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Letting Go Of Fear And Embracing Self love

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Part 1

I am Daniel. Oh, all right, if you insist. I'm really excited that I'm talking to a being that's off-planet that's here to embrace us and support us. All right, well, we are very excited to be talking to all of you down there. Thank you. My question is, how do we fully let go of fear and embrace self-love? By discovering how it is that the fear serves you in your belief system. In other words, you don't hold on. to a negative belief if you don't believe that it serves you somehow in a positive way, or at least what you believe to be a positive way. Does that make sense to you? Yes, to protect us, keep us safe. Yes, because if you have two choices, and you know that this choice might be empirically what you would actually prefer, but you're not choosing it, you're afraid to choose it, what that means is you've attached a belief to that thing that is actually representative of your excitement that somehow makes it seem to be the more dangerous choice. Now, if you didn't attach that belief to it, it would appear to be your excitement, and you would act on it. You would choose it. So the question is, well, if I'm afraid to act on what I say is really my excitement, well, what would I have to believe is true about what will happen if I choose it that makes me so afraid of choosing it? And then you will find out what that fear is, what that belief is. You'll identify it, and as soon as you identify it, you'll see it has nothing to do with you. It's something you picked up along the way. It belongs to someone else. You've stolen someone else. is belief. You're a belief thief. Drop it. It doesn't belong to you. Let it go. It's not yours. But you have to identify what it is before you can do that because you can't work with what you don't know. Make sense? Yes. Is this helping? Yes. Anything else? Well, there's the other part of how do we embrace self-love? How do we fully love ourselves? Why don't you? Fully love yourself would be the question we would ask. What's stopping you from doing that? You see, if you find or think even that you have a negative belief, preventing you from being yourself, then why not really just explore it from that direction? Amplify, magnify the negative belief. Ask yourself, what is the most horrifying, terrifying? The thing I can imagine will happen if I fully love myself. What does that mean? What will that mean if I do that? And then when you ask the question that way, and you aren't afraid to find out what the fear is, then you will allow yourself to begin truly exploring.

Part 2

why not really just explore it from that direction? Amplify, magnify the negative belief. Ask yourself, what is the most horrifying, terrifying? The thing I can imagine will happen if I fully love myself. What does that mean? What will that mean if I do that? And then when you ask the question that way, and you aren't afraid to find out what the fear is, then you will allow yourself to begin truly exploring. What would I have to believe is true in order to stop myself from being who I know I am? What would I have to believe is true? Oh, let's see. If I fully loved myself, I would be this incredible being and I would lose all my friends because they couldn't relate to me anymore. I know it sounds really crazy, but we've actually. heard that belief on your planet, just letting you in on a little secret. Beliefs like that actually exist on your planet. We don't know how they can, but they do. But you get the point. That may or may not be your particular belief, but it acts as an illustration for the kind of beliefs that might prevent you from moving in the direction of your joy because you've attached a concept of what will happen if you do that is less than pleasant. So when you find out that that belief is attached there, You'll let it go because it will be nonsensical and illogical to hold on to it. Once you realize what it is and it has nothing to do with what you prefer, you'll just let it go. And you will start feeling more of the love. You will let more of the love, the unconditional love of creation in. You will start loving yourself enough to do that. And in essence, what you will do is you will stop arguing with creation. Because you see, the only reason in a sense that you would feel you can't fully love yourself, is that you're actually inventing reasons and telling God, I'm not worthy. And in a sense, it's like you're throwing the gift back in God's face. Now, God doesn't care. But the idea really is that you're actually resisting your natural state. You're saying, you, in unconditional love, of which I'm apart, still somehow, made a mistake. I don't belong. Now, while many people on your planet might actually think that that is, in some sense, over-exaggerated humility, it's actually over-exaggerated hubris and arrogance. Because you're saying out of all of creation that is worthy, I alone am not worthy of unconditional love. I alone stand outside and above and beyond all beings in creation who receive and allow themselves to be fully loved and love themselves. I am unique in that way. I am special. Is this making some sense? Totally. Thank you. Thank you. Oh, by the way, our unconditional love to you. Thank you.