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On Our Own (Part 2 of 2)

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Hello. And are you? Good day. Good day. I would like to ask about my departed husband. Oh, all right. Name. Kelly. Full name. Kale. All right. And physical location on your planet at the time of death? In a hospital in Los Angeles. All right. And in your terms, cause of death? A pancreatic cancer. All right. Once again, the full name. Kale. All right. And what do you wish to ask about? If he's returned to this earth? Well, yes and no. Understand that always, always, always there is a portion of the soul that remains in spirit. You follow? Yes. Always. You will always be able to access what you recognized as the person you knew in spirit. in spirit. That will always be there because, again, all things coexist simultaneously. At the same time, and especially from the spirit point of view, that being may have decided also to have an incarnation that would represent the continuation of his learning, but that doesn't mean he's still not accessible in spirit. Is this making sense to you? Yes, it is. Or is. Is there some more detail? you wish to go into about this? He was trying to tell me something before he died, and he wasn't able to. One moment. One moment. One moment. Is it in any way, shape, or form? Because these things do not always come clear from one level to another. Any way, shape, form that involves what you would call the color violet or purple? Not that I can think of. One moment. Was there no specific favorite flower between you? Yes. Which was? Roses. Roses. Always red? Yes. All right. One moment. One moment. Have you had, since the departure, any dream communication with this being? Many. All right. What were you told in the dreams? They were dreams really of our past together. And represented what? The joyful moments? Yes. Does one stand out more than any other? Not really. There wasn't a favorite joyful moment in the dream. There were many in the dream. Pick one and describe it. At least in general. Our daughter's wedding. All right. It was just 600 people. It was huge. It was his wedding more than his daughters. All right. One moment. Your daughter's name? Kimberly. One moment. For how long has he been departed? Eleven years. All right. Are you involved with anyone else? No. Are you open to be? Starting to be. All right. Then what we would simply perceive most strongly, strongly as information from that source would be. Let that be all right. And when another comes fully into your life, it will also be like him, someone you have known in other lives. That will be. part of a larger family. Does that make sense to you? Yes, it does. Does this help you? Yes, it does. Then we bid you continued pleasant dreams. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

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simply perceive most strongly, strongly as information from that source would be. Let that be all right. And when another comes fully into your life, it will also be like him, someone you have known in other lives. That will be. part of a larger family. Does that make sense to you? Yes, it does. Does this help you? Yes, it does. Then we bid you continued pleasant dreams. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Marriage is something that exists forever, regardless of the state of being, but a marriage has many definitions and can contain many many people, whether at once or in sequence, doesn't matter. The permission is there to allow you to continue to expand in love. And that would be the greatest blessing for him as well. Does that make sense? Yes. Does that help you? Yes. All right. We thank you. Thank you. One moment. The purple or violet may make sense to you with the new person that comes in. All right? So look for that vibration, look for that color. That may help you recognize the family member to be and the family member that has been. All right. In fact, you may have all right. you may have already met. Does that make sense to you? No. Was there anyone at the wedding that you might feel would be a possible candidate? No. When this person comes in, you may be surprised to find that there is already some kind of familial connection. connection in this way. They may have already been somewhere you have been. You may have even seen them physically, but simply not known yet who they would become to you. Do you follow me? Yes, thank you. Just relax and enjoy. Thank you. And remember that any time you send your feeling of love to your husband, he will always receive it, and he is always there for you. always there for you whether he chooses to experience a reincarnation or not, because spirit is always there too. That's how the soul operates. Does that make sense? Yes, it does. Do you have a favorite garden? A favorite garden? Yes, garden. Not really. Is there a place that is a garden that you could go to and walk through? I can't think of one. Maybe you will have help from your friends with that. Or maybe you have just forgotten. forgotten. It might be advantageous to take a walk in that garden, perhaps even one that has an abundance of roses in it. In that space, you may actually receive a much stronger message from your husband than you've ever had in dreams. Because very often spirits will use the synchronicity in your own physical reality to send you a very strong message, because sometimes it's easier for them to get through to you by simply using the purpose. crops and the surroundings that are in your physical life.

