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allow yourself to continue on and recognize that what situation you experienced was something you can grow from and it really carries no more weight than you gave it in that frame of mind you used to be within with a new frame of mind what appeared to be so real and so scary to you then now takes on the proportions of a shadow and you cannot even find it anymore now do you wish to continue with your definition Yeah, I'm going to try. I'm going to, yes, I'm going to continue. Why, thank you. All right. You learn quickly. Okay, after my friend channels, there was an energy that I was feeling in the car. Right. We were in the car when we went to a family. All right. And the energy, what I interpreted as happening was the energy, was, was, came through me, and eight, well, I don't know what it was, it was, an energy went through me, but it was, um, it was like for a split second, at that time, when I self was, when I'm not supposed to say fear. Oh, you are not supposed or supposed to do any, you would say whatever you wish. Okay, what I, what I felt was that it was, we are not saying, we do not feel fear. Right. We are simply saying that it is no intrinsically fear. fearful energy. Okay. Well, what I guess, and what was, it was something very familiar and something very frightening to me. All right. And what, ever since I was, I can remember, I had a fear of being taken over by something. All right. This is what I felt was going to take me over. All right. And this is what I felt was going to happen. And after that, it's like I felt that I was in the process of growing and building and maybe getting to, um. to move on and grow. And then having that experience, I felt myself want to back off and not go further because of what, it's, I don't know what's going to happen, and that is really what I'm doing. Oh, all right, that's all right. Now, first of all, give yourself a pat on the back. Okay, finish. All right. Now, do you know why? You deserve a pat on the back? I'm not sure. All right, I'll tell you. You deserve the paddle on the back because you gave yourself a perfectly flawless example that you're not going to move any faster than you deem to be comfortable. The idea that you were able to, quote, unquote, back away from it should let you know, not the judgmental way of should, but simply is an indication of the fact that you are completely and utterly in control because you have the ability to back away. And therefore, nothing.
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on the back because you gave yourself a perfectly flawless example that you're not going to move any faster than you deem to be comfortable. The idea that you were able to, quote, unquote, back away from it should let you know, not the judgmental way of should, but simply is an indication of the fact that you are completely and utterly in control because you have the ability to back away. And therefore, nothing. by definition, really can force itself upon you that you do not choose to participate with in that illusionary scenario. Okay. Do you have a suggestion as to a way of moving forward and going past it, of dealing with this? May I ask you a question? Yes. Did you hear anything about what I just said? Yes, yes. All right. Will you repeat it to me? No. All right. Listen to your case. No, you don't. I'll say it again if you are. All right? Oh, thank you. Are you having a good time? Sort of. All right. When you encounter in a situation something that allows you to choose to back away from it, the ability to back away from it lets you know that you are in control and you will never go faster than you are comfortable going. You have your own governor on the situation. You will never proceed faster than you are able to assimilate the idea. That, in of itself, lets you know you are in control, and knowing that, let you know that you can proceed as quickly or as slowly as you want, as you are comfortable in doing. So the way to go faster is to recognize that you are in complete control, and you will only ever go as fast as is comfortable. And should you come up upon that self-created wall again and feel the fear, you will back off and you will be just fine. That is the way to know you can go faster. By always knowing that should you ever encounter that self-created wall of fear, you will always be able to back off and be just fine. That will give you more confidence to go faster and not back off as often. Now does that make some sense. Yes. Thank you very much. Now, I will ask you to repeat it, not in words, but in actions in your life. All right? All right. It's up to you. Thank you. Oh, thank you very much. There's a. You. Is that me? Then you. Thank you. Okay. I wanted with this woman Jane Elman to a meeting of what's called the summit organization. Okay. He told me something bad and I hadn't heard about it, pride to her telling me, and I thought I didn't investigate it as they do many things. Thanks. I'll be. Well, that's the thing. There, they're purposely nice people, basically young, professional people who are... Oh, professional people. They get together for classes.
