Yardsticks (Part 1 of 3)

All right, I'll say, how are you all this evening of your time as you create time to exist? Allow us to begin this interaction this evening of your time with the entitlement yardsticks. We use this nomenclays here in this terminology to talk about relativity in a sense, relativity in perspective, in point of view, to simply remind you once again in yet another way that each and every individual is his or her own reality. And whatever measuring rods, whatever yard sticks you may use to measure the reality you believe to be true, are not applicable to use to measure the reality that someone else believes is true for its validity. The yardsticks you create in your reality are valid for your reality and will very accurately measure the ideas going on in your reality and your belief structure. But they cannot be used to measure the validity in someone else's reality because they have a different set of yardsticks and they are very often quite of different length. Many of you are familiar with what your physicists refer to as the time dilation effect. Are some of you familiar with this idea? The idea simply is that as you move faster and faster in your physical universe, attaining a great deal of the percentage of the speed of light, the faster you go, the more time slows down apparently from your point of view. That is, while you are remaining in your physical dimension. The idea of the hyperspace space, travel we talk about the instantaneous teleportation is quite another thing and does not apply to this idea. But while you remain in your physical universe, if you go very fast, very close to what you call the speed of light, you will find that time will slow down for the individual doing the traveling. Now, all things being relative, as many of you understand, to the individual doing the traveling, it will seem as if everything is moving at the same rate of time. To them it will seem that everyone else has sped up very rapidly and that they are still going about their business doing the same things they always do at the rate that they are comfortable with. Not only in that sense does time slow down, but all objects will in a sense shorten in the direction that they are traveling. So very literally, if you have a yardstick, let us say on your hypothetical spacecraft and you are moving in a particular direction at a great percentage of the speed of light, light, to an individual standing still, relatively speaking, your yardstick on the ship by the time you are a good fraction of the speed of light will actually only be as long, as let us say, approximately three inches. You will still think it is a yard long, three of your feet, not three of your inches.

spacecraft and you are moving in a particular direction at a great percentage of the speed of light, light, to an individual standing still, relatively speaking, your yardstick on the ship by the time you are a good fraction of the speed of light will actually only be as long, as let us say, approximately three inches. You will still think it is a yard long, three of your feet, not three of your inches. And of course, everything you measure in the ship will still appear to be its normal size, because everything has shrunk accordingly. So it has all stayed in one particular coherent system and you cannot tell the difference. This is analogous to the idea we are talking about because every single individual vibrates at a slightly different rate of energy and has a different perspective about what is true and real for them. Yes, you have, as we have discussed, obviously a collective agreed upon reality that you share general ideas and sometimes some very specific ideas within. But nonetheless, being an individual by definition will allow you to always recognize that the yardstick you use to measure things with, and we are speaking both literally and philosophically, will not be exactly precisely the same length as someone else's. And they will measure things in a slightly different way. To each of you, the equations will seem to come out correctly. You will measure three feet, they will measure three feet, but that three feet is relevant. And if you compare them, they may be a different three feet. But you can at least agree enough to get the job done. Recognize simply that what we share with you is our yardstick, the measurement by which we decide what works for us in our civilization. We share these ideas in a general way with you. general way with you, but in no way, shape, or form, do we ever mean to imply that your yardstick, your measurements, your ideas, your points of view are not equally valid and in a sense not more important for you to pay attention to because they are, because they are the yardsticks that measure the reality you have decided is real. So remember, even when we describe and define down to the last inch, the last millimeter, our yardstick stick. You may find similar marks on yours, but that is your version of ours. And it's never meant to be that you must do things in exactly the way we do them. Being an individual, you will always do something in your own way slightly uniquely or greatly, uniquely, but it will always be slightly different from the way anyone else does it. That is to be expected. and that is to be cherished. For it is the variance. It is the different points of view. It is the relativity. Which allows there to be an ongoing discovery of new attitudes, new perspectives, new points of view in life.

