Three Absolutes (Part 2 of 3)

people from a distance for probably as long as I've been here on this planet. And I've had people offer me money and they've flown me to Russia and all over the world actually as a healer. All right. I've never felt good about taking money ever. Why? I don't know. When you were talking earlier about what excites you the most, what excites me the most is to be able to help people in the best way that I can. All right. But what about you being helped? Well, that's right. So I was curious because what I would love to do is be healers. All right, all right, all right, all right. Start with healing yourself. Understand that there are many forms of abundance. Now, in a sense, what you call money on your planet can be one of the representative forms of abundance. It will not always require that money be in your life to allow you to do what you need to do. You can be supported in many different ways. If someone is simply willing, in a sense, to put you up in their place, to give you food, to share with you many of the things that it might otherwise require money to get, then certainly you can take that as a form of abundance in lieu of the concept of money. But at the same time, for many individuals, the gesture of sharing the money is the only thing that really represents to them the idea of equal exchange. For you, in a sense, to really refuse that beyond a certain point, is not allowing yourself to allow the situation to be balanced. Do you understand? Yes. There is nothing wrong with the acceptance. There is nothing wrong with the receiving if you are giving a gift. The idea that people might be willing to do that out of love is an indication to you that the universe is attempting to support you in return for the love that you are willing to give. Do you understand? Yes, that makes sense. Again, it doesn't always have to come in the form of money, but sometimes that is what will allow another individual to really feel that they really are returning to you a gift. Thank you. So you do not have to throw the gift back in their face. I see. Accept it with gratitude and graciousness. And again, realize, you don't have to be worried that your ego will go negative. on you and get out of control and that you will have to become fixated in the idea of materialism. It is all right for you to be absolutely and effortlessly abundant as long as you understand that your abundance, no matter what form it takes, will always only be exactly representative of the level of sharing that you are creating and the level of abundance and joy you are creating for others as well.

on you and get out of control and that you will have to become fixated in the idea of materialism. It is all right for you to be absolutely and effortlessly abundant as long as you understand that your abundance, no matter what form it takes, will always only be exactly representative of the level of sharing that you are creating and the level of abundance and joy you are creating for others as well. Therefore, it's simply a direct reflection of what you're doing. You understand? Yes. Does this help you? Very much. And I will remind you. once again and all of you, that the true opposite of love is guilt, not hate. You understand? Yes. Thank you. Thank you very much. Next, sharing. Hello, Bashar. Thank you, good day. So how's everything? Are you a friend? Perfect. And you? Well, you know, it's really going well. Oh, well. There have been so many things going on. I've felt a little inundated at times. Inundated. Yes. All right. And I had to. I had just gotten back from England about three weeks ago, four weeks ago, and I had such an incredible time. Things were manifesting left and right. Pop, pop, pop, all right. And when I got back, there was absolute chaos here. Chaos. Chaos. All right. How exciting. Well. What do you mean by that? Can you define you the idea? It's hard for me to realize that I created my floor buckling from the rain, my plumbing being torn out. When I walked in from the airport, it was just like. Wait a minute. And I was wondering now, how could I have created this? Oh, you really meant it literally when you said inundated. Totally. All right. And it was just nutty. I mean, between having to play with the system, income tax, doing lots of things I really didn't want to do. And I know that I needed to do them joyously, but there were moments when I was just really ticked and having to be in the system. One moment, one moment. Let's not get into martyrdom. Oh, no, no, I'm not. All right. I think there may be a part of me that obviously doesn't feel like I deserve all these wonderful things unless I pay some dues. All right. So maybe that's it. Is this the musician's lament? Yes. That's the name of that song. The Torque song. All right. Have to pay your dues. Sing the blues. All right. But I'm doing it all and it's cool now. It's just those moments where I'm just... All right. Those moments are also there for you to understand that again, certain things do not necessarily have to be, as you have been told. they have to be, that even once again, the things that may seem to be very absolute are not absolute and can be changed in alignment with the things that do in fact give you joy.