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you. Thank you. Okay. I wanted with this woman Jane Elman to a meeting of what's called the summit organization. Okay. He told me something bad and I hadn't heard about it, pride to her telling me, and I thought I didn't investigate it as they do many things. Thanks. I'll be. Well, that's the thing. There, they're purposely nice people, basically young, professional people who are... Oh, professional people. They get together for classes. They get together for classes, so, um, for seminars and networking, and I guess social or whatever. And you can only get in via a member. So, I went with this woman, and I liked it. But I really didn't have. they really didn't have any specific feeling as to whether I wanted to become a member or not. But the way it works is that they have kind of a hard sell at the end, where they sit down with you and just talk about why you'd be interested in joining it and so on and so forth. And I decided at the time that it wouldn't be a bad idea if I just put a deposit down. So I did, and I gave me a packet of information, and I got home and I started feeling really bad about it. I mean, looking at it, looking at it from, I don't know, to say, not a practical, but a factual standpoint, the worse that could happen is that I paid them a certain amount of money and I, and I, um, undergo a class, and if I don't want to continue with it, I don't. That's the worst, really, that could happen. But my reaction, my emotional reaction was very, I began to feel very upset. Not that these are bad people I think, not that anybody's insensitive bad, but I felt it was to me, without judging myself, my reaction, the degree to which I was upset seemed too much, too extreme in the situation. And I even woke up in the middle of the morning very upset about this. And other than the fact that maybe I don't really want to spend the money at this time, and I feel like I was pushed even though I made the choice to join, I can't think of any reason why I would be so upset about it. And I just wanted to know because of my name. and like, you know, I'm finished now. You're... Recognize, therefore, in this way. But of course, as with anything, any upset, of course is being upset with yourself, and so in a sense that is a self-judgment. Otherwise, you would not experience the upset. Simply, you. You! Oh, let's put it. Oh, let's put it. very colloquially. You are a being of high energy, you know. Well, you met your match, didn't you? And the idea in this way is that you now have ingrained within you the belief that you came up short.
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any upset, of course is being upset with yourself, and so in a sense that is a self-judgment. Otherwise, you would not experience the upset. Simply, you. You! Oh, let's put it. Oh, let's put it. very colloquially. You are a being of high energy, you know. Well, you met your match, didn't you? And the idea in this way is that you now have ingrained within you the belief that you came up short. In what way? In seeing an expression of energy equal to your own, you felt that you backed out of your integrity and complied where you did not wish to and therefore feel as if you made yourself unequal by then presenting the idea in their manner as a contest of will you were impressed with that level of definition, that level of energy. And in this way, because you made the decision you made, not because you actually made the decision, but because of the way you allow yourself to buy into their definition of your having made that decision, you feel you succumbed in a decision. you succumbed in a battle of wills, in a matching of energies. You now consider yourself to be less, them to be more powerful. That has really nothing to do with the overall basis scenario, but that is what you perceive within you. So you are simply angry and upset with yourself for letting your own self down, so to speak, and not simply maintaining your integrity along the line without succumbing to the idea of what you may refer to as their own self. their particular approach or game. Very long. That was going to get too. What came to mind and you did ask the amendment, is that perhaps they represent me, or my attracting them represents me, represents me on a more banded level. his level. Like me, maybe not being comfortable, like on a conscious level, I really want my exterior world to expand, to feel what, to mask what I feel is my interior world. And maybe they represent on the outside an, a symbol of my expansion. Represent a symbol of the expansion in a way that you do not prefer to show it. The idea of what you pick up on as the, quote, unquote, forceful needs, of someone to comply. Right. Now, again, like anything, it is a tool. And valid if you wish to use it. And in this case, you are using it. You are using you to get in touch with your own understandings of your own integrity and to realize that you can stand, firm, without being what you see in your mind, then to be obstinence. obstinence. Standing firm does not mean obstinate. That is what you are exploring now with them. And so you are availing yourself of their services in that way. Fair trade. All right. Do what you will. Find you. Yes. Thank you. One moment, one moment. Thank you.