individual, you will always do something in your own way slightly uniquely or greatly, uniquely, but it will always be slightly different from the way anyone else does it. That is to be expected. and that is to be cherished. For it is the variance. It is the different points of view. It is the relativity. Which allows there to be an ongoing discovery of new attitudes, new perspectives, new points of view in life. That something will always be seen slightly differently through another pair of eyes will add to the enrichment of all the different ways that creation has of manifest. itself to be. You all follow along. Oh, thank you very much. Pamela. Mice, especially little mice. Represent generally the idea of information, as they may spurry in between the walls of your structures, delivering information to and fro, within some of those portions that many of you consider to be your unconscious streams of communication within the self, but also they are. are simply little reminders who appear where they need to, to simply be a symbol, if you wish, an omen, a representative mirror of some of the gentle little reminders to look in certain places, to awaken little sleeping ideas that will now pop forth and be in your conscious awareness. They are that which startles you to life in that sense and allows you to look at a little sleeping ideas and allows you to look at a corner of yourself that may have been so small in your imagination that it may have been previously overlooked, but contains every bit of validity that every other portion contains. They are little reminders. They are the little memos that you write to yourself. Thank you very much. At this timing, allow us to extend to you once again our heartfelt appreciation in allowing us to interact with you. And in exchange for this loving gift, I ask you now how may I serve you. Hello. And to you? Bashar, I have been told that I am being contacted. By whom? That's what I want to know. You have been told by whom? By Merlin. All right. Do you feel any change in your energy? Absolutely. In what way? Well, I've had a ringing in my ears for a long time. Did you answer it? That's it. That's what I'm doing now. All right. What are you receiving? Psychic messages. I mean, and books on UFOs or whatever are coming to me. All right. What will you do with this information? Ask you questions about who are they? about who are they? Ask me question. I don't know what to do. I'm getting very confused with it. All right. Very good. Remember, confusion is not inherently negative. Confusion is co-fusion and unlocking from a previous mode of thought into an opening in new modes of thought. You are fusing with more of yourself, co-fusion. Understand? Yes.

me. All right. What will you do with this information? Ask you questions about who are they? about who are they? Ask me question. I don't know what to do. I'm getting very confused with it. All right. Very good. Remember, confusion is not inherently negative. Confusion is co-fusion and unlocking from a previous mode of thought into an opening in new modes of thought. You are fusing with more of yourself, co-fusion. Understand? Yes. Now, what is it in your life that excites you the most? What do you want to do in life? Right. change is what comes up and nothing. Well, you will always change. That is the only constant in creation. Become more psychic and do something with it. Ah, do what? Make it my profession. And so you will interact with individuals in what way? Serve them. All right. I'm not sure, yeah. All right, yes, you are. You are sure. You are just not sure that you are sure. Right. Because individuals say, well, yes, that is one thing to do, but you know. know what everyone thinks about that. So you do not necessarily want to be sure that you are sure that that's what you want to do because everyone says that that might be a silly thing to do as a living. Now, is that really what you want to do? Is that the most exciting thing you can think of to do? I don't know. Yes, you do. When you think of yourself doing something in life and you think of the most of the most ecstatic feeling you can have what picture comes up that would show you in a position that would be creating that ecstatic feeling. What are you doing in your imagination in your mind's eye when you imagine that you would be the type of person who would create that kind of ecstasy in your life? Are you doing the readings? Are you being of assistance in some other way? What do you see in your mind's eye? Being very powerful, being very, being of assistance in a way I don't know yet. I don't know yet. It seems like that's what's so confusing to me. Well, what is the picture? What is the picture? Can you describe it? Just, I'm in a room. I'm very, very well respected. People are coming to me. It's a one-on-one interaction. Do you respect them? Yes. All right. And then what happens in this interaction? We talk and I help them, I help them, I heal them. All right. Now what was so difficult? about that? Does that excite you? Yeah, it scares me too. Ah, why? Because it's something I've never done before. So? Will you do me a favor? Yes. Take one deep breath and let it out. Now, may I suggest something to you? Yes. You have never done that before either. Did it scare you? No. I've taken deep breaths before. Not that one.

