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Is sufficient or is there something else you wish to discuss or explore? I was, I'm from Europe. If you say so. And I was programmed in a way and sense of fear. Oh, all right. But if you know that and you know that those are just belief systems, then you can choose to let them go, yes? I'm working on it really hard right now. Oh, no, no, no, no. Working on it really hard only adds more negative energy to it. The idea is to relax into the understanding that it's just a belief. Now, we are going to talk about an analogy we recently used that we believe will help many of you visualize this concept. All right? You understand that beliefs are what generate the reality you experience, yes? Yeah. All right. So when you talk about things like programming, and patterns and habits and so on and so forth, you're only really talking about the idea of certain definitions you've been taught to buy into, and that's it. You understand? Yes, absolutely. And you can also understand that those definitions, because that's all they are, and that's the only thing that determines how you experience physical reality, those definitions can be changed, yes? Yeah. All right. Well, just knowing they can be changed is the key, and it's what we will call the skeleton key, the key that will open the door. because the idea of a belief system, by definition, is that it will always do everything in its power to reinforce the idea of that belief and make it seem as if no other belief is possible. You follow me? Yes. But if you have the skeleton key that you know that the master key, the master belief, is that no matter how a negative belief may feel, in the sense that it makes you feel like no other belief is possible or that it's difficult. to change your beliefs. The master key is that you always know beliefs can be changed. And if you allow yourself to remain in that vibration, this will be a little bit easier. You follow me? So, imagine this picture. You are a factory owner. Yes? All right. There's your beautiful factory. There is a door that leads into the factory. You have the master key to that door, yes? You use the key, click, click, open the door, and you walk in. And what you see is that you are now walking on a catwalk above the factory floor. You follow me? Mm-hmm. All right. On this side, down below, on the factory floor, there are workers that are working away at creating and reinforcing the idea of negative beliefs. On this side of the factory floor are the workers that are creating and reinforcing the idea of positive beliefs. beliefs that you prefer. Yes? All right. Now, understand that you on the catwalk are in the absolute neutral energy between the two.
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floor. You follow me? Mm-hmm. All right. On this side, down below, on the factory floor, there are workers that are working away at creating and reinforcing the idea of negative beliefs. On this side of the factory floor are the workers that are creating and reinforcing the idea of positive beliefs. beliefs that you prefer. Yes? All right. Now, understand that you on the catwalk are in the absolute neutral energy between the two. You're in the balance point. But what you realize is happening is this. All of the workers who are the belief systems are working away at finding all the different kinds of bits of information and methodologies to give to you, to feed to you, to send to you, to transmit to you, to do the their job, which is to reinforce themselves. So the workers on the negative side will be turning out all sorts of interesting ideas to make sure that you don't believe that you can change your beliefs. You understand? The idea will be that if you look to the idea of thinking, imagining that perhaps you can change it, what they would do is start sending you information, start turning out ideas such as, oh, no, no, that's difficult. Oh, no, no, no. You don't want to do that. That's scary. Oh, no, no, no, no. You don't want to do that because, well, if you try to go to the positive side, you may find out that that actually won't work. And then you'll find out that that positive idea is not true. Oh, scary. And so they will constantly be sending you these filtering ideas to cloud the idea of the positive beliefs. Now, this will also be coming from the other side. But the point is, is it depends on who your people. paying attention to. And that's why it's important to know that you're on this catwalk, this neutral catwalk. So you have the power, you have the master key to decide who you would really actually prefer to pay attention to. Now the interesting thing about a lot of these beliefs that the negative side is churning out is that in order to make them even more difficult, seemingly difficult to change, they will often mix the idea of a positive notion in with the negative one so that it looks like they're giving lip service to the positive side while in a sense pulling you back into the negative side. So you need to watch out for those kinds of combinations of belief systems within you. Oh yes, yes, yes. Oh, absolutely. You have the master key. Yes, you are in control and you can decide whatever you want. But if you do and you turn in that direction, you're going to be all alone because no one else will be like you. And ooh, isn't that scary?
