to do so. That is what you need to see. That's the dog. dog, ma, that it's being a lot. I don't understand? I'm not excited because when in the community I said to Gary, if I'm holding on to any belief that doesn't serve me, it would be a belief of my mother. Or what? Or most. Then when you get in touch with that, you will then allow yourself more more opportunity for more delightful super eyeing. One last thing. One laugh thing. Here we are at the end of creation. The omega of existence itself. Everyone pay attention. This is the last thing that's ever going to happen anywhere at any time. Yes. Well, this is the last time you're going to be in this moment. going to be in this moment. So what I am saying, Yes. In high school. High school. Hi school. Yes. Um, when you're talking about the one you all attend when you dream, or the one on earth? Yeah, I have one on earth. Oh, all right. As a child, I always felt. Feel. That I would wake up in the middle of the night. the middle of the night and I would have a sense that there was something in the room. Yes. And now I know that it probably was. And still is. And still is. Yes. And that experience always stayed with me. And so it stayed. In high school, I gave myself a pen name. Pen name. Yes. Yes, I understand. And so it was, or is? And I created a name. created a name called Tamara E. Fantas. And what it's good for was the knowledge that there was always a tomorrow. Yes. The E was for eternity and tomorrow was to represent tomorrow. And that Fantas was to represent myself as a dream. You mean Fanta C. And that is the name that I wrote by. And I just realized recently that that I had that information for such a young age. Yes. You all do. But very often, no offense, your high school drums it out of you. Well, this is what happened. I feel like now I'm like going back to the knowledge. The real high school when you dream. And... You all attend classes often in your dream. Um... You might call it a re-education program.

wrote by. And I just realized recently that that I had that information for such a young age. Yes. You all do. But very often, no offense, your high school drums it out of you. Well, this is what happened. I feel like now I'm like going back to the knowledge. The real high school when you dream. And... You all attend classes often in your dream. Um... You might call it a re-education program. The thing is, I'm not, I've asked for conscious participation. You will eventually get it when it is appropriate to your own agenda. Okay. I have had the feeling that I have been impregnated and have had um... Oh, you've had that feeling? Yeah. Well, tell me, what does that feel like? It's very strange. Because I feel like as if my body was pregnant. Yes. And so? So, it's a disconcerning, concerning feeling to feel that your body's pregnant and then is not. Why is that disconcerning? For me, I guess, because my life experience to have children and I haven't... I haven't physically had that. But it gives you an opportunity to get in touch with the ones in fact that you have had that do not reside with you on the planet, that you will meet again, as many of you will. And can you tell me how many that happened? There are variations of genetic material that have been utilized for the procreation of different hybrid beings. But in terms of the ones that contain the most... the most approximation of your genetic material, the ones you would more or less recognize that as your own site. One moment. One moment. Remember, just as an aid and an assistance to you. We understand the process that you are, in fact, experiencing. At the same time, you can remember that everything is going on in your life, is a part of the orchestration that will eventually make sense to the you you are becoming. And as part of the overall orchestration, when you allow yourself to realize that, you will not become disconnected from your concert. All right. Thank you. Okay. Good guy. Hi, how are you? And you? Pretty good. Pretty good. All right. Um. Well, I've got a couple questions. One, I've never asked this before, but I think it's time. The right timing. Oh, alright, if you would exist. Oh, I'd exist, but it's just it. Thank you. Um, I have seen for a number of years at the corner of my eye, a woman in my large mirror in my dining area. I think she was at my other apartment in the same mirror, but I don't remember since in a while. And the interesting thing is is that I've been thinking about this mirror because I had it made a certain shape. Yeah, I think it's eight-sided. One, two... Are you saying octagonal? I think that's what it is. I think that's what it is.

