Tools Of Change (Part 3 of 4)

Play! You may commence with sharing number one. My question has to do with speak up and be bold so that all may share with you. Okay. My question has to do with patience. How important is patience? How important is patience? All right now. We have discussed this notion a few times. the idea from one point of view, even though we understand what your society generally means by the word patience, we prefer to redefine that term in a very specific way. Before we redefine it, we can say that the notion generally that your society has that it calls patience is similar to what we have already discussed in the tool of five that is called persistence and conviction. If you believe in a thing, if you know that a thing is true for you, then the idea is that you will have the persistence. You will have the conviction effortlessly. You will have the patience effortlessly and automatically to continue to pursue that thing, to create that thing, to allow yourself to realize and manifest that thing. However, in redefining the notion, in giving it a different perspective, a different sense, allow us to say that we prefer to define the term in such a way as to say that you don't really need patience at all in its classical sense. The idea of needing patience implies that you are not having a good time, that you are not enjoying the challenges that you are choosing to attract into your life, that you are not seeing them for what they are and experiencing them. experiencing them for the learning lessons of joy that they can bring to you. In needing patience to allow yourself to suffer through the things that you are attracting in your life, to wait them out until they go away, in needing patience, you then create the feeling called impatience. You create impatience by needing patience at all. If you understand that, every moment of what you experience is your choice to experience, that you can transform the experience in any way you want, and if you are having so much fun at any given moment that it does not matter whether anything else ever comes along after that at all, then you will not need patience because you will be living in the moment. You will not waiting for something else to happen. And if you're not waiting for something else to happen and you are living in the moment and enjoying it fully, then you don't need patience, then you do not feel feel impatient and we will trust that to some degree this has answered your question, has it? Yes, thank you very much. Is that a benefit to you? Definitely. Well, thank you very much. And remember to relax. Sharing. Number two. I'm currently dealing with a life-threatening illness. A life-threatening illness. All right. And my question is, what tools or suggestions would you care to offer?

you don't need patience, then you do not feel feel impatient and we will trust that to some degree this has answered your question, has it? Yes, thank you very much. Is that a benefit to you? Definitely. Well, thank you very much. And remember to relax. Sharing. Number two. I'm currently dealing with a life-threatening illness. A life-threatening illness. All right. And my question is, what tools or suggestions would you care to offer? All right. Now, to some degree, what we have shared tonight is very strongly applicable, although you might wish to combine the notion with what would be called your own intuition, your own sensing, primarily what is important is to be in touch with what your own belief system is all about. What are your strongest beliefs so that you can examine so that you can know so that you can discover what type of beliefs you would have to have bought into to have created a situation where you are experiencing what you call a life-threatening dis-ease the notion can serve many purposes understand that it is not always the idea of a negativity being expressed sometimes an individual will have chosen to show themselves exactly how strong they are by a attracting such a limitation to themselves that the challenge itself, the process of going through, that challenge itself, really gives them in very short amount of time, something that otherwise might have taken them one, two, or many lifetimes, to go through. This does not mean that you necessarily have to become non-physical in order to learn that lesson. You can learn it very quickly by being willing to examine the beliefs that might have attracted the situation to you. Remember, the first step is to oh, We are not saying you're not doing this, but simply to outline it. The first step is to own all the experiences, because you cannot change what you do not own. You follow me so far? Yes. Once you own that this is your creation, then you can take the stigma off of the idea. You can know one thing above and beyond anything, that you obviously must be a being of immense power and strength to have chosen such a remarkable challenge for yourself to teach yourself certain things. and knowing in and of itself that you must have that amount of strength, the knowledge of that strength in and of itself can make a difference right then and there in exactly how much of the dis-ease you experience or manifest. You follow me so far. Yes. All right. Now, some of the ideas that we have discussed this day of your time in doing the things that give you joy, in being in love unconditionally, with yourself, can be of assistance to you.

