Relationships Are For Reflection First Relationship Is With Self

All of you will be asking for your indulgence for one moment, if you please. There is need and necessity for the Bashar to make a return. Please proceed. Oh, first, did you enjoy your encounter? with Willa. Do not feel deprived that you did not get a chance to interact with her directly, for she is still interacting with us in certain ways and may make a quick reappearance. We shall see. But do continue. Hello, Bashar. And are you good day? I'm excited to be here. Thank you for being here as well. It is our pleasure to interact with each and every one of you. We thank you for the co-creation. Yeah. So I have a question about my relationship. About a relationship? Yeah. All right. Speak up and be bold so that all may hear what you have to share. So I'm in a really beautiful relationship. Oh, all right. Congratulations. Thank you. There really isn't any other kind, actually. Yes, I get that. Thank you. Because all relationships serve if you use them that way. So I'm present to my relationship is serving me in a lot of my own judgments of myself. Oh, all right. That's what they're for. Yes. Relationships are for the purpose of reflecting to each other what you each need to know to learn and become more of who you actually are. That's what relationships are for. Thank you. Well, I had nothing to do with creating it that way. That's just what relationships are for. But you're welcome. And the person that I'm with isn't, for me, isn't really my preference physically, and I'm having a trouble with that. Oh, all right. Why not? I have ideas that are conflicting that I've created. All right. Well, it's up to you and your duty in the relationship to make sure whether or not the things that you find you don't prefer, you are truly not prefering, or whether your definitions are just coloring it to make it seem as if it's not your preference when it could be. So that's your first duty is to make sure you're clear about what really is and isn't your true preference. If you find out that something really is your true preference and you're not just coloring it that way, then by all means allow yourself to move forward in attracting the idea of what you prefer. Is that too simple? Does there need to be more soap? soap opera to this. Definitely don't need more soap opera. All right. The idea, of course, is that any time you understand, in any relationship, that the idea of your preference in that sense is not being reflected beyond a certain point. It is actually the most supportive and loving thing to do to change the nature of the parameters of the relationship, because then you give each individual the opportunity to attract what it is that does serve them best. You understand?

soap opera. All right. The idea, of course, is that any time you understand, in any relationship, that the idea of your preference in that sense is not being reflected beyond a certain point. It is actually the most supportive and loving thing to do to change the nature of the parameters of the relationship, because then you give each individual the opportunity to attract what it is that does serve them best. You understand? And if you can't really, If you're really no longer in that sense reflecting to each other, what you each need to reflect, to become more of who you are, then in a sense, you're not really in a relationship anymore anywhere, so to speak, at least not in the mechanism of one. Does that make sense? So are you willing to investigate first and foremost whether the idea of your supposed preference is actually what you truly prefer or whether you're actually just coloring it to make it seem as if it's not. Let us ask this question. Why was the attraction there to begin with? It's a beautiful spirit. Yes. Well, do you imagine that a beautiful spirit must look a certain way on the outside? No. All right. What is it you're letting go of at the moment? being present to you. What's more than that? A beautiful person? Yes. It is that, but what are you letting go of? Because the tears in that sense are the idea of chemically letting go, chemically washing out of your body, the chemical components of the negative beliefs you've been holding onto. So what are you releasing right now? Just the belief of that I have to be attached to something looking a certain way. All right. And? How does that feel? Does it feel more freeing? Yeah, definitely. And again, remember, the paradox and the power in the paradox is that full allowance and acceptance of the way things are is what would allow things to change if they need to. Do you understand? Yes. So, unconditional love of what is allows what is to become whatever it needs to be next. Yeah. Makes sense? Makes sense. Does this help ease your process? Yes. All right. And does it help put you in touch with the fact that the first relationship is with yourself? Yes. And that what you have thus then attracted by perceiving an idea, by projecting an idea onto the other person that there is some component that you believe is out of alignment with the with the spirit and that it doesn't look the way you prefer is actually a reflection that you are holding on to a belief that there's something about yourself that you don't prefer, that there's something about yourself that doesn't look the way you think it ought to. Yes. All right.

an idea, by projecting an idea onto the other person that there is some component that you believe is out of alignment with the with the spirit and that it doesn't look the way you prefer is actually a reflection that you are holding on to a belief that there's something about yourself that you don't prefer, that there's something about yourself that doesn't look the way you think it ought to. Yes. All right. So you have been given a loving reflection by attracting someone who represents the idea of someone who doesn't look the way you thought they would. Because that's a reflection of the fact that you believe something about yourself. about yourself should be different than it is. Yes. Instead of loving that portion of yourself for what it is. Yes. Does that make sense? Does this help you? Yes. How are you feeling? Good. All right.