them, I heal them. All right. Now what was so difficult? about that? Does that excite you? Yeah, it scares me too. Ah, why? Because it's something I've never done before. So? Will you do me a favor? Yes. Take one deep breath and let it out. Now, may I suggest something to you? Yes. You have never done that before either. Did it scare you? No. I've taken deep breaths before. Not that one. True. So what's the big deal? The idea of doing what excites you is just like the taking of that breath. So what? You have never done it before. You are always, every single moment, doing things you have never done before. Oh yes, they may look similar to things you have done. But they are always new for the first time. When you start allowing everything to be equally new, then you will recognize you have done many things for the first time. for the first time all the time and therefore the idea that you are simply going to do one more thing for the first time won't be as scary. You will not be blowing it out of proportion like you are doing. By labeling it as something so different and so unlike you that you could not possibly imagine that you have the ease of ability to do it. But it is as easy as taking that breath and letting it out. It is just as easy. If you define it to be more difficult, it will feel difficult. And that is what is scaring you. You are defining you. it to be something special. It is unique. And in that sense, it is a special service. But in the overall sense, it is nothing special. You are a co-creator. You can do anything you wish. You always do create the reality based upon what you believe to be true. So the idea of doing that, what you have imagined would excite you in that sense is no different from anything else you have ever created in your life, because you will still be using the same power that you have always used to create whatever you have experienced in life, and in that sense it will be no different. You follow me. It is only the labels that your society puts on such a thing that makes it seem as if it is beyond your capability. When in fact you're actually doing these things all the time and actually have done them many times, but in guises that have allowed it to be all right. Have you never consoled a friend about anything? Of course I have. Well then. What is the difference? When you do it out of love, when you do it out of service, you will know what to say. the information will simply be there because it will be heartfelt and it will be out of love.

time and actually have done them many times, but in guises that have allowed it to be all right. Have you never consoled a friend about anything? Of course I have. Well then. What is the difference? When you do it out of love, when you do it out of service, you will know what to say. the information will simply be there because it will be heartfelt and it will be out of love. And you will simply find that the flow of information will come just like that. You follow me? Now, are you willing to allow it to be that simple? Yes. Yes. All right. Whatever rate is comfortable for you is the appropriate rate. Do not berate yourself. Do not worry about your ability. ability. Remember, your ability to perceive that that is something that excites you is in and of itself a signal of your ability to manifest it. Otherwise, you would not have the capability of perceiving it. You follow it. The universe does not do pointless and extraneous things. You cannot have the ability to perceive of something like that if you do not also have the ability to do it. Understand? Yes. Two sides of the same coin. No one. sided coins here. Understand. Now, therefore, all you really need to do is to trust that if that is what you are perceiving is going on and you wish to be of service in that way, act upon whatever opportunities have presented themselves to you to allow you to function in that way in whatever is a comfortable way for you. And bit by bit, you will allow the energy through in a knowing, loving, and trusting way. And then you will be of service and attract the circumstances necessary to allow you to accelerate, to take the next step. step when you are ready for that. You will never go faster than you are ready for. So do not worry. You will be able to handle it always. Because again, if something came that you were not really able to handle, there would be no point to it. And the universe doesn't do pointless things. So simply trust that you always have the built-in governor that says, whoa, whoa, whoa, that's too much for me now. The universe will say, all right, all right. Take your time. No right, no very. Do what excites you the most in the way it excites you the most. excites you the most to do it with integrity and you will always be being of service. Remember that the things you are exploring now and the things you are learning now will be some of the information you may impart to other individuals who wish to do the same thing later. So pay attention to what you're going through. You can use all of it in a positive way. Follow me? Relax. Laugh. A little more about the idea you are going through.

and you will always be being of service. Remember that the things you are exploring now and the things you are learning now will be some of the information you may impart to other individuals who wish to do the same thing later. So pay attention to what you're going through. You can use all of it in a positive way. Follow me? Relax. Laugh. A little more about the idea you are going through. And if you feel the anxiety, that's all right. Remember, anxiety is the same energy as exciting. same energy as excitement with judgment placed upon. That is all, that is all it is. You follow me? Yes. So, relax the judgment, and you will let go of the anxiety. It will turn into excitement and laughter, and you will diggle your way through life. Okay. You follow me? Yes. Has that served you? Yes. Do you believe you can apply that? Yeah. Is there something holding you up? Well, I'm still confused if it's extraterrestrial, extraterrestrial is it's coming from within myself? What difference does it make? And it is always, in a sense, both. Because the external is the internal is the internal. Understand that what you are perceiving here, even though it is colloquially referred to as an extraterrestrial connection between myself and the physical channel on your planet, still means that the physical channel must be willing to utilize his own energy to create, with me, a model of my energy, so you can experience it in your reality. So it always has to be both anyway. You follow me? Mm-hmm. does it make where it comes from? If it comes from you, that's enough. And that's the whole idea. But of course, as soon as you open up into your full potential, you automatically make connections to every level of consciousness there is, and you will be in communication with all sorts of different levels of consciousness. Because you are connected to everything, like everyone is. You actually become, in a sense, each other's consciousness. So in that sense, it doesn't really matter where it comes from. That is why we are always hesitant to put a label upon it. For now, because you are at such a tender stage in letting it through, just let it through for the sake of the information itself and for the sake of the service you can provide. Don't worry about where it comes from. If you know you are doing service in positive light, then simply trust that the information will be positive. When you need to know specifics about where it's coming from, you'll know. If you don't know, then you don't need to know right now. You follow me? Oh, yes. Does that work for you? Yes. Trust it. Thank you for your service. Thank you. Sharing. Hi, Bachel. I don't do you. I always love interacting with you at all levels. And all of you.