that amount of strength, the knowledge of that strength in and of itself can make a difference right then and there in exactly how much of the dis-ease you experience or manifest. You follow me so far. Yes. All right. Now, some of the ideas that we have discussed this day of your time in doing the things that give you joy, in being in love unconditionally, with yourself, can be of assistance to you. And you can use your imagination very powerful tool for all of you to create a scenario, a meditation, a visualization, or an attraction to other people or situations that can then alleviate the idea of needing to process what you are learning through the symbol of dis-ease. Now, allow me to ask you the question that was implied by one of the first things we discussed, this evening. Are you in your life doing the thing that would give you the most excitement and the most joy or not? Yes or no? No. Why not? Because I was and it sort of petered out. It sort of petered out. Mm-hmm. All right. Did you go to the next most exciting thing? I'm trying to. Trying. All right. Trying is a struggle. Trying. Trying. Trying. implies struggling and suffering and can create disharmony, discordance, and dis-ease to some degree. Again, the idea is the issue of trust, of trusting that what excites you the most can support you. Now, when something excites you more than anything else, and it changes direction, as you say, peters out, it does not mean that you have lost that momentum. It simply means it has changed its form. It has transformed it to another guise, another direction, another symbol, another representation. The idea, the secret to following what excites you the most is to at any given moment act on the most exciting thing you are capable of doing something about at that moment, because all excitement is connected to all other excitement. And if there is some particular thing that excites you more than anything else that you really truly do not have an ability to act upon, but if you act upon whatever is the most exciting thing you can act upon, then the other thing that you're acting on will lead you into the circumstances and the situation that will allow you to act on the thing you could not act on. Are you following what I am saying? Yes. All right. So when you find that whatever excites you the most has changed direction, go with it, flow with it. Find out what is the next most exciting thing you can act upon, because they are all connected. And the excitement is what tells you that they are are connected. Following that excitement is following the thread, is following the path you chose to be.

on. Are you following what I am saying? Yes. All right. So when you find that whatever excites you the most has changed direction, go with it, flow with it. Find out what is the next most exciting thing you can act upon, because they are all connected. And the excitement is what tells you that they are are connected. Following that excitement is following the thread, is following the path you chose to be. Sometimes, sometimes, paradoxically enough, the quickest way to get from where you are to where you want to be is to follow the path that winds naturally through all sorts of different things that excites you the most. Attempting to straighten that path out can be many times what causes disharmony because there are things on the winding path that you do need to look at that are a part that are a part of the overall thing that excites you rather than labeling them as detours or things that are delaying you or holding you back or blocks or obstructions or barriers in that way now at this moment right now to the best of your ability to the best of your imagination if i may be so bold as to ask you what is right now the most exciting thing you could conceive of to be doing with your life? Painting and being in love. All right. Now the first one was a little bit of a question. Painting? Are you sure? Or are you asking me? Is it? Is it painting? Yes, painting, conviction. Painting? Or is it painting? Which is it? I'm not asking. All right. Painting. Say it. Painting. Painting. How does it make you feel when you think about painting? Excited. Free, energized. Free, energized. All right. Are you painting? Not at this moment. Why not? Because today my bliss seem to be here. All right. Are you in general painting? No. Why not? Because I haven't prepared a place for it. You haven't prepared a place. What kind of a place do you need to prepare? before you will paint. Basically, some stuff on the, on the floor and walls. Stuff on floor and walls. Stuff. All right. Painting stuff. All right. Is there no other way you could be painting? I could go out under a tree. All right. The idea of painting itself excites you. Yes? Yes. Paint in any way, shape, or form that allows you to release. Allow yourself, yes, to create the scenarios that are exciting expressions of painting that allow you and assist you to paint in the way that is most exciting to you, but we caution you to not put the reason for not painting ahead of the painting. You understand? Yes. Do not delay yourself from doing the thing because you create the excuse that you do not have the proper atmosphere in which to do it. You are the proper atmosphere. When you wish to paint, paint.