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one that has an abundance of roses in it. In that space, you may actually receive a much stronger message from your husband than you've ever had in dreams. Because very often spirits will use the synchronicity in your own physical reality to send you a very strong message, because sometimes it's easier for them to get through to you by simply using the purpose. crops and the surroundings that are in your physical life. So I am being given the information that it would be wise to suggest to you that you find a rose garden and take a walk in it. Thank you. And then at a certain moment, don't look for it, don't think about it, just enjoy the garden. But at a certain moment something may occur to you that you will recognize as a very strong communication from your husband. That it may connect into what you need to understand to allow you to be willing to be more observant, about what the new person is that will be coming into your life, all right? Thank you. Thank you. Hi, my name is Francis. Oh, all right. Good day. Good day. I'm in a tornado. Oh, I see. All right. Shall we call you Dorothy? Yeah. That's good. All right. I don't know where this tornado is going to stop and where I'm going to land. Possibly in Oz, on the other side of the rainbow. That's my favorite song. That's my favorite song. What a coincidence. And what do you wish to discuss today, Dorothy? Well. Yes. Ah, where I'm going to end up and how. End up? What do you mean? At the end of your life? Maybe the next few months. Maybe it would help. Where do you prefer to end up, as you say? Well, I prefer to end up successful and independent by myself. Define successful. Be even able to live comfortably and support my son's college education? All right. Well, you know the question I'm going to ask you, yes? No? No? No. Are you acting to the best of your ability on your highest passion every moment? No. All right. Because you see, if you were, you would immediately say, yes. Any hesitation means no. No, not really. Well, I'm working very hard. Because those that are truly always acting on their passion are always in the moment with it. And always know that they are. If you have to think about it, it means you're not. Could you be? Yes. Do you want to be? Yeah, of course. Do you believe that your passion can support you? Right now, I think I'm confused what my passion is. All right. Well, let me give you a simple explanation of the concept of following your passion. Because when we say following your passion, we understand.

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it. And always know that they are. If you have to think about it, it means you're not. Could you be? Yes. Do you want to be? Yeah, of course. Do you believe that your passion can support you? Right now, I think I'm confused what my passion is. All right. Well, let me give you a simple explanation of the concept of following your passion. Because when we say following your passion, we understand. understand that because of how many of you have been trained to think in your reality, you think we have to mean, oh, a career, a job, a project, a hobby, something long-lasting that spans years. No. No. When we say act on your passion, we mean at any given moment you are aware that you have certain options available to you of things that you could choose to do. Yes? Yes. At any given moment. I could do this. I could go there. I could talk with that person, I could read a book, I could take a walk on the beach, all these things, whatever they may be at any given moment that you have the capacity to do, out of everything that is available to you at that moment, act to the best of your ability on the one that contains the highest amount of excitement and passion, whatever it is. Even if you think it's not connected to anything else you think it should be connected to, it isn't the surface appearance that tells you it's connected to the thing that will support you. It's the amount of excitement and passion it evokes within you that tells you it's connected. So if you're willing at every moment to simply follow that thread by acting on whatever opportunity at that moment contains the highest passion, it will lead you to the next moment and the next and the next and the next and the next. And all you have to do anytime you reach what you perceive to be a crossroads of any kind is again take a moment, take an assessment, what are all the options available to be of things I could do. at this moment, pick the one that's most passionate, even if it seems unconnected to the last thing you did, and move in that direction. That will allow you to allow your synchronicity to unfold in an automatic and effortless way that will take you to exactly the right place, the right time to interact with exactly whom you need to interact with, hear exactly what you need to hear, be exactly where you need to be, to receive exactly what you need to receive at that moment. Do you believe you can do this? Yes. Would it be fun? I hope so. I beg your pardon. I hope so. I beg your pardon. Yes, it'll be fun. I hope so means what? I'm not sure. I'm not sure. True. All right.

