You Are Unique Never Compare Yourself To Others

The idea of comparing yourself to someone else in many cases really doesn't work, and we would like to explain why. Many of you may feel, may believe, may perceive that you have a high degree of similarity to other people, and you may view other people who may be living lives that are at least in some way, shape, or form similar to the kind of lives, the kind of dreams that you say you would prefer to live in your own reality, but sometimes fine that you simply don't quite know exactly how to attract that, how to manifest that. But many times when you make those kinds of comparisons between yourselves and others, you're actually thinking, you're actually having a belief system that a comparison can be made, when in fact, not only do you really have no business comparing yourself, to anyone else, you actually don't really have any capability of comparing yourself to anyone else. Now, we understand that you may think that many of you are very similar, that you are all, after all, human beings on Earth, and that you have a high degree of similar things that many of you do. And so because of those similarities, you fall into the assumption, you fall into the belief, if you fall into the definition, that other things ought to be similar to, that what works for them can work for you. And in a sense, that is true. But only in the broadest sense, only in the most general sense, is that actually in any way, shape, or form accurate. Many of you think that when you compare yourselves to other people, you are comparing apples to apples. Understand, it is truly actually much more like comparing apples to comquots. You are really not as similar as you think for the following reason. Anything that you perceive to be a similarity between you is, like anything that you experience in the collective reality, created by agreement. You have to agree to be similar to someone else in any way, shape, or form. And what that should tell you is that fundamental. you're not similar at all unless you agree to be. So the idea is that even though you may experience what appears to be a lot of similarity to someone else, you really are not similar at all unless you set up the parameters for that similarity by agreeing to play the game of being similar. But at the same time, you also recognize that you have differences. And the idea is that you are more different than you think. And really, it is by validating, totally validating the differences between you that you actually will create a sense of harmony, a sense of similar vibration. That's the paradox by allowing full validation of the differences. Do you actually create a similar vibration with others who are also validating their own uniqueness?

at the same time, you also recognize that you have differences. And the idea is that you are more different than you think. And really, it is by validating, totally validating the differences between you that you actually will create a sense of harmony, a sense of similar vibration. That's the paradox by allowing full validation of the differences. Do you actually create a similar vibration with others who are also validating their own uniqueness? So the idea really is that when you start to compare yourself to someone else, And if you're doing it in a negative way and find yourself coming up short, they can do this and I can't, why are they so much better than me, why am I lacking in this, why am I not able to do what they're able to do, really it should come down to the fundamental understanding that you are nothing like them and they are nothing like you, except where you agree to appear to be similar. And it is only an appearance. Now, of course, we are talking about the idea of your personality construct. Obviously, on higher planes and higher dimensions, the idea is that everything is one. Everything is an extension of the same one source. And in that context, yes, you are the same one thing, seen, viewed, experienced from a multitude, an infinite multitude of different perspectives. But those different perspectives are truly unique. And when you agree to play the game, game of being in a similar reality with someone else, being in a collective reality experience, you are taking that uniqueness, and you are defining it and filtering it and tailoring it and molding it in a very specific way with your unique take on what being similar means. So even when you create the idea of similarity, you are creating similarity from a different and unique perspective. Your similarity is not the same as anyone else's game. of being similar to someone else. So you are always unique, you are always different, and thus then different enough, even though you may create the illusion of similarity, you are different enough that you have not only no business comparing yourself to anyone else, you actually have no ability to compare yourself to anyone else, because everyone else is truly at that level, completely and utterly unique, completely and utterly different, and even when you create the effect of similarity, you are doing it from a unique perspective. that is absolutely unlike anyone else's ability to do that. So the next time you feel the urge to compare yourself to someone else and find yourself coming up short, find yourself lacking, I would strongly suggest that you realize how unique you are, how different you are, how truly, truly you are a particular, particular perspective of the infinite and that there is absolutely no other point of view that in any way, shape, or form, is like your point of view.

do that. So the next time you feel the urge to compare yourself to someone else and find yourself coming up short, find yourself lacking, I would strongly suggest that you realize how unique you are, how different you are, how truly, truly you are a particular, particular perspective of the infinite and that there is absolutely no other point of view that in any way, shape, or form, is like your point of view. You are the eyes, all of you, all of us, every being in creation, are all the eyes of creation and all the different ways that creation has of perceiving and experiencing itself. Cherish your uniqueness. Do not in any way, shape, or form, invalidate it, devalue it. It is by your vision. very uniqueness that all that is is capable of being all that is. If you exist in your unique form, then all that is must know, must know that you know that your unique properties must exist in order for all that is to actually experience itself as all it can be. And thus without you, all that is would not be complete. Without you, all that is would not be complete. would be finite without you. All that is would collapse under its own weight. All that is must, by definition, be infinite. And if you are part of that infinite existence, then there is a reason you exist because all that is does not make superfluous creations, does not make mistakes, and does not say, well, I'm done, but I'll just create a little more off to the side here. Just because you never know. I don't know. I might need a spare or something. All that is does not operate that way. All that is is is whole, unto itself, one idea. Even though it is composed of an infinite number of parts, an infinite number of perspective, it is fundamentally, first and foremost, one whole complete experience unto itself, and every single component that it expresses itself in is a part of that unique experience, a part of that whole experience, and must by definition exist in order for all that is to be what it is or it could not be all. That is. It would simply have another name. It would be some of what could be. And that is all that it would be. Always wandering around, wondering if it could be more. But because you exist, you deserve to exist. Because believe me, if all that is did not need your unique properties in order for it to be all that it could be, all that it is, you would not exist. So if you exist, then all that is knows that you must exist. There is a reason that you exist. You are valid in its eyes or you wouldn't exist.