of painting that allow you and assist you to paint in the way that is most exciting to you, but we caution you to not put the reason for not painting ahead of the painting. You understand? Yes. Do not delay yourself from doing the thing because you create the excuse that you do not have the proper atmosphere in which to do it. You are the proper atmosphere. When you wish to paint, paint. You do not always necessarily have to need all of the structure and format that you always think you need in order to accomplish the thing that excites you. And here's a little bit of a connection. Some of the notion of dis-ease sometimes is attracted to an individual to force them to begin to show themselves that they need to break down structure. break down the rules, laws, regulations, and rigid codes that restrict them from being as free as they could be. That is only one aspect of the symbol of the disease, but if you allow yourself a little bit more freedom of the ability to express what gives you joy, you will begin to create a little bit of a chink in that armor, in that structure, and you'll begin to see it disassemble so that your spirit and your soul can express itself without needing to disassemble your physical form in order to make that so. Because you see many times individuals, when they rigidize themselves into a certain format or procedure, will then, if they do not allow themselves to do it any other way, will then proceed to attract into their life circumstances and situations that tear everything down in order to force them down to ground zero where they have unlimited options from that point forward because they see that they have nothing else left. But to go in whatever direction they want to. Go in that direction now. Act now with the excitement and the inspiration. Do not wait for the idea of the specific time frame. You create the timing. You generate the idea of the inspiration. Our first suggestion to you, therefore, would be to begin to break apart that rigid idea. and allow yourself to express what gives you joy in whatever way you can without waiting for the ideal circumstances. You follow me? Yes. Now, is there another aspect of this you wish to explode? You said also being in love? Yes. Yes. All right. Now, when you are painting, are you in love? Yes. All right. Are you sure? Yes. All right. Then the one thing gives you both, in a sense. Yes. Yes. All right. When you are in love with that, then any other manifestation that needs to be there, any other representation of that love that needs to be there will be there. You follow me? Yes. Is this being of any assistance to you? Yes, very much.

you are painting, are you in love? Yes. All right. Are you sure? Yes. All right. Then the one thing gives you both, in a sense. Yes. Yes. All right. When you are in love with that, then any other manifestation that needs to be there, any other representation of that love that needs to be there will be there. You follow me? Yes. Is this being of any assistance to you? Yes, very much. Is it allowing you to see things from a different perspective, perhaps? Yes. Will you take now a deep breath and hold it one, two, three, and let it out. And one more time, a deep breath, and see, hold it. Blue, white light coursing through your body, and let the breath out, release all the doubts, release all the restrictions. And one more time, a deep cleansing breath in, hold it, and see golden white light irradiating your entire form of understand as you're holding this breath that you are a spirit in physical form. Let the breath out, let the creation of your spirit into the world, let the world share with you and sustain you and support you automatically, just because you are in love and doing what you love to do. You do not need any other reason in order to justify your existence in the world. You follow me? Yes. Does this help you? Yes. We thank you. and our love to you, do not forget also to communicate with your guides, especially when you sleep. They can give you information that will be of benefit to you, all right? Okay. Thank you. Thank you. Sharing, number three. Well, I have two questions. May I ask you two questions? All right, part A and part B for the sneaky person. They're not of the same. They're totally different questions. The first one is... As long as you are bold and share with everyone, yes. Where did you learn this information that you're sharing with us? By experience, by living, by observing, by being, by acting, and getting the result from the universe that teaches me that that action is so. That I can trust who I am. By trusting who I am, I get the response from the universe, and I see that it is so, and that it is so, and that knowledge becomes a part of me. I learned by doing. That is how. Now, thank you. Specifically, with regard to applying it to your civilization, it is also a matter of training, it is also a matter of having lived a life on your planet so that you would not be completely alien to me, so that I may call upon that past life for some understanding of how your civilization works, and many other ideas that assist me in the doing of this thing that I have.