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whom you need to interact with, hear exactly what you need to hear, be exactly where you need to be, to receive exactly what you need to receive at that moment. Do you believe you can do this? Yes. Would it be fun? I hope so. I beg your pardon. I hope so. I beg your pardon. Yes, it'll be fun. I hope so means what? I'm not sure. I'm not sure. True. All right. So the question once again is, if you are willing to do this, do you believe it will actually be capable of supporting you? Yes. Why do you believe that? believe that. Because I know whatever I do. I put my heart and soul into it. Yes. And I can do it. All right. But why should that support you? Well, because I'm going to work to make it support me. Because? Because. I'm going to work to make it support me. Work? Why would you have to work to make it support you? Why would it support you? Because it's what I want. Because it's who you are. are. There's a difference, remember? Yes. If you are acting on your passion, you are telling the universe, this is me, you are declaring, you are committing to being the true you. The universe's only response will be, okay, I will now support that you. Because I've always supported you as whatever you, you told me you were. me you were. So if you're now telling me this is who you are, I will support that too. That's why it will support you. Because it's automatic and you're always supported. Does that make sense? Yes. Are you willing to do this? Yes. And if you come across at any given moment, doubt, what will you do? I won't succeed. Why? Because I'm not believing in myself and who I am. All right. So what will you do with the doubt? do with the doubt? How will you act with the doubt? What will you use the doubt for? Turn it into a positive and go forward. How? How? How? Erase it and just go forward with what I believe. How will you erase it? Go forward and what my beliefs are. Are you worried that by erasing it and just going forward you may actually simply be glossing it over and ignoring something you believe in more strongly? No, I think I've just gotten kind of in a rut. In a rut. Do you like it there? No. All right. Then why not climb out? Are you afraid something will happen if you do follow your passion? No, I'm looking forward to that. I think I've just been controlled a long time. Controlled? By whom? My ex-husband. I see. Well, you never really have been, you know. All you've done is agree to act as if you are. as if you are being controlled. So you've always been in control.

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it there? No. All right. Then why not climb out? Are you afraid something will happen if you do follow your passion? No, I'm looking forward to that. I think I've just been controlled a long time. Controlled? By whom? My ex-husband. I see. Well, you never really have been, you know. All you've done is agree to act as if you are. as if you are being controlled. So you've always been in control. What you're simply saying is now you no longer prefer to agree to act like you're being controlled. Right. So, does that help? Yes. Have fun. Now, will I meet somebody else nicer? I don't know. Will you? Let me get over here. All right. Remember this. This. Physical reality is a reality of space and time. The idea is that when you believe deeply within yourself that you have really changed, sometimes physical reality will still present you with an echo of an old idea. That is no longer who you are, but the echo may still be there for a while. There may be some lag time before it transforms. If, when you might encounter the echo of an old reality you don't prefer. If you react to it, in the old way you used to react, that means you haven't changed. And you will only reinforce the old reality to remain. If, on the other hand, you say you have changed, then you will respond differently to the echo, even if it still looks the same as it did before. The thing that will be different will be your response to it. And your response to it, being different is what will actually show reality you have changed. And then reality can reflect that change to you. So don't be fooled by the echo and think that just because it's there, it means you haven't changed. Respond to it in the way you would prefer to, knowing that it's going to serve you in a positive way. And when you respond to things that are the same differently, then you are different, and then you can have have a different reality. Does that make sense? Yes. Does that help you? Yes. Why, thank you. Thank you. I've been separated for many years. Yes. Separated from one? My husband. Oh, all right. Are you feeling emotional about this? Different emotions. Oh, all right. But I was very content raising my daughter and I was 18 before I went on a date for the first time. Yes. And I was just wondering if I will ever meet someone that I am. Do you want to? Do you want to? Are you sure you really want to? That's the question. Yes, it is. That's why I asked it. Sometimes I really think that's what I want, but yet I always have my husband. So you are afraid the same thing might happen again? No. What? I can't imagine my life. Without him. Oh, all right.

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was just wondering if I will ever meet someone that I am. Do you want to? Do you want to? Are you sure you really want to? That's the question. Yes, it is. That's why I asked it. Sometimes I really think that's what I want, but yet I always have my husband. So you are afraid the same thing might happen again? No. What? I can't imagine my life. Without him. Oh, all right. All right. Well, obviously that's not completely true because here you are. You have a life, don't you? I think so. You think so. Who's the one saying, I think so? I never. I see. I see. All right. What I'm simply saying is here you are, living a life. So obviously you have a life. So obviously you have a life. of your own with which you can do whatever you wish. Now, circumstances being what you have created them to be or co-created them to be, the idea is to recognize that you can still, no matter what has happened, put positive meaning into it, and thus by doing so, get a positive effect from it. Remember, no situation has built has built in meaning. Things don't automatically mean anything. The greatest gift creation has given to all of you is that life is meaningless. And I don't mean that in a negative way. Life is meaningless. There is no meaning to anything that happens. You have been given free will so that you have the power to assign whatever meaning you prefer to the neutral situation. So if you have been given free will so that you have the power to assign whatever meaning you prefer to the neutral situation. assign a negative meaning to a situation, the only effect you can possibly get out of it is a negative one. But if you assign a positive meaning to the same situation, the only effect you can get out of it is a positive one. The issue is, are you in touch with what kind of meaning you are assigning to the circumstances in your life that then determine how you feel about them? You see, emotion, how you feel, is a secondary response. response to a belief or a definition or an assignment of meaning. You cannot physically, you are not physically capable of actually experiencing any emotion at all if you don't already have a definition first of your relationship to a situation. So whatever you feel tells you what kind of belief you have, you have, you have. about your relationship to the situation. So if you're feeling bad, uncertain, scared, fearful about a situation, it's because you have definitions that are causing your energy to be experienced that way. You are assigning negative fearful definitions to your relationship to that circumstance. But I guarantee you, as soon as you start assigning positive meaning to the same circumstance, you will only experience positive energy.