it all and it's cool now. It's just those moments where I'm just... All right. Those moments are also there for you to understand that again, certain things do not necessarily have to be, as you have been told. they have to be, that even once again, the things that may seem to be very absolute are not absolute and can be changed in alignment with the things that do in fact give you joy. At the same time, you can recognize that certain of these manifestations are simply reflections of changes going on within your own system and that you really can create a great deal of difference, that you do not necessarily have to have the same foundations, the same anchoring, that you really can ride the winds, that you really can in that sense be absolutely at home, anywhere, everywhere, that you do not really need to tie yourself down to certain understandings, definitions, or expectations. This is one level of what you are experiencing. Well, I feel the changes and generally they're really incredible. I mean, just the abundance. Yeah, I had to go through a lot of, you know, red tape to get everything happening, but it really, it does feel good. I feel the transformation happening. But I just want to make sure that I go through each and every moment joyously and, you know, find that Again, again, remember, yes, to recognize that each moment that exists in your life can be received with joy doesn't mean that at the same time you have to say that you prefer that situation. Okay, so when I'm... The idea, excuse me, the idea of receiving what happens with joy is so that you can make it easier for yourself to change it if you don't prefer it. When we say receive each moment with joy, we don't mean that you have to allow that sense. situation to remain in existence and simply grin and bear it. That's not what we mean. Receiving it with joy means you know it's there for a purpose, that it's there for a reason, that you can use it in a positive way, and that should excite you. And the way that you can really use many situations is to allow yourself to be excited enough to know that now that it is showing itself to you and now that you know you don't prefer it, receiving it with joy means you can explore the ways you need to explore it to change it into what you do. prefer it to be. Doesn't mean that you have to allow it to continue to exist in its present form. Do you understand the difference? Yeah, I do. It's just that eradicating the IRS is impossible. You know what I mean? That kind of thing.

now that you know you don't prefer it, receiving it with joy means you can explore the ways you need to explore it to change it into what you do. prefer it to be. Doesn't mean that you have to allow it to continue to exist in its present form. Do you understand the difference? Yeah, I do. It's just that eradicating the IRS is impossible. You know what I mean? That kind of thing. Well, I want to on tax this year, but I just had a problem with trying to get my music partner back in the country, so I had to file. I was a little, you know, it's just those little things that just irritated me. I felt like I was a little bit powerless. I believe that there are, in this sense again, some people present with you today who you can speak to about this who can turn you in a certain direction. Good. Fabulous. Since they now know what you have asked, they will talk to you later. Great. Thank you very much. Thank you, darling. You're such a babe. I always intend to remain very young. We thank you as well. Shitting. Hi, Bashar. And to you, good day. I was just wondering, is there an end to the reincarnation cycle? And if there is, what awaits us there when we get to the final, like, most developed or most spiritually awakened or whatever is there? Now, you can always decide. You can always decide to always decide to, not incarnate again. You could allow this life right now to be, in a sense, linearly speaking, the last life you will have. You do not necessarily have to be what you might call the most spiritually awakened being on earth in order to allow yourself to realize that you wish to explore and grow and learn in other dimensions, non-physically as well. You do not ever have to incarnate. Never. it is your choice many times to do so because physical reality is so accelerated, so focused that many times what you wish to learn can happen very quickly in physical reality, whereas it may seem like it might take a little bit longer in non-physical reality, because things are not quite so well defined. However, you have always had the choice to choose to learn anything at all you wish to learn in a non-physical reality or even in some other dimension altogether, which doesn't even have the concept of physical or non-physical in it. You can always end the idea of the cycle. The only reason many of you have not is because you might have lived lives that were so limited, so focused, that you did not even recognize that you actually had the choice.