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pulling you back into the negative side. So you need to watch out for those kinds of combinations of belief systems within you. Oh yes, yes, yes. Oh, absolutely. You have the master key. Yes, you are in control and you can decide whatever you want. But if you do and you turn in that direction, you're going to be all alone because no one else will be like you. And ooh, isn't that scary? So they will admit that you can do it, but they will paint a story for you. that makes it seem unpalatable to go in that direction and thus confusing you even more. The bottom line to all of this idea is, is that if the definitions you truly prefer, if the reality and the belief systems you truly prefer, don't completely bowl you over with an absolute conviction that that's what you prefer to choose, then something is filtering your perspective of that. because your true, true, true vibration and the things that are representative of that vibration should be automatically and effortlessly and easily capable of being chosen. It should be a walk in the park. It should fill you with joy. Nothing should prevent you from running headlong in that direction. And if you're not, it means you are receiving input from the negative side. So it tells you that you're receiving negative information, negative beliefs, negative reinforcement. So the idea thus then is as you are saying you wish, you prefer to choose the positive side, if you feel any hesitation to move in that direction at all, now you have the master key. You can go into the factory, walk along that catwalk, look down on the negative side. And you may have done enough work to send a lot of those negative workers home, but if you find yourself still hesitating to move or choose the positive direction, it means there is still a worker on the negative side, hiding in some basement somewhere, churning away, at some desk still typing out all these negative ideas that are filtering your ability to choose the positive side. So you need to walk that catwalk, and this is the unconscious idea. You need to walk the catwalk and find that belief. Find that negative belief that's going about its business, doing a beautiful job of reinforcing the negative beliefs that you've been holding on to. You need to ferret it out. You need to turn on the factory lights and look down and go, there you are, hiding in that corner. Did you know? not, no, you could go home. Oh, I'm so, so sorry. I had sent all these other belief systems home that he didn't prefer, and here you are slaving away, doing a wonderful job, a beautiful job, sending me all these negative reinforcements, but now I know you're tired. You can take a break. You can clock out, punch out, go home.
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down and go, there you are, hiding in that corner. Did you know? not, no, you could go home. Oh, I'm so, so sorry. I had sent all these other belief systems home that he didn't prefer, and here you are slaving away, doing a wonderful job, a beautiful job, sending me all these negative reinforcements, but now I know you're tired. You can take a break. You can clock out, punch out, go home. You don't need to work here anymore. It's all right, really it is. Go home, relax. You understand? And thus the idea is that you can, by exploring the idea that there might still be something there, you can get in touch with those beliefs in your unconscious mind, bring them to the service by turning the lights on in your exploration, and keep ferreting them out and send them home, get them to punch out, get them to clock out. You don't need them to send this information anymore because it's not who you prefer to be anymore. And once you have truly cleaned out that side of the factory floor, nothing. Nothing will prevent you from filling the factory with workers that are only sending you positive messages because you will have made room for them. Because you can't fill the factory with more positive workers if the negative workers are still occupying the workstations. You understand? So, you can use this analogy to instill within you the idea of the neutrality that is required with the master key walking the catwalk, above it all. Just know that there is nothing negative about having had negative workers. They are not negative in and of themselves doing things negatively. They are producing the idea you hired them to produce. And so they're actually doing the job you hired them to do. And in that sense, they've been working for you in a positive way. But the ideas now you can recognize you simply don't require that product anymore. Your factory is now going to manufacture something different. It's going to manufacture the idea of positive ideas and that's going to reinforce you in a positive way. And thus then you will feel yourself rushing headlong in that direction. And the factory will be churning out nothing but those positive products for you and reinforcing itself in that way. So the idea is that while you're receiving the negative product line, you may be in that catwalk spinning and reinforcing yourself in your mind in a cycle, in a loop of reinforcement, reflective reinforcement of negativity. But as soon as you ferret out all those workers and go into the neutral catwalk reinforcement, then you can choose. You can decide to fill the factory with the positive and then you can find yourself in a positive feedback loop, constantly expanding and reinforcing that idea. Make sense? You like being this factory owner? Absolutely. You have the master key. Use it however you wish.
