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Know Your Valid And The Great Paradox Of Self invalidation Bashar Nexus Point

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Part 1

Hi, Bashar. And are you good day? It's nice to connect. Speak up and be bold so that all may hear what you have to say. It's nice to connect with you. Speak up and be bold so that all may hear what you have to say. It's nice to connect with you again. All right. I have a question. How can I best help humanity at this time? Did we not answer this? You did. And was that not sufficient? I guess not. All right. Why not? Why is following your highest excitement to the best of your ability with no expectation or insistence on a specific outcome not sufficient for you to know that you are helping humanity the best you possibly can by being your fullest self? Why is that not sufficient? How can I help more in a physical sense? Well, how do you want to help? I don't know. Yes, you do. I don't want to just send out positive intention. Then don't. How do you want to physically act? And remember, when we talk about the idea of acting on your highest joy, we're not talking about sitting around and sending out thoughts. We're talking about taking actions, physical grounding actions, because you are having a physical experience. Therefore, the idea of your intention in some ways needs to be grounded, like a circuit, in order for the energy to float through you to the earth, to your physical reality experience. So, of course, it requires the idea, in many cases, of a physical action to complete the circuit. But the idea is that the idea. is it's up to your own imagination to decide what you're excited to do. The point is, is at any given moment, it may be a different thing. Whatever is the most exciting thing you can actually take physical action on that has come to you as an option, as an inspiration, as an opportunity, is the thing to act on at that moment. And in the next moment, wherever that leads you, it will lead you to something else. And it may be a very different action that you will take at that point. But the point is that all you have to do is look around for whatever physical opportunities are available. to you that you can see right now and just start acting on the ones that contain the highest excitement. And if you do that, it will lead you to the next one. And it will give you the ability to be capable of seeing more and more opportunities. Because remember, if you're not in that state now, if you're not taking action in that state now, you're not actually giving yourself the ability to be able to perceive. You understand this? Yeah. All right. So, name one thing. Anything. Sending out positive energy. No, I said action. Action. You are the one that brought up the idea of actually taking a physical act.

Part 2

ability to be capable of seeing more and more opportunities. Because remember, if you're not in that state now, if you're not taking action in that state now, you're not actually giving yourself the ability to be able to perceive. You understand this? Yeah. All right. So, name one thing. Anything. Sending out positive energy. No, I said action. Action. You are the one that brought up the idea of actually taking a physical act. We understand you're already sending out as much energy as you would like. We understand that you're already radiating the idea. But it has to be grounded with action, and that's what you actually asked for. So use your imagination to see yourself helping in some way, even if it's what you now call small. You're getting some help from the audience. Speaking to other people. Speaking to other people about what? Spirituality. And in what way will you do this? How will you go about speaking to other people about spirituality? Gently. It's the people that don't believe or that I'm wanting to... May I ask you a question? Okay. Do you need them to believe as you do? No, no, no, no. I'm just trying to help them to awaken. You are what? Help them to awaken. And if they don't want to? That's fine. All right. Then again, what is it that you would like to do? When we said how would you go about it, we meant describe the actual physical steps you would take in your imagination to speak to people. We didn't mean describe like gently. We meant, are you going to rent a hall? and advertise and stand on a stage and speak to people. Describe the physical acts that go with this intention. That would be fine. Then why didn't you say that? Because I hadn't thought of that. But you had. Had I? Yes. Because that's what we're reflecting back to you. Again, you're simply in denial of what's already in your imagination because you are making it seem as if it's it seems as if it's not big enough, but it is. Anything that you imagine you can do that excites you is big enough. You understand? Yeah, thank you. And turn it into physical action. Look at the physical steps. And again, take those physical steps without any assumption that it has to lead to what you think it will lead to. Right. Because it may actually lead to something better than you imagine. You understand? So don't limit it, but take the steps. Yes? Yes. Now, do you believe that you're capable of using your imagination to actually take those physical steps? Yes. Are you sure? Okay. Yes. All right, all right, that's all right. Take your time. So you want to describe any other way in which you think it's exciting to be of help to humanity? Maybe I'm looking for someone to tell me. Why? As a validation. Why?