choose to learn anything at all you wish to learn in a non-physical reality or even in some other dimension altogether, which doesn't even have the concept of physical or non-physical in it. You can always end the idea of the cycle. The only reason many of you have not is because you might have lived lives that were so limited, so focused, that you did not even recognize that you actually had the choice. However, more often than not, most often, I would say at least 90% of the time, you have always known when you die that you had the choice as to whether to incarnate again or not. And since you are here, I will assume, that you chose to do so for your own reasons. But if you decide now that you don't wish to again, then when you finish with this life, you can decide that you don't have to incarnate again. You understand? Yeah. Does that answer your question? Yes, it does. Could I ask you one more question? Of course. Does the astrological signs show any kind of progress like it, say like if you're in Ares or then maybe a Libra, do you step up from each astrological sign? Like, does your astrological sign determine any kind of level of awareness or anything? It is not so cut and dry. It can, but it will depend greatly on the spirit itself, greatly on the person. It can represent many things. It is not quite so cut and dried as that. You can use it that way. If you are sensitive enough to perceive that the energy of the person might be represented in that way, then perhaps you can see how they have used the idea of going around the wheel, around the cycle, to evolve themselves. But just because they are going from sign to sign, cycle to cycle, does not necessarily mean that it is a sign of the idea of evolution or growth. You understand? Yeah, I think so. Again, a person can choose what to experience in any one of those levels in which they ensconce themselves in physical materiality. What you might call your astrological symbolism, or your numerological symbolism, your date of birth, and so forth. In a sense, is an indication of a frozen slice of your energy at the time you decided to freeze yourself as a physical being, then there might have been able to freeze certain patterns of energy within you that might be generally representative of the experience you have had, where you are now, and the directions that you are headed in. And this might be loosely connected to the pantheon of the zodiac or many other systems that exist upon your planet. But it is not always absolutely cut and dried. If you're here, then this means that.

being, then there might have been able to freeze certain patterns of energy within you that might be generally representative of the experience you have had, where you are now, and the directions that you are headed in. And this might be loosely connected to the pantheon of the zodiac or many other systems that exist upon your planet. But it is not always absolutely cut and dried. If you're here, then this means that. Because you are a very complex multidimensional being, and you must take into account many different factors to come to a full appreciation of what one particular person is all about. You understand? Yeah. Does this help answer the question? Yes, it does. Thank you. Well, thank you very much. At this time, we will take a short break. We will resume contact in approximately 10 to 15 of your minutes of count. How's it going? I think it was. I think it was Erica had brought up a suggestion which maybe will appear on the new series of sessions that we'll do. And her suggestion was that maybe Bishar was that maybe Bashar have a workshop for men only and a particular workshop for women only and see what happens with that. So we might be doing that if there seems to be a sufficient amount of interest in doing that. So that might appear on the new format of sessions as well, just to let you know what might be coming up. The woman only workshop will probably be given by Anima, who, for people who are familiar with Anima, the actual first entity that I actually channeled was not Bashar. It was a female from the same society. And she simply chose the term anima to represent herself by, just in the same way that Bishar is actually not his name, but simply means messenger in one of our own languages. So I guess to make it fair, Anima would have to give the women-only workshop. So we'll see how interesting that is. Anyway, thank you again very much for coming today. And hopefully we'll also see you on June 16th. next month. And please tell your friends if they think they'd be interested in coming to this. And again, please enjoy the second half. Have a good time. I'll see you later. She is. And good day. Good day. Are there any Arcturians or regulus-type folks there with you today? Always the gateway that you call the civilization of Arcturus is modulating these affairs. Could you comment on that with regard to the relationship between the U.S. of A and USSR and how that interplays? Mostly the idea of Arcturus energy is still being utilized for the same utilization, the same reason. as it was the last time we mentioned this idea, which is as follows.