light, then simply trust that the information will be positive. When you need to know specifics about where it's coming from, you'll know. If you don't know, then you don't need to know right now. You follow me? Oh, yes. Does that work for you? Yes. Trust it. Thank you for your service. Thank you. Sharing. Hi, Bachel. I don't do you. I always love interacting with you at all levels. And all of you. And there's been three related ideas that have sort of confused me over the last... More confusion. Well, it's not confusion. I've just been wondering about... In your book, you describe... My book? The association? You talk about the... Yes, thank you. You talk about... Our book. Our book. All right, our book. The association, and you talk about the difference between imagination and fantasy... In terms of the consequences, I think... I'm not sure if I'm right there, but that... The basic definition between what you typically call imagination and fantasy is simply that it is all real, quote unquote. It all exists on some level of reality. is an ongoing dimension of experience, but that which you may refer to, and this is a very fine line, as fantasy, simply may be that portion of some reality that doesn't necessarily have a high degree of interaction or significance for the reality you happen to be focused in at any particular time. Whereas imagination applies very closely to what it is you are working on now. Okay, that's what I saw what you said. Okay, so my question then on that is, as you go through the... this process. A. How do you differentiate between imagination and fantasy? Let's say... With your integrity, basically. Ah, I thought it had something to do with integrity. Yeah. Again, you simply recognize, in all honesty, what it is you wish to do. And if you are, in your terminology, acting upon those circumstances that represent your ability to be of service, then you will simply find that the flow of information that comes through you will always represent your imagination. and that the information will be usable in that way, even if it comes in a fantasy format, you will still find that there will be an imagination counterpart that will contain the information necessary to apply in your life. Even though you may use fantasy symbols. Sometimes fantasy can also be simply the symbology that you create to represent the information that can work for you, but therefore doesn't mean that the symbology itself needs to be taken literally. You follow me. It is simply the carrier. vehicle for the essence of the information that will work for you. Now, is rationalization then at the same level as fantasy? Rationalization? Uh-huh. It can be. For example... But not always. Sometimes it can also be judgment and invalidation. Depends upon which side you are using, positive and or negative. Well, if I find a symbol that I'm...

the symbology itself needs to be taken literally. You follow me. It is simply the carrier. vehicle for the essence of the information that will work for you. Now, is rationalization then at the same level as fantasy? Rationalization? Uh-huh. It can be. For example... But not always. Sometimes it can also be judgment and invalidation. Depends upon which side you are using, positive and or negative. Well, if I find a symbol that I'm... I'm puzzled about and I want to decide what it is. Ah. You mean... I see. All right. Definitions within the channel are now intermixing. You mean rationalization in the sense of the word reason. Right. Yeah. All right. Yeah. It's like fantasy? No. No. Reason. Rationalization is the recognition of what the essential message is within the fantasy construction, within the fantasy format, within the symbolic format. Okay. Because the fantasy in that way generally is archetypal. generally is archetypal. In other words, fantasy creates symbols that are drawn from your collective consciousness and unconsciousness and subconsciousness and subconsciousness that make the most sense to you to deliver the information that needs to be delivered in the easiest possible way. So you can apply a rationale to it and simply evoke the kernel of information without the archetypal symbology that sometimes surrounds it, that originally delivered the message to begin with. Okay. Thank you very much. Oh, thank you very much. you're sharing. Sharing. Sharing. Hi, Bashar. Hi. I was sitting here and one of my questions got sort of my questions got sort of discussed with somebody else, so I'll ask something else. A while back was the anniversary of my mother's death in April. All right. Happy anniversary. Yeah. At that time, well, her birthday, her birthday, The anniversary of her birthday is coming up on July 9th. Happy anniversary again. Yeah. I had sensed at that time in April that she was trying to contact me and she had wanted me to go to the cemetery where she was in a mausoleum. And I really strongly resisted that. Why? What are your beliefs about the idea of life and death? of life and death. Well, I don't believe that she's there, and I don't believe, I totally believe, that her soul is gone. Gone from there. Well, that's what I'd like you to tell me. I don't know if she's reincarnated or where she is or what she's doing at this point. Our perception at this time is that she is still in spirit. Now, just because a symbol is used to make a connection doesn't mean that the spirit is necessarily hanging around that place. It simply may be an attachment point. a common frame of reference, that's all. Understand? Yeah. Now, what was the real reluctance to go there? I guess. Yeah. The fear of going, I don't know, I don't know.