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with your own understandings of your own integrity and to realize that you can stand, firm, without being what you see in your mind, then to be obstinence. obstinence. Standing firm does not mean obstinate. That is what you are exploring now with them. And so you are availing yourself of their services in that way. Fair trade. All right. Do what you will. Find you. Yes. Thank you. One moment, one moment. Thank you. Thank you for sure. Before you were talking... Pick up. Before you were talking... Do not deprive these wonderful people of your gift of sharing from which they can all see reflections of themselves and grow and expand. Okay. Is this loud enough? No. Nope. Really? Okay. Stand up. No shy people allowed. Okay. Hey, now we're going. Okay, a few weeks ago I had an experience and you were sharing about how to create how a painful situation may come into your life and you can transform it once you learn the lesson from it. Well, I had sprayed my ankle and I was looking at, okay, what is I need to learn from this experience. And they were telling me it was going to take a week or two weeks before my ankle was going to be heal and that was totally unacceptable to me. And I did some exploring and I got to see that what I needed to understand was the word balance kept coming into my life. Alright. So I could, okay, so I was off balance and so therefore I had a great ankle. And once I learned that, by Monday I went to a healing service and I was healed. And I was walking around and I still am and like, I didn't go fine. Very good. And so I believed this and I know. excited about this process. Oh, thank you. I wanted to thank you for it. Getting into the balanced situation, I'm still exploring the areas of my life that are out of balance. An enjoyable endeavor. Yes, it is. I'm really excited about my process right now. Thank you. The transformation is really incredible. I had an experience. I have an experience. I'll let that one. If it were incredible, you would not have experienced this. It is obviously very credible for you. Okay. Yes, it was wonderful. My... It would not mean to make you walk on eggshell. Simply speak freely. Okay. The process that I'm going to do. The process that I'm going through has intended to make... The process that you are. The process that I am. Thank you. Okay. And, um... I don't know how to say this.
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it were incredible, you would not have experienced this. It is obviously very credible for you. Okay. Yes, it was wonderful. My... It would not mean to make you walk on eggshell. Simply speak freely. Okay. The process that I'm going to do. The process that I'm going through has intended to make... The process that you are. The process that I am. Thank you. Okay. And, um... I don't know how to say this. I'm in a group on Thursdays and a woman shared that she was experiencing, that she found out that she created, well, she didn't say she created, in her life, but she had shared that her father had it, and it was almost a release because she had feared it all her life getting it. And so I shared, well, obviously you created it. And I was looked at by the rest of the members of the group as being totally heartless, and here this woman is really upset and into her pain. We understand. And... There is a method of delivery. That kind of one. That kind of one. allow them to understand what you are saying without the feeling that they are being attacked. Because do not forget, they are already deeply within the belief of victimhood. And therefore, anything, anyone says, that is not very specifically directed with a lot of unconditional love will be interpreted as yet another reinforcement of their victimhood. And therefore, you will be considered an attacker. You cold, heartless, cool person. Yeah, I was feeling a lot of love and I didn't know how to express what I was feeling what I was feeling and still stating the fact that she created this, which is what I believe. Oh, oh, you, strong, strong creative person. I love you very much for creating this manifestation in your life. for it will be something you will learn. Beautiful things, beautiful discoveries about yourself within. I support you. I will assist you in any way shape or form to allow that I need to transform into something else if you do not prefer the manifestation it is in. But I salute you and I congratulate you for the courage and the strength to have that manifestation in your life, for it means you are ready to face much about yourself. I congratulate you. How about that way? Then, at least if they say, what do you mean, they will generally be off their guard and will be interested in what further you have to share rather than immediately invoking a defensive position. You follow me. All you need to do is get into love within yourself and truly express that love. You will be motivated to see. motivated to say what you need to say. Let it move you. You know that when you experience an individual speaking from the heart, you say it was a moving experience. Let it move you as well.