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kind of belief you have, you have, you have. about your relationship to the situation. So if you're feeling bad, uncertain, scared, fearful about a situation, it's because you have definitions that are causing your energy to be experienced that way. You are assigning negative fearful definitions to your relationship to that circumstance. But I guarantee you, as soon as you start assigning positive meaning to the same circumstance, you will only experience positive energy. because the circumstance itself has no power, has no meaning. It's a neutral prop. There for you to assign whatever meaning you desire to it and extract whatever effect you want from it. It has no power of its own. So if you decide that you are tired of experiencing circumstances in a negative and fearful way or a non-enjoyable way, you can just as easy easily decide that the same circumstance is actually in your life to serve you. In a positive way. You can start exploring, oh, what kind of positive meaning can I give to this same circumstance that would allow me to extract a positive effect from it in my life? And you can start getting excited looking for positive meanings to apply to the very same circumstance and turn your life around. And thus then when you do that, attract to you those other individuals who will reflect the positive energy you have now decided to give up. But remember, you cannot attract what you are not the vibration of. It's not possible. In fact, you can't even be aware of any opportunity that might lead you to something like that if you're not on the same wavelength first. That's why we say, Circumstances do not matter. Only your state of being. Only your state of being. matters. Circumstances do not determine your state of being. Your state of being determines your circumstances. This is simple physics. So the idea is to allow yourself to understand be in the state of being you prefer to be in, not because of what is or isn't happening around you. You are a reality under yourself and you can decide, I'm happy. Why? I don't need a reason. I'm happy. I'm happy. Because I enjoy it. This is who I am. And by being that state of being, you will then call to you anything else reflective of that state. And if, because we understand you live in a world of polarity, you are still able to interact with other people that may not have exactly the same frequency that you do. But should you attract yourself to someone like that, the idea is that if you are in the state of being you prefer to be in, it will make it easier for you to discern whether or not someone else is a harmonious matching state of being or not.

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live in a world of polarity, you are still able to interact with other people that may not have exactly the same frequency that you do. But should you attract yourself to someone like that, the idea is that if you are in the state of being you prefer to be in, it will make it easier for you to discern whether or not someone else is a harmonious matching state of being or not. It'll be easier to tell who's on your wavelength and who's not if you remain in the state of being of your preference. But if you allow yourself to create a state of being that is one of confusion, one of self-doubt, one of lack of self-worth, then you will only create the kind of reality that will attract those kinds of reflections and you will remain confused about what to do. Is this making some sense? Yes. Is this helping you? I will guarantee you 100% that you certainly deserve to attract someone that you can fall in love with and be giddly head over heels joyfully in love with. You deserve that. Do you doubt that? Then why don't you? All right. The thing of it is, is, is. is no belief. No belief is more powerful than another belief. They're all equal in power. So whatever you say you prefer to believe in, that's what the universe reinforces. No other belief has the ability to come in and contradict you. When you say this is what I prefer to believe, this is what I prefer to be true about myself, no other belief, no other power in the universe can contradict that. That's what it means. when your texts say you are made in the image of God. You are a co-creator. What you say in your reality goes. So why not believe what you prefer to believe? Because every belief is valid. It's up to you to decide which ones you prefer. Does that make sense? Oh, thank you. Enjoy yourself. So others can also enjoy you. Thank you. I thought of one more thing to ask you. Oh, all right. Just one? Just one, maybe two. Oh, all right. Health of my middle daughter, is there anything that she can do? She, you know... What is she experiencing? Severe migraine headaches and sinus infections. And, you know, she's got... She's taken care of her family. Her husband's a severe hemophiliac, so she's got a lot going on. And I just wonder what we help her out. She's under a lot of stress. Absolutely. All right. Is there something she can do that she enjoys that would help reduce the stress in terms of creative expression? That she is not giving herself time to do? Well, she has no time. She does. She's all the time in the world. Well, she's, you know, her husband's in and out of the hospital. I understand. She still has time.