at this point. Our perception at this time is that she is still in spirit. Now, just because a symbol is used to make a connection doesn't mean that the spirit is necessarily hanging around that place. It simply may be an attachment point. a common frame of reference, that's all. Understand? Yeah. Now, what was the real reluctance to go there? I guess. Yeah. The fear of going, I don't know, I don't know. It was real hard to describe that I was, there was this knowing that I need to confront her. Confront. Well, there's a lot of things that were unfinished between us when she did. And I'd like to be able to sell them, but I can't talk to somebody that can't talk back. Oh, yes, you can, and they can talk back. Now, understand something. We have already discussed the idea that all consciousness is interconnected. When you talk with yourself, with an address that goes to the vibration of your self, with an address that goes to the vibration of your own. an address that goes to the vibration of your mother, then it will be received and information will be sent. You are the conduit through which all information can go to anyone, anywhere, any when. All you have to do is think of the individual, send the message, and it will be on some level at some point received. All you have to do is think of the individual, send the message, and it will be on some level, at some point, receive. All you then have to do is open up, receive what you know is an absolute reciprocal of what you have sent and understand that a connection has been made and that it is real in your sense and that you can give yourself the permission to allow it to be so. I kept feeling that what I really would have liked would have been for somebody to channel my mother and so that we could have a fight. and get it cleared up once and for all. What do you want to talk about? What do you think needs resolution? A lot of feelings of... Dad? Of her betrayal. Betrayal? Betrayal of what? Are you playing victim? Oh, well, as a child, I felt that there was a lot of things. things that were not... Yeah. That I should have been protected from and I wasn't. All right. And that she didn't believe me when I discussed certain things with her. All right. Then you can do the following as a suggestion, if you are willing to. When you sit down in a relaxed and meditative state, be the child now. And go back through the whole scenario. You will. will be interacting with her energy. And you can clear it all out. It's like I have this fantasy of how I would like her to answer.

believe me when I discussed certain things with her. All right. Then you can do the following as a suggestion, if you are willing to. When you sit down in a relaxed and meditative state, be the child now. And go back through the whole scenario. You will. will be interacting with her energy. And you can clear it all out. It's like I have this fantasy of how I would like her to answer. And then there's this part of me that says, but the way she's always responded to me was always to deny anything that I said. But that's not who she is now. Is it? I don't know. I only know how she was. All right. It's hard to know. Take it for granted. that when you physically leave the body, your perspective on many things changes quite abruptly. Now, the individual at this time has learned enough to be able to respond to you if you are willing to understand that if you simply send from the heart without accusation, because you, after all, chose to be born to that person, you know. And you knew what you were getting yourself into. getting yourself into. So take responsibility for that. We are not excusing anything they may have done outside of their integrity, but take the responsibility for recognizing that you made the choice, knowing full well that there would be things you may have to work out between you. So first and foremost, stop playing victim. Recognize that you have changed, she has changed. Sometimes it may in your society take death to change the point of view of an individual, but that's the way it's been. Now that point of view has changed. So take it for granted. that what she is learning has expanded her point of view because she has the assistance on that side to be able to help her do so and to recognize that she no longer needs to function outside of her integrity. These are some things she has learned. She is willing to communicate this idea and willing to communicate between you, anything you wish to equalize between yourselves. But first you must be willing to trust that that can happen, play the scenario out in your imagination, and take it for granted that, the scenario you perform is representative of the reality that in your terms is true and real. Because all possible scenarios are real. And when you create yourself to be the vibration of the type of interaction that you prefer to be in your reality, you automatically take yourself to that plane and you will interact with that portion of her that already exists on a plane that is willing to interact with you in the way you prefer. You follow me? Yeah. Trust it. You have that. that ability. These things do not happen for no reason.