any Arcturians or regulus-type folks there with you today? Always the gateway that you call the civilization of Arcturus is modulating these affairs. Could you comment on that with regard to the relationship between the U.S. of A and USSR and how that interplays? Mostly the idea of Arcturus energy is still being utilized for the same utilization, the same reason. as it was the last time we mentioned this idea, which is as follows. Primarily, those entities of your planet who have died and choose to be reborn, reincarnated, in a sense, are processed through the energy of the Arcturus Gate to allow them to have more conscious remembrance of the fact that they have been alive before and allow them to assist more greatly, more effectively in the idea of the creation of peace upon your planet between all of the different nations. And in that way, therefore, indirectly, is Arcturists connected to the idea of the creation of peace upon your planet between the different nations. You understand? Yes, they do. Does that answer the question? To some degree. Are there some of us that are more tuned into that energy ticking, again, as you said earlier, one part of ourselves as an aspect? Of course. There will be different individuals who, for various reasons, will align their energy towards other types of energy for the purposes that they have to accomplish a part of energy for the purposes that they have to accomplish a part of your planet at this time. Sometimes because of their experience and simply their tastes, as it were, they will feel that a certain dimension of energy can be more of assistance than another dimension of energy. So they will make associations to that particular frequency that they feel more at home with, more aligned with because of the experiences they have created in their lives. And therefore can tap with that energy, use that energy channel through that energy in a variety of ways to assist in helping create your planet to be the type of world that you truly desire. it to be. So, of course, you make different connections and different lives. And different lives that you have can actually have different connections to different levels of dimensionality and vibrations. They don't always have to be the same from life to life. He once commented on the fact that in our society, acting out, quote unquote, acting out, past lives or giving free reign to the person you know yourself to be in one particular aspect, could have dire consequences that people do. get locked up in insane asylums because there is quote unquote no place in our society for understanding that kind of behavior. Of course. Obviously, this depends upon the degree to which you allow yourself to recreate, shall we say, that particular personality.

society, acting out, quote unquote, acting out, past lives or giving free reign to the person you know yourself to be in one particular aspect, could have dire consequences that people do. get locked up in insane asylums because there is quote unquote no place in our society for understanding that kind of behavior. Of course. Obviously, this depends upon the degree to which you allow yourself to recreate, shall we say, that particular personality. Always we are talking about the idea of accessing what might be called your past lives, but always with the understanding that you already have everything you need in this present life to live this present life and that the idea of accessing your past life is simply a form of enhancement. It is not an idea that should act as a substitution for the life that you are living now. And if you create a breaking of the cycle you are in at present by completely substituting an association with a past life in the present, then yes, you can create what might be called some sort of a vicious cycle in that way. You understand? Yes, I was only thinking of the people who were unfortunate enough not to have learned to, let's say, not allow themselves to give full reign to what they might have been born. and understandings of what might be called psychological therapies will begin to assist even these individuals as you begin to understand that you really are one entire consciousness and that the idea of past and present and future and alternate lives really are simply different aspects of the one consciousness that you are, you can begin to teach these people how to maintain the communication bond with what might be called the present incarnation while at the same time tapping into the aspects of past lives and even future lives that are relevant to this one. So new methodologies of teaching will assist even some of these people. Thank you. Well, thank you. Shevae. And you, Shiva. Next sharing. Greetings and salutations, Bashar. And who you, good day. We're having a wonderful time here and I brought about eight different copies. Translations of Peace Clock. We have some more coming in the process. cards as well and you do not necessarily have to keep reporting in you know i desire to report in why guys i have uh because i enjoy it oh all right but why why do i desire why do you enjoy this i enjoy the i enjoy the i enjoy the idea of peace yes and um since you seem to have the same idea and the same excitement about it yes so i enjoy sharing oh all right thank you very much okay now i had another idea driving over here i see all these wonderful entities out here i see all these wonderful entities out here and i looked at this combined energy and i thought why not since