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what we help her out. She's under a lot of stress. Absolutely. All right. Is there something she can do that she enjoys that would help reduce the stress in terms of creative expression? That she is not giving herself time to do? Well, she has no time. She does. She's all the time in the world. Well, she's, you know, her husband's in and out of the hospital. I understand. She still has time. You know why she has time? Why? Because she creates time, as all of you do. She's just got to make the time for herself or take the time for herself. Yes, create the time. Okay. The way to create more time, paradox. To toxicically, is to live more in the now. Living in the timeless actually creates more time to experience what you prefer. Okay. In some senses thus then, having less time can actually be done in a positive way rather than a negative way. Creating timelessness will actually allow her to experience an eternal moment in which she can get a lot of things for herself done. Nevertheless, she must give herself an opportunity to do something. creative that gives her joy. Got it. As a beginning, as a seed, at the same time, as we have already suggested, it might be worthwhile for her to explore the idea herself of using natural, potent, organic, herbal formulations and detoxification programs to make sure her system is as clear as it possibly can so that the stress will not aggravate whatever toxicity might already be in the body. Okay. And thus compound it. You follow me? Yes, I do. All right. Does that help? That does help. All right. One moment. Is there something that she used to do as a child that she loved to do that she hasn't done for a long time? I can't think of anything. Why don't you ask her? Okay. If there is something she misses doing as a child, something she did and in the doing of it allowed her to feel carefree. that's important carefree. She needs to revert to that carefree moment. Now, it doesn't mean she has to stop caring for others. Which you won't do. All right, but just don't let her get confused about that idea. Going to a carefree energy doesn't mean she doesn't care. You follow me? Yes. All right. But allow her to recreate a memory of a carefree moment in her childhood. That state of being. is where she wants to come from to reduce and eliminate the stress. Got it. All right? Okay. What else? One other thing. Do you have any information on Flynn that was a friend of the family and of my sons and daughters, and he took his own life last year. In what way? He hung himself. All right. In what area of your planet? California, Fraser Park. All right. One moment. One moment. One moment.

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where she wants to come from to reduce and eliminate the stress. Got it. All right? Okay. What else? One other thing. Do you have any information on Flynn that was a friend of the family and of my sons and daughters, and he took his own life last year. In what way? He hung himself. All right. In what area of your planet? California, Fraser Park. All right. One moment. One moment. One moment. Oddly, we are detecting an awful lot of humor. Really? That's funny. Uh-huh. Regardless of what this person may have decided to do in taking their own life, were they capable of actually invoking laughter and others? Yes. One moment. Could they have gone so far as to actually be what you call a comic? on your planet? If they had wanted to? I don't see that. I wasn't around him that much, but maybe. Maybe when he was around my son. I see. One moment. Well, the individual has learned in that sense that perhaps they, not in a judgmental way, made a mistake, but the idea is that they have now recognized from the spirit point of view that that certainly wasn't a path they had to take, and they actually had more options than they thought. But the appearance. The appearance of lack of options drove him into that particular area. Okay. Nevertheless, it is now recognized that the spirit can learn from that. And the spirit may choose to experience a life where in some of the same scenarios are presented, so it gives that spirit an opportunity to make other choices and actually have a happier life. All right? Okay. All right. One moment. One moment. The phrase, like Flynn is being sent. Okay. That is all. Okay. Does that help? Have you had a dream communication with this person? No, I haven't. Do you want one? No, thanks. Are you sure? I'm sure. He can send a dream to my son, maybe. Your son's name being? Rick. Rick. All right. Why do your son and not to you? Well, Rick, they were best friends. They hung out together. I mean, Flynn's the guy that had my motorcycle for a year, and he was supposed to be fixed on that, and he was just riding it all over town. So, you know, I missed my motorcycle. I still hold that against him. All right. Well, you don't need to. All right, all right, one moment, one moment, one moment. All right. I am not allowed to interpret this any farther than what will come out, but you will understand when the time comes. Flynn says, Merry Christmas. Okay. See what happens. Okay. All right. Thank you very much. Thank you. Okay. Hi, Bashar. And you, good day. Would you tell me about your existence, your world, so to speak? In general? Yes. All right.