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don't limit it, but take the steps. Yes? Yes. Now, do you believe that you're capable of using your imagination to actually take those physical steps? Yes. Are you sure? Okay. Yes. All right, all right, that's all right. Take your time. So you want to describe any other way in which you think it's exciting to be of help to humanity? Maybe I'm looking for someone to tell me. Why? As a validation. Why? Why would someone else telling you something be more valid than what you are telling yourself? That's the real question here. To see if there's really a need for it. No. Do you not believe that you are valid? Sometimes. And sometimes not, yes? Well, we're dealing with the part where it's sometimes not. Because don't you prefer to know that you are valid all the time? Yes. Well, then what prevents you from knowing you are valid all the time? Me. And what specifically? What belief do you have about yourself? What definition do you have about yourself that says you are not constantly valid? Outside forces. Outside forces. Such as? People telling me I'm inadequate. Oh, all right. And why do you choose to believe them? I'm trying not to. But why do you choose to? I don't know. Yes, you do. As I already explained to someone else, if you are playing victim, it's because you believe you're getting something out of it. That's totally right. Yes, I know. I learned a lot from that. But if you're tired of that game, you don't have to play it anymore, and you don't have to listen to anyone who offers you that option. It's just an option. It's just an idea. It's not empirically true. That's what you're afraid of. You're afraid to explore this, and you're closing your eyes to things that are right in front of your face and not seeing them because you are afraid that if you actually explore the idea of the definition, that you're not valid. You might actually, at the end of that exploration, discover that it's true. It's not and can never be. Do you understand? Because if it were true that you were truly invalid, you wouldn't exist. Do you understand that logic? Yes. Stop arguing with creation. If you were not valid, you wouldn't have been created. Stop arguing. arguing with creation. Because that's what you're doing. And remember, remember, please, the great paradox in the idea of self-invalidation. Many people on your planet, when they shrink into the idea of self-invalidation, think, based on what other people are saying, think that they are actually demonstrating humbleness and humility, when in fact it's the ultimate arrogance. I, out of all, of creation, am unworthy. How arrogant is that? So you see, it's not even humbleness to feel that you are invalid.

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doing. And remember, remember, please, the great paradox in the idea of self-invalidation. Many people on your planet, when they shrink into the idea of self-invalidation, think, based on what other people are saying, think that they are actually demonstrating humbleness and humility, when in fact it's the ultimate arrogance. I, out of all, of creation, am unworthy. How arrogant is that? So you see, it's not even humbleness to feel that you are invalid. You are actually standing out in a way that is not in alignment with your true self and contrary to the idea of harmony and love. Do you understand? Yes. So, if you don't prefer to be able to, to be arrogant, then stop trying to be humble. Just be who you are. And natural humility, and natural expression, and natural confidence will find their natural balance within you. And regardless of what anyone else chooses to say to you, you decide what's true for you. You can thank them for their advice. can thank them for the idea and the opportunity to consider that you might not be valid. But I've done that. I've played that game. I've been there. I've done that. No, thank you. I am moving into something else. And at the same time, you can recognize that the only reason someone else would want to even attempt to make you feel inadequate is because they feel inadequate. And misery loves company. Do you understand? Totally. So, recognize the game. Those that need to make you feel inadequate, feel inadequate themselves. So have compassion for them and show them by your choice to be who you are, they can choose self-empowerment too. Not that they have to. And thus then by truly actually accepting yourself and allowing yourself to actually be who you prefer to be, that's how you help humanity. Yes? Yes. All right. Does that help you then? Tremendously. I just have one. All right. Small question. Oh, small. Teeny, tiny questions. Small little humble question. If it's not too much trouble, Bashar. Yes. Okay, I have a really big question. Thank you. Who in spirit has been trying to get in touch with me? No one has been trying. Your guides are always sending. Your guides are always sending. And the idea is you just need to know you are always capable of receiving, but sometimes you choose not to. And that's all right, but they are always sending. And what they are sending is similar to what we are now saying to you, because the whole. whole point of a guide's job is to teach you that you are your own best guide. Make sense? Yes. Stop relying on others. You can choose to have advice, but don't rely on others for the truth of yourself that you know to be true. All right? All right. Thank you. Thank you.