enjoy the i enjoy the idea of peace yes and um since you seem to have the same idea and the same excitement about it yes so i enjoy sharing oh all right thank you very much okay now i had another idea driving over here i see all these wonderful entities out here i see all these wonderful entities out here and i looked at this combined energy and i thought why not since we all come together with the same idea why not give ourselves one minute of meditation while we're all gathered here each time we come to meet with you all right so i would like to ask if that's agreeable with the others are all of you interested in creating peace upon your planet all right another little idea i had one moment one moment one minute one minute now thank you allow yourselves to take a deep breath all of you close your eyes and relax and let all of what you might call the worries and the cares and the doubts and the fears slip away slip away slip away just relax you can create whatever you want in your reality after this moment but for now give this moment to the world share support nurture and love because you do make a difference each and every individual makes a profound difference a profound impact upon the ability of the entire planet to more easily create peace joy love imagine now your entire planet as if from space enveloped in loving golden light see the universe filled with this golden light see your world as a part of this golden light not cut off not isolated but connected to every other aspect of creation through this golden light see this golden light fill all of the aspects of your lives your love life your creation life fill your thoughts your beliefs your feelings every single aspect of your being breathe this golden liquid light in and as you breathe it in and as you breathe it in you breathe it in you feel this light fulfill and nurture and support you it is the unconditional love of creation that is this golden light you deserve it is made of you are made of it as you exhale this golden light it changes and transforms the very winds of your world the weather across the continents across the oceans deep into the sea high into the air touching every single landmass every single person touching their heart touching their mind touching their souls so that all people upon the planet breathe breathe breathe as one See in your mind's eye now all people on earth taking in a deep breath as you take in a deep breath now and see everyone on the planet release a sigh of peace that you breathe together and co-spire to peace. Know, therefore, that from this moment forward, every breath contains peace in and out.

heart touching their mind touching their souls so that all people upon the planet breathe breathe breathe as one See in your mind's eye now all people on earth taking in a deep breath as you take in a deep breath now and see everyone on the planet release a sigh of peace that you breathe together and co-spire to peace. Know, therefore, that from this moment forward, every breath contains peace in and out. You are constantly imagining yourself and everyone breathing peace in and out. It sustains you, it nurtures you, it supports you. So that on a cellular level you will all begin to understand that peace is the breath of life. the allowance that allows all individuals to be fully who they are and yet at the same time allows you all to work together in peace, harmony, and love. We thank you. We thank you. You may open your eyes if you wish. Thank you, my friend. I've been hearing from Sonanda and Sanat Kumar and some of some of the other about the inadvisibility of breaking the hydrogen atom in this world's desire to best each nation, one nation from the other, with their atomic weapons. Certainly that inadvisibility is obvious even to you about accessing higher levels of consciousness. It has always been obvious to me. What I would trying to do is to visualize some way of a whole healthy atom, hydrogen the most I could come up with was a little sphere or a little bubble with the letter H in it whole and intact and healthy. Do you think that would do the trick? It will certainly be of assistance in your reality. The idea also is to remember that even this notion of what you might call, by the way, fusion, is the idea of your power source and this is also inefficient and unnecessary. Many individuals are now beginning to realize that that you are ways to tap into the electromagnetic field of the planet itself, and again, within the next couple of decades, the whole issue of even utilizing the concept of hydrogen in the way you are thinking of it now will become completely obsolete. Very good. Thank you. Thank you for your participation. I'd like it very much of the rest of us who gather each time could also do this meditation. We will take it a step at a time, always being in the now. You know me very well. Thank you very much. Thank you. Next, sharing. Hi, Bouchard. And to you, good day. It's my first time hearing you. All right, my first time hearing you. I love what you said about guilt. All right. What was it, being the opposite of... Love. That was good. I think next time I'll bring a tape recorder. Is that okay? Well, of course. Great. I have some personal things to relate to you.