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All right, all right, one moment, one moment, one moment. All right. I am not allowed to interpret this any farther than what will come out, but you will understand when the time comes. Flynn says, Merry Christmas. Okay. See what happens. Okay. All right. Thank you very much. Thank you. Okay. Hi, Bashar. And you, good day. Would you tell me about your existence, your world, so to speak? In general? Yes. All right. Our world in our ancient language we no longer use is called Athani, place of living light. We are, of average, about five feet. about five feet of your height, white, whitish gray, skin coloration, relatively thin, very enlarged eyes. The males have no hair. The females have hair. It tends to be white. Our planet is mostly park-like. There are no major cities or built-up structures, although there are a few used for specific purposes. Our spacecraft are our cities, for the most part. We operate totally synchronistically. We are telempathically connected to everyone. We live in one marriage with every being on our planet, even though we are also individuals. We perform acts of creativity and art and constant joy every day, every moment of our lives, and explore the galaxy and the universe with that attitude. I personally form first contact connection scenarios with various civilizations, similar to what I am doing with Earth at this time, in opening up doorways for future contact between our respective civilizations. We are a hybrid species, and that means that we are actually made up of genetic material from many of you on Earth. of you on earth and in that sense are thus your children, your ancestors living in another realm, another dimension, who are coming back to speak to our, shall we say, fathers, mothers, we are your descendants. You follow that? Yes. You are our ancestors. You are in our ancient language the Enani, those who are before, the ancient ones, the ancestors, those who gave us life along with another race of beings that you would call the grays. Does this make sense? sense to you? Yes. Is there something else specific you wish to know about our civilization? Do you procreate? We do, but it is no longer a physiological act. We are evolving toward more and more energy, even though retaining some degree of physicality. Now we simply create an energy field that is dense enough for a soul to take form in if it wishes to belong to our society. It does not happen any longer within the body. Does that make sense? Yes. We no longer sleep. We no longer eat. We take energy directly. But we used to. Do you blend your energy with another, like a male and a female? Do you blend your energy? We can. Or any combination thereof, depending upon what themes of exploration those beings have chosen to experience with each other. Did that answer your question?

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society. It does not happen any longer within the body. Does that make sense? Yes. We no longer sleep. We no longer eat. We take energy directly. But we used to. Do you blend your energy with another, like a male and a female? Do you blend your energy? We can. Or any combination thereof, depending upon what themes of exploration those beings have chosen to experience with each other. Did that answer your question? Yes, and so there's no marriage anymore. We are all in one marriage. Yes. been a ritual on our planet for that anyway. We have always been telepathically connected. How can you not be in a marriage if you know what everyone is thinking? I knew that I'd be a millionaire. So is marriage unique to this planet? No. We just don't do it the way you do it. It seems to be going out of style on this planet. In a sense, yes. Yes, yes. You are also beginning to learn that you really are one family. And thus then, any kind of ritualization is really a personal expression and not something that is necessary to create the condition. The condition is simply created in your energy, in your spirit, in your heart, in your soul. It's a state of being. And you can honor it, formalize it, ritualize it any way you want, but the ritual doesn't create the state, the state creates the ritual. Does that make sense? Yes. All right. It's up to you. As long as you are in agreement with any other being in any kind of relationship you have and it is a mutually consenting situation, then, do whatever you want. That's a marriage. The marriage, like any relationship, like any relationship, serves this purpose. Any relationship is for the purpose of each individual, no matter how many, in the relationship, to support and allow the other beings in the relationship to become more and more of who they are. That's what any relationship is for. To help the other being in the relationship become more and more of who they are, as they do the same for you. That's a true reflection. Mm-hmm. That's good. That's good. It works. Because that's how the universe works. Because it's the same idea that the universe is giving to all of us, all of you. It supports you. In every way you say you need to be supported to become more and more of who you are. Waking to the fact that you are an aspect of creation already. Becoming more and more of who you are doesn't actually mean you're not that you now. It means you remember. remember more and more of who you are. You awaken to more and more of who you already are. Not that you're not that you now on some level. Make sense? Yes. Is this answering your question about our civilization? Yes.