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what further you have to share rather than immediately invoking a defensive position. You follow me. All you need to do is get into love within yourself and truly express that love. You will be motivated to see. motivated to say what you need to say. Let it move you. You know that when you experience an individual speaking from the heart, you say it was a moving experience. Let it move you as well. And then what you need to say will very easily come out. And they will also be moved, for they will sense the sincerity and the love within you in what you are saying. They will know that what you are saying is not being said in a invalid, judgmental way, they will be open. You will have allowed them to share their vulnerability with you, and that is what will allow them to become strong. Because complete vulnerability is infinite strength. Share your vulnerability with them, but not in a victimhood way. I don't understand, not in a victimhood way. I don't want to come off as a victim, and I, in turn, don't in turn don't want to support their victimization. That is why if you share the idea through love, you can allow them to begin to understand that their concept of vulnerability does not have to mean weakness or victimization, that your concept of vulnerability is the willingness to be open to support them and what they are doing completely, utterly, totally. You believe in them, even if they do not believe in themselves. This will come through in whatever you say. Let me point out something, if I may, all right? Sure. If many of you, and many of you may have already realized this many times, if you will only listen to the wording that we activate from the physiological channel many times you will hear the wording in and of itself may sound, if that's all you're listening to, very harsh, very direct. direct, but we also send you the energy of our unconditional love, and this is what lets you know what we actually mean regardless of the wording. You follow me? You feel the idea, and so in that sense, you, well, all right, to be contemporary in your language, you let us get away with, saying many things you would not accept from people around you because you don't believe that they are coming with your best interest, whereas you feel from us that we love you unconditionally. And therefore, anything we say, you know, we are simply sharing that love with you, and you accept it on another level other than just what you think you hear us saying. You follow me.
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language, you let us get away with, saying many things you would not accept from people around you because you don't believe that they are coming with your best interest, whereas you feel from us that we love you unconditionally. And therefore, anything we say, you know, we are simply sharing that love with you, and you accept it on another level other than just what you think you hear us saying. You follow me. Yeah, I follow you, Bashar, and what I think, what I've gotten clear to me, gotten clear to me is that that's where my life has gotten out of balance is that before I was so totally coming from the feeling and so sympathetic and we understand we understand that now I'm going to the point of trying to get stronger and disencouraged victimhood when I see it and the love is getting lost and it's not coming through that is simply because perhaps you believe that compassion has to be erased from your repertoire in order to achieve that balance on the other side, but that is not the case. Compassion is the blending of the directness and the emotionality. Compassion is the blending. Reason is the blending. You follow me. And trust that because you created, co-created that that particular situation, situation that you put yourself exactly in the situation you needed to be in to allow yourself to begin to get experience in doing just that, informing the blending you need to get the message across. Do not be so hard on yourself. No, I'm not, I'm much lighter on myself than I use. All right, you haven't lost the love in any way, shape or form. I know it's there and what I get frustrated with is the fact that, um, what my intention and what was reflected out there is not coming in my heart. You will learn to align. You will learn to align. Simply remember that it is not so much that the love is there. The love is here. Always here. Not I know it's there somewhere. It's here. Simply always trust that it is and know, therefore, that in whatever way, shape, or form, you do happen to say something at any given time. That is the way you need to say it at that time. You know you are doing your best. So don't be so hard on yourself, please. All right. If you are going to let them see your love, then begin by loving yourself as you are. I do. Is that not coming across either? I'm feeling that so much more now. All right. But simply trust that you can use the self. use the self-love to allow them to feel that you know everyone and everything is also the same as you, and therefore they can feel the same love from you in that way.