very well. Thank you very much. Thank you. Next, sharing. Hi, Bouchard. And to you, good day. It's my first time hearing you. All right, my first time hearing you. I love what you said about guilt. All right. What was it, being the opposite of... Love. That was good. I think next time I'll bring a tape recorder. Is that okay? Well, of course. Great. I have some personal things to relate to you. to you, and I don't have a specific question, but maybe you'll just get, have a suggestion for me. All right. For about three years now, I've been suffering from a loss of a love that was very traumatic. And it seemed that a lot of things in my life fell apart because of that. All right. I lost where I lived and my phone service and my business fell apart. and so on and it caused a lot of soul searching. And what did you discover? Well, it seems that I'm still searching. Still searching. Yeah, and it's, I've gone through a lot of pain and I've... Right. Are you tired of this now? Yeah. Are you sure? No. I do not want to stop you from creating more pain if that is really your intention. Yeah, this is what I'm wondering because I am struggling with things like positive affirmations. Positive affirmations, all right. And creating a new direction for my life. All right. In your present state, is there anything at all that excites you? Occasionally. Well, that's all right. Can you name one thing? Is there something that you would like to do in life that would be the most exciting thing that you can think of to do? It's, you know, there's been so many changes. I'm not sure, although I have some new things going on in my life that I enjoy a lot. I'm starting to get a little foothold on feeling good about my life again. good about my life again. It has a lot to do with where I live, for instance. All right. Well, let's talk about big footholds. Big steps. You don't have to take little ones, necessarily. You will always only take the size of step that is comfortable for you, of course, but you can learn to be more comfortable than you are allowing yourself to be right now. Now, let's go back, as you say, and talk about this concept of loss. Can you describe the kind of idea that you mean? when you say loss?

talk about big footholds. Big steps. You don't have to take little ones, necessarily. You will always only take the size of step that is comfortable for you, of course, but you can learn to be more comfortable than you are allowing yourself to be right now. Now, let's go back, as you say, and talk about this concept of loss. Can you describe the kind of idea that you mean? when you say loss? I'm not sure except that I think the loss that I I suffered was more a catalyst to remind me of some other losses that I've experienced in my life which apparently I'd forgotten about and that I blocked off from early early childhood but the only reason that you may not have been willing to look at these ideas the only reason that you may have pushed them down and now are seeing them come up is because you are defining these ideas as losses when they do not necessarily have to be defined as such. This is actually what I am saying. And I've read that and I agree with that, but it's still getting a feeling like a loss, yes? Exactly. This seems to be my struggle now is to feel what you're saying. All right. Do you understand, even in what you might call an sexual fashion, the concept that whatever it is you feel must be based upon a belief. You cannot have a feeling without believing something to be true first. I understand that. You understand that? Yeah. Therefore, when I refer to the concept of your definition that something is a loss, it is your belief, your definition that something has been lost that creates the feeling of loss within you. Do you understand that? Yeah. Therefore, that is why it is important to get involved in the definitions that you have within you and find out why you have those definitions and help to redefine them so that the feelings that you have no longer come from, the old definitions, but the definitions that you prefer to have. Now, what are the definitions specifically about the experiences that you have had that allow you to choose to define them as a loss? When something happens in your life, when these incidents you are referring to, happened, what definition existed within you that allowed you to believe they represented a loss? I'm not sure. Well, let's explore that right now. Okay. Take the strongest idea. You refer to the concept of lost love. Yeah. In what form do you believe the love was lost? How did you, I will put it simply colloquially, lose the love? What physically happened to make you believe that the love had been lost? Well, I was separated from someone. In what sense, separated? Do you mean that a decision was made that you should no longer associate? Yeah, yeah, okay. All right? Yeah. Now, what about this situation?