And when you create yourself to be the vibration of the type of interaction that you prefer to be in your reality, you automatically take yourself to that plane and you will interact with that portion of her that already exists on a plane that is willing to interact with you in the way you prefer. You follow me? Yeah. Trust it. You have that. that ability. These things do not happen for no reason. And many times an individual in that sense will seem to leave things unresolved and go on seemingly beyond your reach so that you will stretch out beyond your physical awareness, make the contact, know the contact is there, and then trust that you can resolve things even from this point of view to that point of view, from this level to that level. Without no. needing to have someone be a medium of her. You are the medium. You are the channel. Especially since it's your family. Because many times the family, what you recognize as a single family, are all extensions in many ways of the same oversaw. So you are only in a sense, in essence, talking to yourself anyway. Now, it can happen through another individual. And we are not invalidating that. invalidating that by any means. That is not our particular duty. There are individuals who have more connection to the idea of the immediate spirit level just, quote unquote, above your immediate physical plane, and they can be of assistance to you. However, don't give your power over to them as being able to do something you cannot do for yourself, especially when you're talking about someone who is an immediate member of your own family. You can always function as the go-between, as the medium. So it is simply up to you as to whether you're willing to do so or not. To believe that you can, in fact, create new agreements now and that those agreements will stick and represent the reality you prefer. Do you follow me? Yes, thank you very much. Pleasant dream. Remember that you're talking in your dream reality with her all the time anyway. I'll work on remembering them. You don't have to work at it. You will remember what you need to. The more you open up in, love the more you will remember of what you need to remember. It is only the tightness and the restrictiveness of your fear of facing it that has shut off your memory of those communications. Open up. Everything has been done for a reason. All right? All right. Thank you. Thank you very much. Think also of what you call daffodils. They can help invoke a particular a particular frequency that will allow you both to imagine that you are carrying out this conversation in a beautiful green plane of flowers under a bright and blue and lovely sky. You are, in a sense, therefore, simply going to have tea and a chat.

has been done for a reason. All right? All right. Thank you. Thank you very much. Think also of what you call daffodils. They can help invoke a particular a particular frequency that will allow you both to imagine that you are carrying out this conversation in a beautiful green plane of flowers under a bright and blue and lovely sky. You are, in a sense, therefore, simply going to have tea and a chat. And it is nothing more serious than that. All right? All right. Thank you very much. Thank you. Sharing. Hello, Bashar. And to you. I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for all the help you've been to me. Oh, we thank you for your sharing, which has increased the knowledge of our society a thousandfold. Thank you. You're welcome. I was wondering if you could help me identify it's almost a chronic fear or low-grade terror that seems to be around me. A low-grade terror. Are you saying you wish to trade it in for a high-grade terror? it in for a high grade. Something a little more refined, a little purer. High grade terror, please. Is that what you are saying? No, not at all. All right. I'm saying that it's not as... Define your low-grade terror. Well, it's... Well, I call it low-grade in the sense that I'm not truly stricken by terror. in the point where I can't function. All right. How does it serve you then? Well, it seems to have the ingredient of having me watch everything that I do so that I... I feel like I'm going to do something wrong. Although, I mean, I've listened to many of your tapes I understand about nothing being intrinsically right or wrong, but it's almost like this fear that just is around me that I'm being judged or I'll be punished or I'll... All right. I have a suggestion for you. Okay. you don't have to do it. All right. Whether you are with other individuals, but I would suggest that perhaps better when you are alone, take what you call a glass, you understand a glass, and purposely drop it and break it. That sense shivers up your spine, didn't it? Let you know you're alive, doesn't it? Now, if you are willing, if you are willing to allow yourself permission to do that, then you will be giving freedom to what you are simply holding back on. You will know that it's all right to, quote unquote, overstep that bound from time to time in certain ways, and it still doesn't have to represent a lack of your integrity. But it can, It can, pun intended, break the ice. It can shatter the ideas you are holding on to and allow you to finally get past it, get through it, by shattering that illusion, that this is such a terrible thing. You follow me? Yes, I do.