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are going to let them see your love, then begin by loving yourself as you are. I do. Is that not coming across either? I'm feeling that so much more now. All right. But simply trust that you can use the self. use the self-love to allow them to feel that you know everyone and everything is also the same as you, and therefore they can feel the same love from you in that way. But again, the idea that no matter how it comes out, if you know you are doing your best and if you know you are coming from love, then why buy into their reaction? Their reaction is their choice. If you know that what you are sharing is within your integrity, then anything you are doing, Anything you may be feeling from them as a discordant vibration is not your doing. It is their doing. You follow me? You cannot be responsible for them. You are only responsible to them to be completely who you are at any given moment. See, I guess I got confused then with victimization. I feel like if I don't take responsibility for everything I do and do, For everything you do and say, yes. But taking responsibility for everything you do and say doesn't mean blaming yourself for what you do and say. It means knowing you have the freedom of choice to recognize that what you do and say may at times be representative of the way you prefer to be, and at times it may not be representative of the way you prefer to be, but so what? When those times occur where it is not representative of what you prefer to be, use them to allow you therefore to get more in touch with what it is you do prefer to be. prefer to be. Use it as a positive lesson. Don't get down on yourself or having done it. It has shown you now what you don't want to be. And that allows you to be more of what you do want to be. Yay. Yay. Yeah. I mean, that's exactly what I've been doing with this is by saying, okay, this is a really powerful lesson and I didn't get depressed and I didn't get upset about. The experience I just said, I want to learn what it is so that I can I can balance the energy. You are learning. Yeah. You are? Yeah. Thank you very much. Well, thank you. Bouchard Masha. You. Thank you. I want to ask the question with concern for a friend of mine. Concern again. All right. Caring. Caring. Anyway, he has been astrally projected for probably 12 or 15 years. All right. has always been very natural for him, but he's very, he's, he doesn't have any kind of a support system or anybody who really knows anything about any thing to do with that around him or anything spiritual. You have you?
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you. I want to ask the question with concern for a friend of mine. Concern again. All right. Caring. Caring. Anyway, he has been astrally projected for probably 12 or 15 years. All right. has always been very natural for him, but he's very, he's, he doesn't have any kind of a support system or anybody who really knows anything about any thing to do with that around him or anything spiritual. You have you? Yes, but I'm rather removed. But anyway, if I may just continue, he, what he does is that he leaves his body, but he never leaves his body far enough to where he does. He always feels that he has to be able to see his body because he is a friend. because he is afraid because of the fundamental things and he and so I thought that maybe that there was was some way that I could the literature we have already mentioned by Monroe will be of greatest system for it charts like a map the entire experience through many different levels realize there are many beings on that level that are more than willing to assist your friend all he has to do with that but he doesn't know that Tell him. Then the next time he is out, all he has to do is say, help. A little bit of assistance, please, if you don't mind very much. I would very much enjoy that. Not help out of panic, but simply assist him. He will get it. All right? Allow him to learn the literature also of Monroe. It will be of great assistance. be of great assistance. And then he will not feel so alone. There are many, many, like your friend. You see, the idea in this way is that if he does not allow himself to go beyond that particular point, and he is not allowing himself to avail himself of the level that can actually be of most assistance to him in getting over that seat. He knows that. He knows that. He just, he, being that he doesn't know anything beyond beyond what he is experiencing that comes naturally to him just in that realm. He's just, he's not willing to take the chance to go beyond, because he really does believe in, you know, all the fearful and things that are out there that may just say, okay, well, thanks, you left, so I'll walk in. All right. All right. Give him the suggestion of the literature, and let him know, once again, all he has to do is ask for a sentence. Not in a panicked way. in a determined way, in a knowing way. Perhaps what might also be of some assistance is to before, he allows himself to leave the body, so to speak, to have a pre-determined destination in mind. Something clear and concise. Something It's familiar, someone familiar, more than some thing or place.
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of the literature, and let him know, once again, all he has to do is ask for a sentence. Not in a panicked way. in a determined way, in a knowing way. Perhaps what might also be of some assistance is to before, he allows himself to leave the body, so to speak, to have a pre-determined destination in mind. Something clear and concise. Something It's familiar, someone familiar, more than some thing or place. Someone, such as yourself, that feels like a friend. Then he can wean himself by making quick trips to and fro. The body's still okay. All right. One more time. Two and fro. Still okay. All right. Let's try someone else. All right, let's see. What about this person to and fro? Pretty good. All right. I guess I'm getting the hang of this now. The idea is in all actuality that they may find it, that any, any disturbance of the body at all, will immediately snap them back into it, no matter what the source. If you wish to think of it this way, it is an automatic safety mechanism built in. Any disturbance of something that is not the vibration of the idea will not allow him to remain out of the body. Right. Okay. But our suggestion is to focus on someone that he knows. Recognize he is a thought form and a world of thought forms and as soon as he has the thought of seeing that, all he has to do is think of that person. He will be there. All he has to do is think of being back and he will be. It's that easy. And it can be that quick. You can stick his astral toe in the water and pull it out as quickly as he wishes. Oh, thank you very much. Yes, back here. You know, it's very difficult to get your attention as a first-time attendee. There's someone back here who is eager to get a question and I think gave up because of the competition. Could she ask the question and if it isn't taking unfair advantage, could I ask one after that? Absolutely, but do recognize, first of all, that everything occurs in perfect timing. Proceed. My question was that the material has come to me lately about, you know, And it sounds more of it still, excuse me, about what happens to beings that are atomically disintegrated and that it's much harder on them because the body is totally disintegrated. And I wondered if this is true. There can be some relevance to this idea within certain belief systems. There can be energies that may bridge what you call the physical, non-physical barriers in this way, and cause some sense of disruption. But in this way. In this way also, is there some specific reason why you are overly concerned about the idea of atomic disintegrate?