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you are. Waking to the fact that you are an aspect of creation already. Becoming more and more of who you are doesn't actually mean you're not that you now. It means you remember. remember more and more of who you are. You awaken to more and more of who you already are. Not that you're not that you now on some level. Make sense? Yes. Is this answering your question about our civilization? Yes. Is there anything else you wish to know about our world? Lots, but I'm going to pass the time. Oh, all right. Bashar? Yes, good day. Good day. I wanted to ask you about. about my father who has crossed over. His name was Richard and I want to know why I was his chosen child to help him cross over the veil. I'm one of seven. Why did you choose to help? I'm not sure about that. What did you get out of it? What did you learn about yourself in doing that? I learned not to be afraid of death and that death was a beautiful And there you go. You made a pact and an agreement to be in that position to learn things that would help you, even as you helped him. Okay. That makes sense. Yes. It's really obvious, you know. No. I didn't know, but thank you. All you have to ask yourself in any given situation that you're in is what am I learning about myself in this situation? And you'll know. exactly why you chose to be there. Fair enough. Yes. Anything else? I'd like to know if you could get a perception of him from the other side or make contact with him for me today. Bicycles. Or motorcycles? Take a ride on a bike. That's the message. Where will you go if you take a ride on a bike? Probably the strand. Probably the strand on the beach. All right. Do so. You may see something in the water that will actually be unusual and that actually will be a message. All right. All right. All right. Have fun. Thank you. Yes. Okay, I have some questions for you again. All right. It's okay if I ask more questions. That was a question. I have a 19-year-old son who's going through a difficult time. through a difficult time and I'm very concerned about him. Define difficult? Well, with our divorce and himself, he's had poor health. He's had weird incidences of health, of almost dying twice. All right. What is his passion? He doesn't know, I think, right now. He's in the same tornado that I'm in. I see. Well, why don't you both settle down? He won't let me help him to, he won't talk. He's afraid of losing his father. I see. And he's take, you know, he's just, he's running. He's just, he's running. He's just running. Have you asked him specifically what it is he thinks he is going to lose?

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his passion? He doesn't know, I think, right now. He's in the same tornado that I'm in. I see. Well, why don't you both settle down? He won't let me help him to, he won't talk. He's afraid of losing his father. I see. And he's take, you know, he's just, he's running. He's just, he's running. He's just running. Have you asked him specifically what it is he thinks he is going to lose? He won't discuss it with me. He's kind of holds everything inside, but he's... Who did he learn to do that from? His father. I see. So he is in that sense, obviously retaining a lot of qualities of his father. Yes. All right. You could, whether he answers you or not, ask him if he's willing to hold on to the qualities of his father that don't serve him. He doesn't have to answer you. Is he willing? One moment. One moment. Have you noticed any kind of creative expression from this child in his life? Creative, he's very creative. In what way? He likes arts. He likes. What kind? Design, decorating. He does this? Well, he likes to do it as a hobby, not as a... He's still in college. But he doesn't know what direction he wants to go. Those things are not passionate for him? He doesn't stay with anything. That doesn't matter. I didn't ask you that. Just because someone doesn't stay with something doesn't mean they're not passionate about it when they're doing it. Oh, he's passionate about something when he is doing it. All right. All right. Do you think you can begin to impart to him again, whether he answers you or not, the idea that the things he is in fact most passionate about, no matter how little time it may be that he is passionate about it at any given moment, are the things that actually are his truest self that can support him in life? Can you share that idea with him in creative ways without necessarily having to have it take place in a typical conversational manner? Can you be as creative in deliative delivering the information? Yes. Give me an example of how you might creatively get that idea across. Share that idea. Well, like he just did a party at our house and he painted my walls. Yes. And he took tape and made martinis on them and beer things. And? And I said, God Johnny, that's unbelievable. And I didn't know you could paint so well. And he's always had that creativity. And I said, he said, yeah, maybe I'll become an interior decorator. All right. And I said, that's a great idea. All right. And? And that was as far as we went. That's all right. Just planted a seed. That's all right. Sometimes that's all you can do for the moment is plant the seed. But what I would suggest is that you water the seed.