eye, a woman in my large mirror in my dining area. I think she was at my other apartment in the same mirror, but I don't remember since in a while. And the interesting thing is is that I've been thinking about this mirror because I had it made a certain shape. Yeah, I think it's eight-sided. One, two... Are you saying octagonal? I think that's what it is. I think that's what it is. I'm pretty sure it's eight. Because they did it, they did it incorrectly to what I told them, but it turned out that it has a lot of, I guess, metaphysical spiritual meaning, so I guess it's probably the eight ones. Oh, all right, if you get. Well, anyway, that's just a little extra. Oh, thank you. I had it specially made, it's like, um, had beveled us and smoked, smoking around the edge. And mirrors are very strong. trigger tools for the psychic energy of most of you to help put you in touch with the spirit realm. Yeah. Well, the interesting thing is, me, you know, being in metaphysics and having channel, you know, and all that. Oh, all that. And I find that I've been afraid of this figure I see, so I have to pretend like it's not there. What is it that you are afraid of? Well, I thought it's me. So what are you afraid of within yourself? Well, I don't know if it is me, but that's the feeling I got, so I guess it must be so. It is you. What are you afraid of? What are you afraid to see within yourself? Oh, lots of things like that. Oh, lots of things. Oh, all right. Name one. Well, on the positive side, I'm afraid to see myself work. On the positive side, I am afraid to see myself work. We have to take a moment to make sure that we had translated that correctly. Well, self-worth being a positive thing is where... Yes, I understand. Why are you afraid to see your self-work? Or if I may really turn this around in another direction, if you're afraid to see it, how do you know you have any? That's the whole thing. Yes, I know. That's the whole thing. How do you know you have any to see? Is that what you're actually afraid of? That if you look for yourself worth, you might actually find out you don't have any? Is that what you actually mean? Oh, for sure. Oh, what? Why don't have to go to therapy now? You are in therapy, right now? That's what I mean. It's like that you just really hit the nail on this head. Why find you? I am terrified. I have no value whatsoever to me. Well, you know what? If that were fundamentally true, you and I wouldn't be having this conversation because you wouldn't exist. You've told me that one before.

Oh, for sure. Oh, what? Why don't have to go to therapy now? You are in therapy, right now? That's what I mean. It's like that you just really hit the nail on this head. Why find you? I am terrified. I have no value whatsoever to me. Well, you know what? If that were fundamentally true, you and I wouldn't be having this conversation because you wouldn't exist. You've told me that one before. Of course you have to tell it to yourself for it to have any meaning. Right. So why are you motivated to believe that you are unworthy? I don't know. Yes, you do. I do know. Yes. What motivation? What do you get out of? perpetuating a belief you don't prefer. I can't tell any. I can't. And if you don't shine, then what? I don't... Is it all hinged on the idea again that you are afraid to find out that if you allow yourself to be you, that still you will not be validated? I don't see it so. If you allow yourself to shine, are you afraid no one will see you? Are you afraid you won't really shine? That I think that's more... All right. Again, same mechanism. But what motivates you to think that way? What do you get out of remaining in that state? You must be getting something out of it or you wouldn't be motivated to be in that state. All right. More comfortable than what you think it will take to shine. Which means you have a definition that shining is difficult. Who taught you about? I guess all the people that I've looked up to, you know, and respected and thought would be great, magnificent expressions of life. It looks like they work damn hard. You put a lot of effort, energy into it, and we're in a public eye all the time. I mean, like, all this... So what attributes are you connecting to your ability to shine that are attributes you don't prefer to have, but are assuming you must have if you shine? Yeah, run that by me again. What attributes did you observe in them that you? in them that you think go hand in hand with shining that you don't want to have and think you have to have if you shine. Because you can define shining however you wish to. You don't have to have attributes that you don't prefer just because other people who shone had them. I guess it's all this damn hard work, years and years before they actually became these people that everybody respects and had a, you know, like you think of Lincoln, you know, Abraham Lincoln and he lived, you know, four, and he went through all the people. hard stuff. And then finally he got respected and admired. You know, just anybody like that. Why do you care? Why do I care? Yes. Why do you care so much? That's the difficulty.