all right to, quote unquote, overstep that bound from time to time in certain ways, and it still doesn't have to represent a lack of your integrity. But it can, It can, pun intended, break the ice. It can shatter the ideas you are holding on to and allow you to finally get past it, get through it, by shattering that illusion, that this is such a terrible thing. You follow me? Yes, I do. So, allow yourself a little bit of freedom to purposely, quote-unquote, misbehave, and then you will have experienced what you are afraid to experience, it will be over and done with, and you'll recognize that you don't necessarily prefer to do that anymore, and that having done it, it's no big deal. Will one glass do it? I don't know. I don't know. See how you feel. See how you feel. It is simply a suggestion. We would suggest that if you pay that if you pay very close attention to the total quality of the shatter. It can evoke certain energies within you that will allow you the catharsis you need to go through, that will allow you to identify certain elements within yourself. Maybe three glasses will do it. I feel a tremendous amount of, like, grief right now. Good, you are releasing. Let it go. Let it go. You are simply releasing your old self and mourning it a little bit. but you are simply changing into who you really wish to be. All you need to do is crash through that imaginary barrier you have set up for yourself. And so you can utilize that as a tool. See what happened. Okay, thank you very much. Oh, thank you very much. Have that crashing good time. Thank you. I will. Shutty! Good evening, Bashar. And to you. It's wonderful to be here with you again. I have something I'd like to share. Then speak up so all can hear. The scene has happened that I used to dread very much. Yes. And now that it's come to pass, I find that it was nearly as bad as I thought it was going to be. Oh. And... Remember that glasscracker? For a long time, I've known that, you know, my father was getting older, and I knew that one of these days, he'd be leaving the physical plane. One of these days, yes. And he has. Yeah. And I find that through the last days he was in the hospital, and immediately after his death, and even more so now, our connection has gotten stronger and stronger. stronger until I feel that he has become part of me. We've blended. Yeah, it always has been. Yes, but now it's like a lot of the, yes, and some of the barriers that used to be there, the constraints between us as far as expressing ourselves to each other. Very good!

days he was in the hospital, and immediately after his death, and even more so now, our connection has gotten stronger and stronger. stronger until I feel that he has become part of me. We've blended. Yeah, it always has been. Yes, but now it's like a lot of the, yes, and some of the barriers that used to be there, the constraints between us as far as expressing ourselves to each other. Very good! Now listen to the synchronicity of this, especially the individual who wishes dialogues with her mother. Now that she is no longer physical, some of the old barriers no longer remain in the way of your communication. Very good. You see what you can all learn by listening to each other circumstances? Exactly. We gave him a wonderful send-off. We had a memorial service that was a celebration of his life and not a mourning of his death. Oh, thank you. And with photographs taken from all the periods from all the periods of his life so that his friends could see how he looked at each age in his life and friends that came and shared their memories of him and the family, their memories and interactions. So it was like piecing together his life so that we could share the entirety of it and celebrate it. Do you know how he celebrated it? He was there. enjoying every minute of us. And in the astral plane, he imagined and created, of course, in thoughts or things, okay. And blew on the candles. Oh, I love that. One of the last things he was reminiscing about in the hospital when he was sort of drifting in and out of consciousness with birthdays. He was going back through all the birthdays. Yes. He lit all the candles all at once and lit up his life. That's wonderful. Part of the synchronicity of that whole event was one of the last things that he said to me in the hospital, again when he was drifting, was he asked, has the boat left the dock yet? And I said, no, Dad, not yet. The boat's still anchored. Still tied to the dark dock. Okay. As I was going through his things after his death and getting ready for the ceremony, I came across a little booklet with a poem by Walt Whitman that was written just before his own death. And it was the joy that he felt at sailing out to a new adventure. Right. And when I saw that, I knew it was a message from my father. Very good. And I used that as the very last statement of Von Voyage to him. Again, remember all of you. all of you. Synchronicity is all there is. All events are interconnected and messages can come from any direction in any way.