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paint so well. And he's always had that creativity. And I said, he said, yeah, maybe I'll become an interior decorator. All right. And I said, that's a great idea. All right. And? And that was as far as we went. That's all right. Just planted a seed. That's all right. Sometimes that's all you can do for the moment is plant the seed. But what I would suggest is that you water the seed. Any chance you get, anything that you have noticed is representative of that seed, water it. You might give him a magazine that represents the idea of something that represents his passion with pictures in it. that inspire him. You might just drop him a note that reminds him of how much you enjoyed what he did that day. Reinforcing always the seed in a positive way. Just water the seed a little bit every day. It doesn't have to be much. You don't have to hang around for a response. He doesn't have to say a thing. Just water the seed a little bit every day in some creative way that doesn't require that you have some kind of big, meaningful interaction. See what happened. All right. Does that help you? That helps me. I have one more question. What do I do with my ex-husband who is trying to really sabotage our relationship because he didn't have a good relationship? Do you understand what we mean when we said circumstances don't matter? Only your state of being does? I understand it. Well, that's all you need to do. That's all you need to do. You cannot be. responsible for him. You can only be responsible to him by being the best you you can be. Water the seed. That is what will rub off. You sure? I don't see it lately. You don't see it because you're not doing it. Because you're not in the state of being yet. No, no, I'm actually a very good role model for him, but it's like he's like an abused child. He's running. use child. He's running to see. I understand. Water the seed. If you want a direct answer, yes, I'm sure. Okay. Yes, I'm sure. All right. Okay. Do you have any degree of belief that he is capable of realizing on his own what's truly important in his life energetically? Yes, I think. Don't say anything more than yes. Then water that. water that seed and do not give power to the other energies that are not the energies of your preference. Because only by giving them power would you be in a position to wonder what effect is that going to have? Because it will have no effect if you stay in the proper state and water the seed. Make sense? You just said a good question. Yes. Should I stay in the state? I didn't want to run away from a situation, so I...

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the other energies that are not the energies of your preference. Because only by giving them power would you be in a position to wonder what effect is that going to have? Because it will have no effect if you stay in the proper state and water the seed. Make sense? You just said a good question. Yes. Should I stay in the state? I didn't want to run away from a situation, so I... It isn't necessarily running away if you recognize that there is another location that is actually truly more representative of your preferred vibration. As long as you know you're not doing it to run away from something you really need to look at, then it's quite all right to remove yourself from circumstances that are not vibrational compatible. You just have to make sure why you're doing it. If you are running from, Running from, that's never a reason to do it and there will not be a positive result. If you are moving toward, then do it. You follow me? Yeah, I don't run away from my problems. I walk through the storm, yeah. But that doesn't mean you have to hold yourself in a circumstance or even a physical location if you recognize that another location is actually truly more harmoniously aligned with your vibratory state of preference. Do you see a state where I belong? You tell me. I don't know. I don't want to go back against again. Yes, you do. Yes, you do. You see, what you are exhibiting right now is exactly where your son learned to not believe in himself. But I like it here. I know you do. But you have just said you don't. I don't know if I'm going to afford a living anymore, but I'm going to make millions girls watch me. When we say state, it can actually be the physical location or it can be the changing of the frequency. Because when you change your frequency sufficiently, you're not actually in the same location anyway. You're actually in a parallel reality. Make sense? All right. So, you decide whether it's just the state of being or actually literally the physical state. If you find yourself passionate about being somewhere else, else I would suggest you go there without any expectation for how long you should be there. Sometimes your excitement will attract you in a certain direction, not because what it's attracting you to need to come to fruition, but only because your excitement needs to get you to move to change your state of being. You follow me? All right. So you decide what kind of state you actually want to create and live in it. All right? Thank you. Thank you. There will be but a few moments remaining for this transmission. Is there anything else you wish to discuss in the brief time remaining? I'd like to ask one quick question. Yes. Will I be moving again?

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to get you to move to change your state of being. You follow me? All right. So you decide what kind of state you actually want to create and live in it. All right? Thank you. Thank you. There will be but a few moments remaining for this transmission. Is there anything else you wish to discuss in the brief time remaining? I'd like to ask one quick question. Yes. Will I be moving again? And if so, how soon? Do you understand that there is no such thing as a prediction of the future? There is no such thing as a prediction of the future. Any time someone makes a prediction, they are not predicting the future. They are sensing the energy that exists. the energy that exists at the present. And if that energy doesn't change, then it will come to pass. But if it does change, something else will happen. Because there are an infinite number of probable futures. And when someone asks, will I do this, will I do that, I will always take you back to what is your passion? Because you are the determiner of what future you will experience when you are willing to act in the direction of your joy and passion every moment, you will know. exactly where you want to be, where you want to go, what you want to do. And you won't need to ask someone else as if it's some sort of mysterious idea. Because it isn't. It will be clear to you when you are clear to you. Make sense? Very much. All right. Thank you. Thank you. We will extend to each of you at this time, our deepest and heartfelt appreciation and unconditional love for the co-creation of this interaction of this interaction. of this interaction in this way and the forming of this link and this bridge between our respective realities. We bid you each a fond, exciting, creative and loving good day. This is the ship. This transmission will conclude in five, four, three, two, one.