hard work, years and years before they actually became these people that everybody respects and had a, you know, like you think of Lincoln, you know, Abraham Lincoln and he lived, you know, four, and he went through all the people. hard stuff. And then finally he got respected and admired. You know, just anybody like that. Why do you care? Why do I care? Yes. Why do you care so much? That's the difficulty. You care too much that that's what you think you need. I care too much. About those things. About being recognized. About being recognized? Yes. You don't allow yourself to recognize yourself because you care too much about being recognized. That's the paradox. It is a paradox because low self-worth is the reason why somebody would care so much about what other people think. No. It's the other way around. Caring too much about being recognized is what generates low self-work. Well, how do you break... I'm sorry, how do you break the frickin' pattern of that? It's the same way you break the frackin line. All right. I don't know. It begins. It ends with self-realization. Again, you get to the heart of the definition itself. You get to the understanding that you are motivated. It's a choice. Once you begin to understand it's a choice. You begin to question what the motivation is for making that choice. You begin to redefine your basic principle, definitional parameter, your fundamental one about what you have given meaning to and how you might like to change the meaning in everything that you know. So you go back to zero. You grow up all over again. You raise yourself from scratch. Start with zero. Blank. Nothing has any meaning. Zero. No meaning built into it at all. Everything is neutral. Neutral. neutral. Then you decide from moment to moment each little thing, each big thing, each component you create each and every detail you discover you have given meaning to. Ask yourself if the meaning you have assigned is the meaning you prefer to assign. And start to recognize that only the meaning you have assigned is what creates the effect you are getting and the feedback you are feeling. So, zero it out, flatten it all out, neutralize it. No meaning, nothing means anything in particular. They are devoid of meaning. They are shells, props, illusions, ethereal phantas, of an idea, of a concept of a notion. Is that vague enough for you? Oh, it's great when you do it. Ah, ah, ah, ah, ah. Listen to yourself now. You can only be experiencing what I am saying if you are creating me in your reality to say it to yourself. So you are doing this. You are saying this to yourself. You are not experiencing me directly. Right. You are creating your version of me in order to give yourself permission to be powerful enough to know what you know you want to be true.

ah, ah, ah, ah. Listen to yourself now. You can only be experiencing what I am saying if you are creating me in your reality to say it to yourself. So you are doing this. You are saying this to yourself. You are not experiencing me directly. Right. You are creating your version of me in order to give yourself permission to be powerful enough to know what you know you want to be true. You said that to me once before you. You said it to yourself. I said it to you once. I remember, which is myself, that I feel like when I'm in your presence I give myself permission to look at things in a different perspective than I normally. And the idea, therefore, is that you're doing it. It's your energy, you're feeling. It's your presence, your feeling. Whatever it is you are assigning to me is actually. yourself because that's the only way you could be perceiving it in the reality you are. See, that's great because how I perceive you, which is a reflection of myself written in here, is that I think so much of you, and I have such love and such a bond, and I just... Then you do, in fact, think that way about yourself, but you have created a mechanism that makes it appear to be indirect. Right. Allow it to be the direct mechanism it is. The way you is say you feel about me is the way at your core you actually believe to be true about yourself, all you have to do is recognize that that's what you're doing. It is a definition and a definition of reality only that makes it appear to be an indirect recognition of yourself through me apparently. Now allow it to be a recognition of yourself transparent. Transparently. Transparent. Not through me, apparently, but of yourself directly, transparently. Without needing to put up something else. Yes, without projecting it out there to me. Because there's nothing out here. This is a mirror. A mirror. Reality is a perfect mirror. Perfect. One hundred percent perfect mirror. A perfect reflection. What that means is a perfect mirror. is there's nothing out here. Just like a glass mirror contains none of the light. It's all reflected back. That's why there is a reflection. Because the mirror holds on to none of it. It directs it all directly back at you. Showing you who you are, what you are, what you look like. So, that's what this is. You are looking in a mirror. If you see me, And you see that I am capable, and I am loving, and I am confident. You are looking in a mirror. All you have to do is wake up to that fact. And you will recognize that everything you have ever felt about me, you feel about you. And that is true, just as true as anything else you have ever felt.