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harder on them because the body is totally disintegrated. And I wondered if this is true. There can be some relevance to this idea within certain belief systems. There can be energies that may bridge what you call the physical, non-physical barriers in this way, and cause some sense of disruption. But in this way. In this way also, is there some specific reason why you are overly concerned about the idea of atomic disintegrate? Yes, because of something that was said to me about my energies and my inability to, my energies can get extremely gathered and have very difficulty, much difficulty bringing them back together. And someone just told me, unasked by me that I had been at one time, I'm saying that I was atomically blown up in that my energy field was scattered and that's very difficult to me to bring it back together In what era were you atomically blown up? I'll tell you, I was no blown away. I didn't even have it. So I don't know. All right. One moment. May I ask you a few questions myself? Yes. Do you believe you are here for a reason? I mean on earth? On earth? Yes. You say that hesitantly? No, I just, no, I think that anybody would hear and believe they're here for a reason. All right, they don't have to. Yeah, I do. All right. Do you believe you are here for a reason of your own choosing? Yes. All right. Do you, or can you, therefore, recognize that even if, this eye, of the atomic disintegration were so that therefore by having chosen to be in the physical life you are in now is representative of your ability to reintegrate yourself. That is perhaps one of the ideas you are learning. Yes. And therefore, that's all right. The only reason you are having a tough time per se is because you have been taught to treat the time you are having as tough. To think of it as a negative experience. the second you can begin to begin to realize the ideas in your life, the situations in your life, the occurrences in your life, as therefore a positive reason, you will allow yourself to accelerate into the integration and therefore not experience the reality as tough. It is only the definition you have been taught that creates what you are perceiving to be toughness. Only the definition. That is it. Only the definition. The following. I do. I don't know how to change. Oh, it is very simple. Very simple. Now, first of all, recognize this idea. Do you understand that what you call your imagination reality and your physical reality are both real? Yes. All right.
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the reality as tough. It is only the definition you have been taught that creates what you are perceiving to be toughness. Only the definition. That is it. Only the definition. The following. I do. I don't know how to change. Oh, it is very simple. Very simple. Now, first of all, recognize this idea. Do you understand that what you call your imagination reality and your physical reality are both real? Yes. All right. Then you can very simply recognize that if you have the ability to conceive of something you prefer to be, you are already of that vibration and all you have to do is begin to act as if it is true for you to allow your physical reality to reflect that in your life. in your life? It is only because you continue to assume what you have been taught that, well, if I have imagined it, now what do I have to do to become this idea? What long-in-fall process is necessary in order to achieve this thing out here? That is what makes it tough. That's not it. It is that I have consistent evidence. Ah, ah, ah, evidence. Evidence, evidence. Evidence. What you are calling evidence is only what the evidence. the physical reality reflects that you believe to be true. Do not forget your belief of what you believe to be true is what creates the physical evidence, not the other way around. Belief creates physical reality, which then may reinforce the original belief, and that is what you think of as evidence. Oh, yes, well look, this is happening. Therefore, it obviously is tough, but it is only happening in AIDS health because you believe it has to be tough.