Now, thank you. Specifically, with regard to applying it to your civilization, it is also a matter of training, it is also a matter of having lived a life on your planet so that you would not be completely alien to me, so that I may call upon that past life for some understanding of how your civilization works, and many other ideas that assist me in the doing of this thing that I have. am doing now but mostly I find also it is a matter of inspiration in the moment for you see when you live in the moment when you are fully in that moment what it is you are excited to be all the knowledge you need to be that you comes to you at that moment you will find it very often almost always I have no idea what I'm going to say until I say it of what I need to say it until I say it it is simply that by being in the moment, then at that moment, the information I need to serve you best in the way that I can be of service comes to me at that moment. There may be things I did not know before that moment, but I know for a fact that if I need to know them to be of service to you, I will know it when I need to know it, not a moment later, not a moment before, but that is sufficient. You understand? Yes, thank you. Does that help you with part A? Yes. Part B. Well, Well, what if you have a lot of things that excite you? A lot of things. Yes, they all excite. Yes, they are all excited. Many things can. Okay. And you want to, and you do them all, and then they, you start to feel pressured because there is enough time to get them all down. All right, all right, all right. Relax. There is enough time. You create the timing. You create the time. First of all understand that. All right. Everything that truly gives you joy that really needs to be done, will be accomplished in your lifetime. Now, if you need to live a little longer in order to do it, you will. All right. So first of all, relax about the timing. Agreed? Okay. All right. Now, if there are many things that seem to excite you equally, then ask yourself this. Do they still all have the same ability? to be acted on equally. Yes or no? Usually you will find that a few of them will drop out. Even though they may still excite you, you will find that not all of them will have the same potential to be acted on at that moment. You understand? Yes, no? Yes. All right. I'm not done. Okay. Do you understand what I have said so far? Yes, I understand.

all have the same ability? to be acted on equally. Yes or no? Usually you will find that a few of them will drop out. Even though they may still excite you, you will find that not all of them will have the same potential to be acted on at that moment. You understand? Yes, no? Yes. All right. I'm not done. Okay. Do you understand what I have said so far? Yes, I understand. So that will help you by process of elimination right there. Act upon whatever is most exciting to you, that you have the ability to act upon first. The ones that you do not have the immediate ability to act upon, they will come later and fall into place appropriately. That's idea number one. That can help sort out some of these ideas. Secondly, allow yourself to also understand what is truly the thing that excites you and what is simply peripheral details that are no less exciting but are not actually the one thing. In other words, you may find that many things that excite you could actually be lumped into one definition. You understand? that the overall definition that all of these things are representative of, that overall definition is the thing that excites you. And all of these things that you say excite you are simply many different ways that you can express the thing. that excites you most. So those are simply different ways and therefore not any one of them has any more importance than any other. And it doesn't matter which one you act on because you will still be doing through any number of ways the one thing overall that excites you. You understand what I am saying? Yes, I understand. But what happens is I commit myself in many different directions and enjoy all of them, but then they become a pressure when I'm going on one of them and enjoying it and The other one demands time. All right. But let me ask you once again, do you allow yourself to commit in the way you commit because you do not think you will have the ability to do these things later? You think they will slip out of your grass? Yes. That is your definition. And it is your definition that is your definition that is causing the pressure because you do not think you have the time. You have the time. And what we are suggesting is that when you pick and choose, pick and choose with conscious discernment, take time to make your decision. But when you have decided, allow yourself to then know anything else that comes along that you do not immediately have time for, you will have time for later if it is truly a part of the overall thing that excites you. It will never be able to go away. If it does go away, you didn't need it. understand? Yes.

and choose, pick and choose with conscious discernment, take time to make your decision. But when you have decided, allow yourself to then know anything else that comes along that you do not immediately have time for, you will have time for later if it is truly a part of the overall thing that excites you. It will never be able to go away. If it does go away, you didn't need it. understand? Yes. Streamline and simplify the idea of what excites you. You will be able to enjoy it all. And sometimes by doing that, you will allow those other things that may for now seem like equal exciting avenues to take. You will allow them to be what they really could be, maybe, possibly be. And that is simply other exciting details that when you do not allow yourself to lock onto them as strongly as you have will simply fall into place. as details that support the one overall thing that you are doing. If there is a need for those details to grow in excitement and become primary in your life later, they will. Also, also, watch your definition of the word commitment. Because the idea is that many of you have an idea of what commitment itself means. Any definition that you decide with integrity, integrity represents your definition of commitment is commitment. Do you understand? You do not necessarily have to assume that just because you have committed to something, that you cannot go into that commitment with a specific definition of what that commitment means. The word commitment does not carry with it an automatic definition. You decide what your commitment is and go into it that way. Then honor that commitment. Yes. means by knowing that you do not have to break it to hurry up and get to something else that you might miss because you don't have enough time. You understand? Yes. Let them all come in perfect timing. This is what the whole issue is that we were discussing about timing. If it is all really a part of you, if it is all really necessary to the fulfillment of your joy and your life, it will all fall into place and give you, it will bring with it all the time you need to be able to do those things. those things. Otherwise, what would be the point in them being there? You understand? Mm-hmm. Does this help you? Thank you very much. Thank you. And sharing, number four. Hi. And hello to you. I have a question for you first. Speak up and be bold. Are you still sculpting? Yes, now and then? Lately? Lately and early. What's the last thing you made? The last thing you made? thing I made. And with what material? And with what material? It was actually very familiar, a type of clay, a type of clay on my world.