what this is. You are looking in a mirror. If you see me, And you see that I am capable, and I am loving, and I am confident. You are looking in a mirror. All you have to do is wake up to that fact. And you will recognize that everything you have ever felt about me, you feel about you. And that is true, just as true as anything else you have ever felt. It seems for me that I only allow myself. It does not seem anything you choose. Okay. I have allowed myself only at certain circumstances at a certain time. Yes, yes, yes, yes. But there you are. You have solved it in that sentence. I have only allowed. Well, if that's true, which it is, then why not allow something you prefer? Because when you recognize that it is because you have allowed it, you are in control of what you experience. And therefore you can experience what you prefer by allowing that. that? Yes. So... Yes. If you want to keep talking to yourself, go ahead. That's been fine. I'll talk to myself. I'm going to do it a lot. I have explored these concepts in different times, different levels. Yes. And I found that if you still... Ah, ah, ah, ah. You are choosing. Choosing. Choosing. There is nothing, nothing, nothing any of you do, but by choice. It is that you can create in your reality what might appear to be an unconscious choice, but once you recognize the reality, once the reality is being reflected back to you by the perfect mirror of nothingness around you, it is conscious. No longer a habit. So why does it seem so hard and it's scary to me? Because it's your definition. It's your definition. It's your definition. choice of definition. Why does the sky look blue? Why does any object look the color that it does when you hold up a red glass or a blue glass or a yellow glass and look through it? Why do things look yellow? Why do things look red? Why do things look blue? So you're saying I've defined the process of something hard and scary. Exactly. And that's all it is is is a definition. But a definition is reality. Right. Therefore, it has weight, it has solidity, it has momentum, it has inertia, it has parameters that you have allowed it to have because of your definition. But that's the only reason it has them. There is nothing inherently real about the circumstance. It is only definitionally real, but that's what reality is. I remember a long time ago you told me that, I think it was my work situation. You were saying that the only reason that it was that way is because I believe like it was carved in gold. like it was carved in granite, but it had to be that way. Nothing's carved in granite. Nothing's carved in stone.

inherently real about the circumstance. It is only definitionally real, but that's what reality is. I remember a long time ago you told me that, I think it was my work situation. You were saying that the only reason that it was that way is because I believe like it was carved in gold. like it was carved in granite, but it had to be that way. Nothing's carved in granite. Nothing's carved in stone. Nothing's carved anywhere. Right. Except in your consciousness. I got that. That's the funny is because the reason I got up a lady in the mirror and I wanted to bring something light and not as heavy as the other thing I was going to bring up and it turned out to see. This is all made of light. Watch your definition. You have just given it right there. Wait. Right. You have just defined this. and heavy. This is a very light conversation for us. And by us, I mean you and I. Oh, okay. I like that. Then believe in it by believing in yourself. Thank you. Well put. Sure. Sash. Sures. Sufficient. The shard. You. Greetings. Not you. You. Good day. And good day. The first time I was. communicating I'm going to physically. Well, we thank you for allowing us to communicate with you in this way for the first time. Thank you. I'd like to know if you could give him some information about the relationship with Jeff. What do you define your relationship with this death individual to be? At the moment in a state of breaking up or having broken up. Is that one of the 50 states of your country? Perhaps the 50 first? I think it's a state of relationship. All right. Breaking up. What is it that you have learned about yourself in the relationship? Because that's what the relationship is for. That's what all relationships are for. To learn more about who you are and become more of yourself. So what have you learned about yourself in this relationship? That I have been operating in great in the relationship. I'm not conscious choice. All right. Is that something that you prefer to continue to do? No. All right. Thank you, Bayla. Are you now saying that you have the opportunity to recognize that there are different things that you may prefer than you used to? Yes. Do those things that you now prefer make it seem that the relationship as it was is now more incompatible? Well, that's actually. Well, that's where it's confusing for me, because... In what sense? There are certain things about the relationship that have definitely been not comfortable, not pleasant, not enjoyable. Yes, so... There are other things that show up periodically about the relationship that are absolutely phenomenal. Do you know what the word holistic means? Yes. Do you not think a relationship should be holistic? holistic? Yes.

as it was is now more incompatible? Well, that's actually. Well, that's where it's confusing for me, because... In what sense? There are certain things about the relationship that have definitely been not comfortable, not pleasant, not enjoyable. Yes, so... There are other things that show up periodically about the relationship that are absolutely phenomenal. Do you know what the word holistic means? Yes. Do you not think a relationship should be holistic? holistic? Yes. The idea is that you can certainly serve each other by reflecting to each other, the opportunity to become more of yourself and to change should each person in the relationship choose to change. But you can also arrive at a recognitional level in any relationship where you might in fact recognize that that the vibration of one individual and the vibration of another individual is no longer synchronized. If you come to a place where you recognize that you have gone beyond your preferential level of reflectivity in helping the other individual have time to change or get in touch with what they need to get in touch with to make certain changes to become more harmonious, and you've gone beyond that threshold, then your duty to yourself and your duty to the other individual and your duty to the relationship truly out of love is to be your true self and allow the consequences of that truth to allow the relationship to change in the way that it must change. the way that it must change, which is the way it will actually serve all the individuals involved. And to recognize that an individual relationship that does not contain things that are representative of your preference and does not contain an opportunity to work with those things within the threshold of your preferential modality is not a holistic relationship anyway. If you are not you, and that individual is not who he is in truth, you're not in a relationship with him anyway. You follow? So the idea is to recognize that if that individual did change to become more synchronized and harmonious with your preferences and vice versa, you wouldn't really be the same people anyway, would you? Right. So what difference does it make whether it's actually physically another person that comes into your life or not? Because if another person comes into your life and they are reflective of an energy that you feel more compatible, with, believe me, you won't care that it's not Jeff. Right. You understand? Be yourself or there is no relationship. And if that individual does change, he is a different person. And that's what's been happening. He has been changing. Then what is your complaint? That he's changing, he's becoming more of who I really want to be with. to be with, but he's saying that he doesn't want to be with me. And do you prefer someone in your relationship who says they don't want to be with you? No.