concept of lost love. Yeah. In what form do you believe the love was lost? How did you, I will put it simply colloquially, lose the love? What physically happened to make you believe that the love had been lost? Well, I was separated from someone. In what sense, separated? Do you mean that a decision was made that you should no longer associate? Yeah, yeah, okay. All right? Yeah. Now, what about this situation? allowed you to define it as a loss. I'm not sure, except that I, all I'm really sure about is that I experienced a lot of pain. One moment, all right. Again, I understand that you have experienced the feeling. But we are attempting to examine why you believe that such an incident is representative of something that should give you these feelings. What do you believe about the idea? of relationships? What were you looking for? What expectations did you have that were not fulfilled that when the situation happened allowed you to feel as if the expectations were not fulfilled? To find out what your definition is that creates the idea of loss, let's find out what your definition is of what you thought should have been there to begin with. So what did you think should have been there? I had definite ideas what should have been there. And can you describe some of them? Oh yeah, I, um, well let's begin Well, I, I hope for and, and, uh, desire in, in relationship. Yes. Common support. Common support. Love. One moment, one moment, one moment, one moment, step at a time. What does common support mean? To me, it means, um, I'm there for someone and they're there for me. What does being there mean? When there's a need? All right. A need for what? Comfort. Comfort? All right. Does the idea extend in any way, shape, or form to the idea of being responsible for another person? I think it did for me, yeah. Do you understand that it does not need to? Yeah, I do. All right. What else did you expect to find in the relationship? What else did you expect to find in the relationship that did not seem to occur. Nothing else comes to mind. Is this the only time this has happened? Yeah. All right to this degree. Yeah. How long did it exist in that form before it changed? About four years. All right. Can you define in any specific terms what appeared to allow it to change? Well, um, what desire? were expressed from either side that created the change? A lot of my desires. I mean, a lot of what I was feeling was that something was wrong. I do not know if you answered the question directly. Yeah, I'm not sure I did either, but maybe you could ask it again. I'll be more basic. What was said that led to the change?

what appeared to allow it to change? Well, um, what desire? were expressed from either side that created the change? A lot of my desires. I mean, a lot of what I was feeling was that something was wrong. I do not know if you answered the question directly. Yeah, I'm not sure I did either, but maybe you could ask it again. I'll be more basic. What was said that led to the change? What was being expressed by either side that created a change? I was asking for more. More what? Support, like I said earlier. And what do you define as support? I'll care for me. Care for you. In what type of situation? Did you feel you were not being given support? I felt that the responsibility for getting through life was being put entirely on my shoulders. All right. And it felt like a burden. So you are saying that you desired someone who is more of an equal shareer. Yeah. All right. Then in that sense, what you are saying is if that person was not exhibiting to you a vibration that you preferred to be in a relationship as an equal shareer, that therefore that was not really a relationship that you preferred. Right. Then if that should change, why are you in pain? it did need to change. And what I think happened from what I've been studying is that this event was a sort of a catalyst for me being allowed to experience a lot of other painful stuff that I had never allowed myself to feel or experience or even remember. All right. Then it has served you in a positive way. Oh, yeah. Have you explored all these other issues that have created pain within you? Have you dived into them? I've been working really hard. Yeah. All right. Really hard. All right. You don't have to really work too hard. Okay. You can just be consistent about it. Okay. That is really all it takes. Willingness and consistency. You do not necessarily have to struggle with the idea. Now, first of all, you really are, shall we say, a fine person. You really are all right. In general. Yes. Nice sigh. You don't have to feel badly about it. yourself in that sense just because all of these issues may have come up. You have not lost anything in that sense. You have utilized the relationship in exactly the way you intended to so that you could in fact allow yourself to become more integrated by discovering all of these fragments that you had created within your consciousness. And in that sense, therefore, that other person in doing what they did in co-creating the separation with you actually did the most loving thing they could have at that moment in the situation. You understand? Yeah, I do. All right, then. Allow yourself, as you have just done, to breathe the idea that the timing is perfect.