very much. Thank you. And sharing, number four. Hi. And hello to you. I have a question for you first. Speak up and be bold. Are you still sculpting? Yes, now and then? Lately? Lately and early. What's the last thing you made? The last thing you made? thing I made. And with what material? And with what material? It was actually very familiar, a type of clay, a type of clay on my world. It was, in a sense, though there really is no definition for it yet, a shape, a sculptured shape, that is a representation of energy. Now this was done as a demonstration. It was done as an illustration. It was done as a symbol to represent, to represent. other members of my society a certain physicalized symbology representing the type of energy that is utilized by our spacecraft. It was a class, so to speak, to what you might call children, showing them in physical form the representation of how the energy matrix is laid up within our craft. But I simply chose that At the spur of the moment, to dig deep into the banks of a river, clay, and make the shape for them. So they could see it right there before their eyes, you understand? Mm-hmm. Even though it was telepathically communicated as well, we enjoy the tactile sensation. Because in the shape, in running your hands over the shape, again, you are impinging your body consciousness with a different kind of perspective. And it is also most enjoyable to do that. Thank you. Thank you very much. Okay. Now my question, as an equal, I'm exploring this with you. All right. I'm exploring my... You might sound too confident about that. Well, because I know that you have given us enough to help ourselves. All right, all right, fair enough. And I've explored, it's regarding my teeth. Yes. And I've explored all kinds of methods and symbologies. and I'm very trusting, but I don't want that to lean to slacking off. All right, very good. So... What has your own intuition led you to explore so far? Well, I just know there's got to be a third alternative. I have... What are the first two? The first two is an extraction or a root canal. Yes. And I just went through two months of pain with another tooth, and... When it was done, and I finally got it pulled, I was like being a new person. I was reborn. I did all kinds of things, and I really enjoyed, you know, being back alive and not having that pain. Yes. And so I understood, you know, about the rebirth, and, you know, I used that. So about two weeks later, another one started giving me trouble, and I just wasn't ready to hear the same thing that he told me about the first one. And I just want to come up with a third.

I did all kinds of things, and I really enjoyed, you know, being back alive and not having that pain. Yes. And so I understood, you know, about the rebirth, and, you know, I used that. So about two weeks later, another one started giving me trouble, and I just wasn't ready to hear the same thing that he told me about the first one. And I just want to come up with a third. Why were you not ready to hear it? Because I don't feel ready to let that tooth go or to give into their beliefs. One moment, one moment, one moment. Why, my question is, why was your first reaction to assume that, regardless of what that person was saying, that it had to result in something you didn't prefer? Why did you react that way? It was really early in the morning, so I wasn't like thinking enough, so I just kind of postponed it at the time. Oh, I see. Your conscious commandment relies on the time of this. on the time of day. Well, I just was a little bit... All right, caught you off your guard. Yeah, and he told me, well, we're going to have to do this or that, and I'm going to wait a second. All right, all right. But don't you see, you were being given a golden opportunity to catch yourself exactly when you needed it the most? The idea was to allow yourself in that disoriented state to disorient from the habit, to feel the reaction, take the time to deal with it at that point and integrate it so that then you could make a choice you preferred as opposed to just automatically reacting. You were being shown that you still have what we will for now call weak points in timing. Well, I kind of delayed, you know, I just told them, well, let's don't do it today. But we are not talking about that. We are only talking about the initial reaction, because many times in the initial reaction, that's the representation of the belief you truly have. You were given a sparkling opportunity to see what the real belief was within you when you were not guarding against it. You see the idea is to not guard against the real beliefs you really have. It's to be caught in those moments of naturalness so that the true belief you really has come out so that then you can see, oh yes, okay, I see, I really do still have that belief. I am being shown that and now I can work with that. So that no matter what time of day or night, when a situation like this presents itself to me, no matter what time of day or night, no matter what time of day or night, no matter what state of mind, my first reaction will be the positive one, not the negative one. You understand?