there is no relationship. And if that individual does change, he is a different person. And that's what's been happening. He has been changing. Then what is your complaint? That he's changing, he's becoming more of who I really want to be with. to be with, but he's saying that he doesn't want to be with me. And do you prefer someone in your relationship who says they don't want to be with you? No. Then that is something that is outside your preference. And it is a lesson for you to get in touch with the idea of how to unconditionally love yourself and allow your reality to reflect to you by attracting it to you an individual or individuals who would, in fact, want to interact with you. You follow? You follow? But obviously this is bringing up issues for you that are allowing you to get in touch with programming and things that have been implanted within you since childhood. The reason why you have attracted an individual that you love so much, who appears, strongly underlined that word, appears to be rejecting you, is because you have an issue with rejection. And that's what that individual is, is unconditionally lovingly helping you to realize. Because that's what you need to work with to become home. You follow? Yes. If that individual did not point that out to you, you would be acting in a relationship in what you typically call a dysfunctional manner, having someone who is only there to reinforce all the things that don't represent the way you actually want to be as a whole person. So it is serving you to have someone do this to you at this time, this time because it's putting you squarely in touch with an issue that you need to integrate in order to become more holistic and therefore the relationship is working perfectly. Because that's what relationships are for. He is actually being a friend even though he may not know it. Oh, yeah, I know. And even though you may not know it. I do know it. And again the paradox and the point is that as soon as you allow yourself to get in touch with the energy that is being pointed out to you in that way, it is possible that once there is no longer a reason for that energy to be sent to you, that way, because you have integrated it, he might change. But don't expect it. Because again, it won't matter whether it's him or not. The idea is that you will become a more whole vibration, you will thus automatically attract all situations that are more reflective and more representative of the whole vibration you are being. Remember, if you believe negatively that you need someone else in order to be more complete, then you will only attract individuals to be more. reflect to you your belief in your incomplete.

Because again, it won't matter whether it's him or not. The idea is that you will become a more whole vibration, you will thus automatically attract all situations that are more reflective and more representative of the whole vibration you are being. Remember, if you believe negatively that you need someone else in order to be more complete, then you will only attract individuals to be more. reflect to you your belief in your incomplete. It doesn't mean that you cannot learn and grow new ways and new things in a relationship. But the paradox is that you have to allow yourself to know you are whole fundamentally in order to attract someone who can be willing to reflect back to you the willingness to work toward the recognition of that whole. I've known this intellectual, I guess it's not much something to get it to get an experience. If you have not known it intellectually and experienced it. experientially both, you have not yet known it. Allow yourself to know you haven't known it because that will remove a big burden off your shoulders. Thinking that just because you've got it intellectually, you are supposed to understand it on all other levels of all at once. You know it or you don't know it. And that's all there is to it. And if you don't know it, let it be all right to say, you know, I don't know this. I don't get it yet, but I will. It's all right to not know. Most of you will actually paradoxically find that most of your troubles would vanish overnight if you would just let yourselves be all right with saying, I don't know this stuff. Then you would stop working so hard and thinking that you're supposed to. And then you would just live. And then just by living the experiences you have when you're in that kind of open, honest state would actually allow you to know more than you. more than you know. You follow? Is this hope? Yes, it is. To learn to love yourself unconditionally enough to allow what is going on in your life to be all right as it is, so that what is going on in your life as it is, can be transformed by you into a way that is more reflective of your knowing self. You understand? I believe that. If you don't let what is, however it's how it is, be all right be the thing that needs to be happening.