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a loop of reinforcement, reflective reinforcement of negativity. But as soon as you ferret out all those workers and go into the neutral catwalk reinforcement, then you can choose. You can decide to fill the factory with the positive and then you can find yourself in a positive feedback loop, constantly expanding and reinforcing that idea. Make sense? You like being this factory owner? Absolutely. You have the master key. Use it however you wish. How do I apply to a situation? It looks like I found a soulmate and I'm supposed to be getting married to him tomorrow. Do you prefer this? I am afraid. Of what? What do you have a definition of that creates fear in the idea of this marriage? What's your definition that you believe is going to happen? that is generating the fear within you. What do you think it will do? What are you actually afraid of? What's your worst fear of what will happen if you proceed forward in this idea? I am afraid he will harm you. At some point. Why? That's the question. I think it's his attitude. His attitude? Yeah. Two difficult situations. So are you saying that? Are you saying that you are actually recognizing that you are vibrationally not compatible? Is that what you're saying? I think I'm saying. Remember, anyone you're learning something from at that moment is a soulmate. You understand? Yes. And the idea of relationships, the purpose of relationships, is for, each person in the relationship to reflect to the other what they need to know about becoming more of who they prefer to be. Is he reflecting to you the idea that there is a vibration there you don't prefer, thus helping you understand more clearly what you do prefer? Yes. Well, then if you understand what you do prefer, why would you continue to move in the direction of what you don't? Now, before you understand what you want, before you answer, remember this caveat. Always make sure, be honest with your own self-investigation, and make sure that it is not just your negative beliefs coloring the situation to make it seem as if it's negative when it could be positive, or vice versa. But if you are clear in your investigation that something is truly not what you prefer or what your excitement truly is, truly is, then you will know that no matter what anyone else's opinion is, you owe it to yourself and, in fact, actually owe it to the other people in the relationship to be true to yourself. Because if you're not being your true self, they're not actually marrying you anyway. Do you understand? Absolutely. So, first, marry yourself. Do you understand? Yes. And then you will attract what is a reflection of the man. marriage you have already created within yourself in a positive context. Does this help you make your decision? I still have doubt.
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actually owe it to the other people in the relationship to be true to yourself. Because if you're not being your true self, they're not actually marrying you anyway. Do you understand? Absolutely. So, first, marry yourself. Do you understand? Yes. And then you will attract what is a reflection of the man. marriage you have already created within yourself in a positive context. Does this help you make your decision? I still have doubt. You have doubt and the definition of doubt is what? It's not a lack of trust. Have you heard our definition of doubt? Tell me. Our definition of doubt is a 100% trust in a definition that's out of alignment with your truth. There is no sense. There is no sense. such thing as a lack of trust. There is trust in something that is in alignment with what you prefer, and there is trust in something that is out of alignment with what you prefer. That's what you call doubt, but doubt is not a lack of trust. It's a trust in something that you don't prefer. So that's why I say you have to be very clear about what it is you're actually doing in terms of the energy you're putting into this situation, because you may be holding yourself back from something that could actually be representative of your excitement. you have to find out if that's the case, or you could be truly recognizing that this is not representative of your excitement. And when you truly do the investigation honestly about whether you're coloring this or whether it is truly representative of something you do or don't prefer, then you'll have clarity in the decision that you need to make. And remember, the most loving thing you can do for other people in a relationship is actually take action in the direction that actually is best actually is best for you because then they can see who you are, who they've been in a relationship with, and if they don't want to be vibrational compatible with you, if they don't want to change to align with who you truly need to be, then you allow them to go on their way to find someone who they can actually be vibrational compatible with. And so you're doing them a service too by actually removing yourself from the situation. Does that make sense? Yes. But you have to take all of this information we are sharing with you, all these perspectives, and once you clarify for yourself whether the marriage is representative of your excitement or not, then you will know what to do. Does that make sense? Yes. Does this help you? Thank you for sure. All right. Thank you very. All blessings.