see, I really do still have that belief. I am being shown that and now I can work with that. So that no matter what time of day or night, when a situation like this presents itself to me, no matter what time of day or night, no matter what time of day or night, no matter what state of mind, my first reaction will be the positive one, not the negative one. You understand? Well, I don't think I responded negatively. I just said, well, I'm not ready to make a decision right now, and I'd like to explore some alternatives for myself. All right, but you have already expressed to me in your conversation that it took you aback, that you had a withdrawal reaction to it in the negative sense, that you were worried about. I have just finished having pain. Oh no, he is telling me I may have to go through this now. Well, this was for a couple minutes. It does not matter. The point was made. You may have been able to talk yourself out of it in a couple of minutes, but the point was made that the strong belief reaction is still there, and the symbology that is going on is still there and strong for you. Now, to relax for a moment before we continue. Just unlock all your expectations. expectations, all your assumptions, all of your definitions. Take a deep breath and let it out. Now, using your own intuition, just for a moment, what kinds of ideas have already occurred to you in your imagination that would be ways that you could change that situation with your teeth? What have you thought of, whether it seems silly or not? The blue light. the idea of putting blue light there. Did you do that? Yeah. When? Well, I just did it once. And for how long? Just a few minutes. All right? That's why I wanted to know, you know, should I put more energy into it? We are not finished. Okay. What made you stop? Well, partly that I don't feel it needs to be a big, strong struggle. All right, very good, very good. What else occurred to you? I did some research into health and nutrition and I explored wheatgrass, the idea of wheatgrass juice and that just building back the energy and healing of... And how long did you explore that one? For a few days, I'm still doing that. All right, and how does that feel to you so far? Well, I'm also taking antibiotics, so it's kind of hard to tell what's going on. All right, one moment. All right, one moment. Now, one moment. that may be of some benefit to you, not in what we perceive to be your immediate general locale, because the substance there is not pure.

you explore that one? For a few days, I'm still doing that. All right, and how does that feel to you so far? Well, I'm also taking antibiotics, so it's kind of hard to tell what's going on. All right, one moment. All right, one moment. Now, one moment. that may be of some benefit to you, not in what we perceive to be your immediate general locale, because the substance there is not pure. But if you will obtain seawater, highly energized seawater, from areas such as your Hawaiian island, and you shall rinse your mouth three times two to three times a day with that sea water from those locales there will be some alleviation some alleviation for you but some of what you are exploring is leading you to a particular understanding you have not yet discovered information that can form the seed of a new endeavor for you, what you may call a new career for you, the beginning of the foundations of the energy paths of the body, some of what is termed acupuncture, acupressure, that was next. Urbanism. Explore more these ideas of the avenues of the avenues of electric charge and the pathways of electromagnetic energy, the conduits, the pressure points in your body. learn to play the body as an instrument in that way, producing the proper tonalities, explore that. That is where some of this experience is leading you too. That's beautiful. We thank you for now. That is sufficient. Okay. Thank you. Thank you. And sharing number five. Hello, Bashar. And do you a good day. It's very nice to be with you again. And with you as well. The question I had was, I guess I need some clarification on, you said something the last time about 1993. And I guess what I got from was sort of that we needed to get it together before 1993. And I wondered if you could clarify why that timing specifically. It is simply the idea, first of all, that we have said your mass consciousness is shifting. Your focus is shifting. There is more momentum now. More energy now, in general, that is behind the idea of individuals on your planet doing what excites them the most and creating a world of peace and harmony individually and collectively. What we simply suggested was that by your year, as we perceive the energy, as we perceive the momentum from our point of view, that by your year of 1993, the shifting of your world from old ideas to the new, new vibration, to the new energy, to its fourth density state, its higher vibratory state, by 1993 will be at such a pace, such a momentum, that if by that year you have not already harmonized or synchronized yourself with your own highest excitement, because there will be so much momentum, it will be like fighting upstream in order to change, after that point.