to become more integrated by discovering all of these fragments that you had created within your consciousness. And in that sense, therefore, that other person in doing what they did in co-creating the separation with you actually did the most loving thing they could have at that moment in the situation. You understand? Yeah, I do. All right, then. Allow yourself, as you have just done, to breathe the idea that the timing is perfect. Now, this is why it is important in terms of the healing of yourself, in terms of the integration of yourself, that you focus at the same time that you are investigating all of these fragmentary ideas, that at the same time you also focus on the idea of doing something that really gives you joy, that really gives you excitement. so that you can be aimed toward your highest aspiration and that energy, that direction, that momentum, that inertia will help with all of the integration of all of the fragments much more quickly rather than simply isolating yourself in some form of free-floating limbo in which you feel foundationless and at a loss and yet still feel that you must in fact handle all of these different ideas that have now come bubbling up in your consciousness. The idea is that you'll be able to handle it more easily if you can gain a focus on doing something at any given moment that really is the most enjoyable thing you could be doing at that moment, even if it doesn't seem to be connected to anything else. As long as it is the most exciting thing that you're capable of doing at that moment with integrity, I would suggest that you begin to do those things. Just being kind to yourself and treating yourself nicely in that way may make all the difference in the world towards yourself healing. Do you understand? Yeah. Is this helping you? Yeah, I, I, yeah, it is. How do you feeling right now? Well, I feel like I'm almost at the end of a long process of trying to affirm that I'm valuable and I'm worthwhile. Well, of course you are. I can give you, first of all, the most basic proof that you are absolutely valuable and worthwhile. Do you still exist? Yeah. Well, then. If the creator still feels that you deserve to exist, why not treat yourself? with the same respect. I'm trying really hard. One moment. One moment. You do not have to try so hard. That's the whole secret. Let yourself in on the obvious. Let yourself in on the obvious. It is simple. Do you still exist? Yeah. There can be no pointless or worthless creations in existence. It can't. not happen. If you exist, you must belong. You must have a purpose. You must fit. You must be representative of all that is, manifesting itself in one very valuable format.

You do not have to try so hard. That's the whole secret. Let yourself in on the obvious. Let yourself in on the obvious. It is simple. Do you still exist? Yeah. There can be no pointless or worthless creations in existence. It can't. not happen. If you exist, you must belong. You must have a purpose. You must fit. You must be representative of all that is, manifesting itself in one very valuable format. Just because, therefore, you exist, should tell you that you have a basic deservability, a basic worthiness. Do you understand the concept? Yeah. Trying is not doing, is not being. Now, all that is loves you unconditionally, because all that is knows that everything you go through, positive or negative, is a growth experience for the spirit, for the soul, the consciousness that you are. Give yourself the benefit of the doubt. If you're going to doubt at all, give yourself the benefit of the doubt. Allow yourself to simply, for a few moments, Just relax into the energy of infinite, all that is, unconditional love, because it's yours to feel. It's yours for the taking. Just float in that love. The fact that you exist is a sign that you deserve to exist. Creation has not created any superfluous things. Everything that exists belongs and deserves to know that it deserves to belong. You are no acceptance. You understand? You deserve everything that you can imagine and desire. You must, however, of course, be in touch with the belief systems that you have because you are the creator of your experiential reality in physical terms and even on some levels of non-physical terminology. Well, I do have a specific question now. All right. Yeah, this works. All right. I'm having trouble with my own personal abundance. and being able to relate in the world that we're living in right now and create a nice abundance for myself. Yes, but this is directly connected to the idea of doing what excites you the most. If you have no notion of what it is that excites you, and therefore are not acting on what excites you the most, it is absolutely no wonder that you are not creating the idea of abundance because they are absolutely connected. They are one and the same thing. Doing what excites you the most is being aligned with your highest self. Being aligned with your highest self, therefore automatically. It automatically attracts whatever situations and abundance are necessary to allow you to stay aligned with your highest self. If you're not doing what excites you the most, you will always have difficulty attracting abundance. Do you understand? I sure do. Now is it clearer? At least as a principle? Yeah.

the same thing. Doing what excites you the most is being aligned with your highest self. Being aligned with your highest self, therefore automatically. It automatically attracts whatever situations and abundance are necessary to allow you to stay aligned with your highest self. If you're not doing what excites you the most, you will always have difficulty attracting abundance. Do you understand? I sure do. Now is it clearer? At least as a principle? Yeah. Then relax into that meditative state when you are alone and have an opportunity to do so and discover what it is, whether at any given moment or even as a life-spanning career would be something that would excite you more anything else. And when you discover what that is, either at any given moment or as a lifespaning career or both, do it. And I guarantee you will start the ball rolling in the direction of unlimited abundance, self-love, and then the attraction of the appropriate equally sharing.