own death. And it was the joy that he felt at sailing out to a new adventure. Right. And when I saw that, I knew it was a message from my father. Very good. And I used that as the very last statement of Von Voyage to him. Again, remember all of you. all of you. Synchronicity is all there is. All events are interconnected and messages can come from any direction in any way. The way to understand that it is a message and the way for you to grant it validity and meaning as a message and reality as a message is to recognize the degree of meaning that it has for you, that you have put into it. Yes. If it has that meaning for you, it is synchronicity and it is the message you need. Yes. I realized some time ago that all symbols, anything can be used as a symbol, and we always know the meaning because there are symbols. Because remember, especially when individuals are no longer physical, they do not always have the ability to communicate with you in the way you think they ought to. So they may gently nudge you towards something that will deliver the message for them that still exist in your physical world. Yes. Like a book, like a painting. Like a picture. Like a picture. Sister-in-law, my brother's ex-wife got up and sang a song for him, which was in Spanish and English, and the words were, I am the boat, I am the sea. I sail in you, you sail in me. How lovely. This completed that triad of synchronicity. I had no idea what she was going to sing. And it was heartwarming because I realized what? The perfectness of it. And one last thing that I wanted to share was that one of our strong connections and moments of delight in my childhood with my father was going on picnics to the poppy fields. And the last time I talked to him in the recovery room, I looked, I was talking to him and focusing my attention on him, and I looked up and on the wall was a photograph of poppy fields. Very good. So I took him. on a little trip to the poppy fields. Thank you very much for expressing the joy of your interaction, the joy of your synchronicity, and for remembering that what you typically have thought of as a death day is always a birthday as well. That's true. And one more thing I want to thank you so sincerely for Bashar is through your interactions with us, I've learned that I am always changing and because I have allowed myself to follow my excitement and to speak about dolphins and do a whole evening of that, which I'd never thought I'd be able to do in public. I was able to get up and share my memories of my father without breaking down in tears.

more thing I want to thank you so sincerely for Bashar is through your interactions with us, I've learned that I am always changing and because I have allowed myself to follow my excitement and to speak about dolphins and do a whole evening of that, which I'd never thought I'd be able to do in public. I was able to get up and share my memories of my father without breaking down in tears. So that was also very wonderful for me. We thank you very much for your love and your sharing. Thank you, Bashar. I said, let go of the anxiety. Could you give some guidelines in helping to let go of the anxiety? Well, again, it can be very easily done when you recognize, as we have suggested, that anxiety and excitement are the same energy. So if you understand that and start acting like you believe it, then you will simply feel the energy as excitement and not anxiety. It is not that you will get rid of it. the energy. It is not that you will not continue to feel the energy. It is that you will feel it in the way that is indicative of how you look at it. That is all. So know that it represents the discovery of something new. That the energy is there, the vibration is there because you are on the threshold of more information, more awareness. And we assume that that's an exciting thing. Well, how come when I then feel excitement, it's like joyous and white, An anxiety is black and heavy. I mean, I don't see... Perhaps you are missing the point. Any energy you feel in any particular way is felt that way because of an already ingrained assumption about what it represents. So if it feels dark and heavy, that means you must already have a built-in belief somewhere in your consciousness, that what it represents is a negative thing. rather than a positive thing. Okay. You follow me? Okay. So, if you find that it is dark and heavy, say, why do I believe that what this energy represents is a negative thing? If I don't choose to believe that, what do I choose to believe? I choose to believe that this energy brings me positive information in a positive way. As soon as you start exploring that idea, the energy will begin to change, because you will change your belief. And whenever you will change your belief, and whenever you start exploring that idea, change your beliefs about life, your feelings must follow, because all feelings are reactions to something you believe to be true. There is no such thing as a feeling without basing it on an already pre-existing belief. Okay. Keep only. Does that define the idea sufficiently for you? Pretty much, yeah. Pretty much. All right. If you feel the energy in that way, dive into it. explore it.

and whenever you start exploring that idea, change your beliefs about life, your feelings must follow, because all feelings are reactions to something you believe to be true. There is no such thing as a feeling without basing it on an already pre-existing belief. Okay. Keep only. Does that define the idea sufficiently for you? Pretty much, yeah. Pretty much. All right. If you feel the energy in that way, dive into it. explore it. Find out why you believe it has to come negatively. It might be as simple as that you are acting out of habitual ritual. It may be nothing more than that. Always assuming first that the discovery of something new is an, what is it everyone, a big one, unknown. And you know what your society has thought about the unknown. Oh, scary. Might be something hiding in there that can leap out and bite me. The unknown definition is always to you scary. When you understand, once again, that there is absolutely nothing you could ever discover about yourself that cannot be applied in a positive way, if you so desire, then the unknown will be ecstatic. And you will invite every new experience. And when you invite every new experience, and when you invite you invite you invite new experiences, you will not have apprehension and anxiety. The energy will be exciting. You follow me. Yeah. Does that turn on a few lights? Yeah. Thank you very much. Okay, thank you. Click, click, click, click, click.