the shifting of your world from old ideas to the new, new vibration, to the new energy, to its fourth density state, its higher vibratory state, by 1993 will be at such a pace, such a momentum, that if by that year you have not already harmonized or synchronized yourself with your own highest excitement, because there will be so much momentum, it will be like fighting upstream in order to change, after that point. If you make a change after that point, it may require in order for you to catch up to the speed of the momentum that everything you are doing that is not harmonious to you break apart instantly, very rapidly, maybe sometimes even more rapidly than some of you are willing to handle. That is what we actually said. You follow me. Yes, I do. Does that help clarify the situation? Yes, it does. Is that sufficient? I think so. Thank you very much. Thank you. And sharing number six. Hello, Bashar. And do you, good day. I'm very excited to be here. It's my first time. I am very excited you are there. Thank you. I do have an excitement that I use practically every day. Oh, yes, do share. What is that? I am a seamstress. Seamstress. Seamstress. I sew for myself and myself. my daughter. All right. And I enjoy it very much. Very exciting. Very creative. I have a problem. A situation. Yes. My husband... Redefine. Redefine. It is simply a situation. A situation. Yes. Yes. I live with my husband who has been brain damaged by a stroke. All right. And it's hard for me to get through to him my ideas and it's hard for him to get through to me. And it's hard for him to get through to me. I'm having a... Ah, all right, all right. Do you find that it is easy to love each other? No. All right. Can you give your unconditional love to that individual, even in what you call the impaired state? Can you simply, from your heart, unconditionally love what that individual has chosen to experience in their life, as their lesson, as their path? Can you respect that? I respect it, but I'm not doing it now. All right. All right. Can you unconditionally love it? No. Why not? Thank you for being honest, by the way. Why not? I don't understand. Do you have to understand in order to unconditionally love? No. All right. Then why not unconditionally love and assume that the unconditional love will help you understand? You see, what you call telepathy, we call telepathy. We call telempathy. And... to just the opposite of what your world usually says when you say, well, to know me is to love me. In fact, it works just the other way. To love them is to know them.

have to understand in order to unconditionally love? No. All right. Then why not unconditionally love and assume that the unconditional love will help you understand? You see, what you call telepathy, we call telepathy. We call telempathy. And... to just the opposite of what your world usually says when you say, well, to know me is to love me. In fact, it works just the other way. To love them is to know them. For when you find that individuals are being tele-mpathic, it's because they are on a similar frequency and they are vibrating and a similar vibration. And therefore, it is not that they are literally reading each other's minds, it is that they are thinking the same thoughts simultaneously because they are not in the same wavelength. So if you give unconditional love first and respect to an individual's style of life and life choices, then the unconditional love is what that individual will feel. They will then be able to reflect the unconditional love back to you and within the stream of that electromagnetic, unconditional, loving, liquid light within that stream, within that bubble, there will be the communication and the understanding that is necessary. You will simply find yourself beginning to automatically know what that person is saying. They will find themselves automatically understanding and knowing what you are saying and will act accordingly. Do you understand? I do, in a way, we've been married 40 years, so there's a little bit of that going on after that amount of time. One moment. Yes, yes. But what is impede? the total unconditional love. Anger. Anger. All right. Anger. Now, true anger. True anger does not last more than 10 to 15 seconds. If it lasts longer than that, it is denial, it is definitions, it is criticizing, it is expectations, it is all sorts of other things, but it is not true anger. Anger is clarifying. It is aligning. It is aligning. lines you so that you know, all right, this is my reality. This is the reality I prefer. What I'm seeing is not representative of the reality. I prefer, yet at the same time, as you choose the reality you prefer, you can still respect that their choice of their reality in no way shape or form has to in any way impinge on what you need to accomplish in your reality. When you understand that everyone is a creator unto themselves, then you can still get what you need in your reality regardless of what anyone else chooses in theirs, by redefining their choices as positive ones as far as you are concerned. They may have made certain choices that, in a sense, are negative choices. But as far as you are concerned, there will only be a point positive effect because you are willing to respect their choice.