if it could be more. But because you exist, you deserve to exist. Because believe me, if all that is did not need your unique properties in order for it to be all that it could be, all that it is, you would not exist. So if you exist, then all that is knows that you must exist. There is a reason that you exist. You are valid in its eyes or you wouldn't exist. So the next time you question your worth, the next time you question your validity, the next time you question your differences, realize that when you question those things, you are arguing with all that is. You are saying, I don't deserve to be who and what I am. But obviously you do or you wouldn't exist. So if you are arguing that you shouldn't exist, you are arguing with all that is and saying that it doesn't know what it's doing in creating you. Stop arguing with creation. You exist and there's nothing you can do about it. Ever. If you exist, If you exist, it's the only fundamental quality you actually have. That is your true core quality. Existence itself. That which exists cannot become that which does not exist. That's a completely different quality. And non-existence is already full of all the things that will never exist. There is no room in non-existence for the things that do exist. It is full of non-existence. And besides which, if you really look at the things that will never exist, there is no-existence, look at the clear definition of non-existence, you will simply realize there's no such thing. Non-existence doesn't exist. That's its fundamental quality to not exist. Therefore, there is nothing else but existence. And if you exist, you are a part of the infinite. There's no outside to it. You're within it. There is nothing else. And everything that you call a separate thing, including yourself, must then, because there is nothing else, but the one, be made of. the one. Be made from the one. Because there's nothing else to make anything with. All that is is truly all that is. And therefore there is no outside. There's nothing extra. There is nowhere to get any extra material from to make anything. All that it has to make everything out of itself. Thus then you are made literally of God. Made literally of creation. Made literally of existence. Thus then, value yourself in the way that all that is very very of creation. values you. Now, of course, you don't have to, and many of you are very experienced at devaluing yourself, but that is also a valid experience within creation, a unique one, a valid one. A valid one. So if you're going to devalue yourself, at least realize that the only way you can actually possibly have an experience of devaluing yourself is that all that is believes you are valuable enough to have any experience you want.

Now, of course, you don't have to, and many of you are very experienced at devaluing yourself, but that is also a valid experience within creation, a unique one, a valid one. A valid one. So if you're going to devalue yourself, at least realize that the only way you can actually possibly have an experience of devaluing yourself is that all that is believes you are valuable enough to have any experience you want. So the very fact that you can, that you're able to devalue yourself means you're valuable. That's the paradox. The very fact that you exist means that you have the unconditional support of all that is. And if you wish to believe you do not have unconditional support, that is you're right. But the only reason you can even have the experience of pretending that you don't have unconditional support is if, in fact, you do. Because you are being unconditionally supported in your fantasy of not being supported unconditionally. that's the paradox so allow yourselves to begin to relax this idea that you don't measure up that you would compare yourself to someone else and find yourself falling short no one else is like you no one else can be like you and you can be like you and you can be like no one one else try try try you will never ever ever ever be anything but you no matter how hard you try no matter how hard you wish you could be someone else you will never be anyone but you. However, that's exactly what gives you your key to freedom. Because then you can be whatever it is you truly wish to be in exactly the way you prefer to be. And no one else can tell you different because no one else is you. And no one else knows what it is to be you just as you don't know what it is to be anyone else. cherish your unique perspective, cherish your differences, and when each and every one of you allows your differences to be compatible, when each and every one of you allows your differences to be valid and valued, when you truly empower your differences, you will have absolute harmony in your reality. That's how it's created. Harmony is not created through the idea of becoming homogenous. is created through the absolute validation of all the differences that you exhibit because then each of you is taking ownership of the unique puzzle piece that you are in the big picture. If you had a picture puzzle and you wanted to put it together and one of the pieces says, no, no, no, I don't want to be that shape. I want to be some other shape. Well, then you would always have a hole in that big picture and that piece would never fit. So the picture would never be whole and the whole picture thus would never be able to support.

the big picture. If you had a picture puzzle and you wanted to put it together and one of the pieces says, no, no, no, I don't want to be that shape. I want to be some other shape. Well, then you would always have a hole in that big picture and that piece would never fit. So the picture would never be whole and the whole picture thus would never be able to support. all of the pieces and the pieces would never be able to support the whole picture. But if you simply allow yourself to be the shape you are, the shape that nature knows you need to be, the shape that creation created you to be, then by definition you must fit perfectly in the big picture just as you are. If that was not the case, you would be a different you. You would be a different shape. Whatever shape you are is the shape you need to be and is the shape you need to be and is the shape. that fits with all the other shapes who are also willing to be the shapes that they are. So when you are all the shapes you actually were created to be, you all fit together perfectly in the puzzle picture and the whole picture thus then exists, you can see what the big picture is from your unique perspective, and you can allow the whole picture to support the unification, the connection between all the pieces. Does that make sense? Thank you.