that everyone is a creator unto themselves, then you can still get what you need in your reality regardless of what anyone else chooses in theirs, by redefining their choices as positive ones as far as you are concerned. They may have made certain choices that, in a sense, are negative choices. But as far as you are concerned, there will only be a point positive effect because you are willing to respect their choice. And ultimately, because you are all eternal beings, you also must know that ultimately they will learn positive lessons, no matter what kind of life choices they have made right now. So, forgive yourself and the other individual, release and relax and understand that that was a choice, that that individual will learn something from it, but in no way shape or form does it need to impair your life goal, your desires, and your preferences. There are still many levels on which you can communicate other than what you call the immediate physical level of language. Do you follow me? Yes, I do. When you go to sleep, open your heart as you drift into sleep, and imagine, picture your heart energy, vibrant, golden red, immer, that individual so that you sleep in the same heart, beating as one, so that every night more and more, there will be more understanding, more communication on the levels that are important, and that things will be understood. You will see eventually there will be the glimmer and the understanding and things will just get done. You follow me? Oh, yes. Thank you very much. Thank you, and sweet dreams. Sure. The modern woman, I guess. The modern woman. All right. And that is juggling... One moment, one moment. One moment. Perhaps it would be preferable if you spoke to a woman of the civilest. woman of the civilization. What is your name? I use the term anima. Hello, Anima. For it represents the idea of the feminine aspect as it comes through a man. And that shall be symbolic of the blending of the two energies. By all means, Sister of the Heart, please proceed. Thank you. The challenge that I bring to you today is one of trying to juggle to juggle. Of juggling. Jure. Yes. Yes. Which I guess what I would term is my masculine side and trying to get pregnant, which I haven't been able to do. I'm married. It's all right in front of me. And yet I'm not pregnant. Why is career masculine, feminine, or anything? Well, okay. I guess it's just... Um... That's a good... No, I guess maybe I didn't mean that. I guess I meant in the sense of, in terms of balancing, how I think of being pregnant and being a mother as... Why do you think of these things as separate things on either side?

I'm married. It's all right in front of me. And yet I'm not pregnant. Why is career masculine, feminine, or anything? Well, okay. I guess it's just... Um... That's a good... No, I guess maybe I didn't mean that. I guess I meant in the sense of, in terms of balancing, how I think of being pregnant and being a mother as... Why do you think of these things as separate things on either side? Why do you create a dichotomy, a polarity in these things which, after all, are simply aspects of the one life that you are? Remember, Bashar said one, one, one. Yes. You are one. Okay, well, then this is my struggle. How do I take that intellectual knowledge that I receive from you and bring it to my heart chakra so that I understand it? It's integrated in me as a total person? You have just done it by describing that that is what you wish to do, but you are not aware that it is that easy. You have imagined the ability of de-classifying something as intellectual and simply understanding that if you have... the ability to conceive that it might be possible, if you have the ability to conceive that it might be possible to de-intellectualize and bring it into your heart, then that ability to conceive of that idea is all that it takes to be that idea. But you are causing a separation, sister. Yes, I understand that. You are saying that the imagining of the thing is not the doing of the thing, and it is one and the same. Conceive of that, if you will. Okay. I appreciate that, and I think that answer helps me. However, I have just, what can I do when my mind starts to go to that place of separateness? Enjoy it and explore it for what it is, because your mind is not doing it without your conscious decision to do so. Therefore, enjoy where you are, even if you are, even if it is not what you prefer, enjoy it as being something that is recognized as something you don't prefer so that you will be certain beyond a shadow of a doubt after you finish exploring it that it is not what you prefer. And then you will go somewhere else. In other words, to put it simply, do not berate yourself for exploring the things that you do not necessarily prefer. Please, I ask you to remember that the more aware you become, the more aware you become, the more aware become of the positive and the negative. Just because you become more aware of the negative does not mean that that's where you're stuck. It is your choice. Remember what Bashar has shared with many of you, what is called the library analogy. You can go into one of your libraries with many books. You can have joyful books, scary books.

that the more aware you become, the more aware you become, the more aware become of the positive and the negative. Just because you become more aware of the negative does not mean that that's where you're stuck. It is your choice. Remember what Bashar has shared with many of you, what is called the library analogy. You can go into one of your libraries with many books. You can have joyful books, scary books. You can read every book on the shelf, positive and negative. The only book that goes home with you, is a very book. You can read every book that goes home with you is the one you consciously check out of the library.