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All right, I'll say, how are you all this evening of your time as you create time to exist? Great. Oh, find you. Allow us to begin with the idea of this interaction. Systems of belief. This can also be your title for this evening if you wish. Systems of belief. Systems, structure. structures the idea of that which forms a pattern, a series or cycle of ideas or observations, which allow you to create a perception of continuity and cohesion, systems of belief. Now, we have discussed with you many times the idea that it is your beliefs that create the physical reality you experience. Each and every one of these beliefs is the representation of a particular vibrational resonance, particular frequency of the fundamental energy pattern that gives rise to physical reality. a particular vibration. And so as that vibration is manifested into your physical reality, as it is manifested as your physiological experiential reality, because it operates on a certain wavelength, shall we say, it will have a tendency in physiological reality to gather to itself, it will have a tendency in physiological reality to itself. to itself, patterns of vibratory frequency that are similar in nature to the original vibration. In this way, it will key into other beliefs, other vibratory patterns that will aggregate around this primary belief so as to set up what appears that will aggregate around this primary belief that will aggregate around this primary belief so as to set up, as to set up what appears to be a frame of reference in which to understand and be able to perceive the original belief by surrounding itself with slightly out of phase vibration, similar but not exact, so that you have a reference point, some surrounding, some illusion of a background against which you can see the primary belief. This aggregation, this drawing together of similar belief systems so as to allow the primary belief to stand out occurs quite automatically, quite naturally within you, as you say quite second nature, so rapidly, so quickly once again that you may not even realize or have not realized that this is what you are doing to create the seeming background of reality that in your society you have had a tendency to think of as simply, quote, unquote, that's the way reality is. Your life happens in this reality, in the specific beliefs of your reality manifest themselves against this backdrop of the overall reality. But this overall reality is not simply that's the way it is. It is the background that you create by surrounding the primary belief structure you have with similar belief structures so that you can create a gradation, a variation of beliefs to expand outward from you to create a backdrop against which to see the primary belief of your life, the primary focus of your life.
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themselves against this backdrop of the overall reality. But this overall reality is not simply that's the way it is. It is the background that you create by surrounding the primary belief structure you have with similar belief structures so that you can create a gradation, a variation of beliefs to expand outward from you to create a backdrop against which to see the primary belief of your life, the primary focus of your life. Now, these structures after a time have become ingrained within you to the extent that you take this background for granted, and you simply as we have said, think of it much as if it is. something that exists without you. In this way, it has been one of the primary mechanisms that has allowed you to experience the illusion of the universal reality as seemingly outside of yourself. You, in this way, may recognize that in your society quite often, because of the repetition of this idea, because this is now the way that in your society quite often, because of the repetition of this idea, because this is now the way you automatically, as you say, set the stage. You have created many ideas in your society that there is only one way for this stage to be set. And it is against only that background that you measure everything in your life. But recognize, as soon as you change the fundamental primary focus beliefs that represent the being you are, the entire background changes with it. Everything changes. Everything changes. Everything is connected. Everything is the same one thing. And a change in the primary focus creates what you colloquially call the domino effect and changes occur all the way down the line. In the entire pattern, in the entire backdrop, it may seem at times to be subtle, but they are far ranging and quite widespread if you will allow yourself to recognize that they exist. Many times, therefore, when you seek to create change, changes in your own life, your own primary belief system focus, many times you will only continuously weigh that primary focus or change against a background that you will not allow to see yourself has changed. But if you are willing to recognize that everything changes when you change anything, then many times you will not still see the primary background in the same light. You will begin to realize that something is different. somewhere, somehow.
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in your own life, your own primary belief system focus, many times you will only continuously weigh that primary focus or change against a background that you will not allow to see yourself has changed. But if you are willing to recognize that everything changes when you change anything, then many times you will not still see the primary background in the same light. You will begin to realize that something is different. somewhere, somehow. In this way, many times, this is why many of you create the seeming contradictions in your life, for you say that you wish to change the primary focus, but then when you look around in the background, you continually watch to see the same background, in a sense, to see the idea of your primary focus against the same background, rather than allowing the entire background to be a part of the idea of your primary focus against the same background, to be a part of the primary focus and change along with it. When you look at the background in the same way you used to, you immediately cancel the change you made in your primary focus, because it is all one and the same thing. The echo, the background, carries its origin point from the original sound. Many of you, many times, will look to this echo to see change occur in the echo before you will allow yourself to validate the changes you know you have made or you desire to make in the primary focus of your being. But if you seek validation in the echo, then you will only continue in the reality in which you have already focused yourself because the validation must come in the primary sound, the primary signal first, before you will see it in the echo of the background reality you consider to be, you consider to be your exterior universe. Is all of this translating? Therefore, recognize simply that one primary belief will always in physical reality extend itself to create a seeming system of belief with which it becomes surrounded and supported so that the primary belief can have a place, can have an existence in physical reality. reality. No belief will exist unto itself in a void, as you say. Every belief brings with it a complete and total entourage, if you will, a complete and total set of props, a complete and total backdrop, a complete and total stage, and a complete and total audience receptive to that particular play. Oh. In this way, In this way, therefore, allow yourself if you truly desire to change the primary focuses in your life, the primary beliefs that you are allowing yourself to be in touch with, do not play them out in the same stage. Allow yourself to know you are in a completely different locale. Everything has changed. Everything. You follow me. Thus then, you can't recognize.
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and total audience receptive to that particular play. Oh. In this way, In this way, therefore, allow yourself if you truly desire to change the primary focuses in your life, the primary beliefs that you are allowing yourself to be in touch with, do not play them out in the same stage. Allow yourself to know you are in a completely different locale. Everything has changed. Everything. You follow me. Thus then, you can't recognize. that whole systems of reality, not just one portion, but the total system of reality that you perceive your lives to be, will then change from system to system, not just particle to particle. Everything will transform in that way. Many individuals in your society simply have but to realize that many of the things they wish to see occur, many of the things they desire to see validations of in a particular specific sense will also occur if they will change the entire system first. Then all the particles, again, that go along with the representation of the new system will also be there as well. there as well. You can do it either way. As we have said, cause and effect are the same event. You can work it from both directions. You can have a cause which creates an effect. You can have an effect which creates a cause. You can change the whole system. You can change a specific within the system. And in every case, both the specifics and the system change. You can work it from either end, inside out, backwards forwards, upside down. It doesn't matter. Simply, when you do make a change, allow yourself to function as if a change has occurred across the entire spectrum. Otherwise, all you are doing is focusing yourself into a localized specific effect. And in that way, you do not allow yourself to see how the change you have made within yourself has made a change in the reality you desire around you to see. You follow along. Sharing. Oh, my. All right. Okay. Remember Don Jones? Hey. Okay. He's got a question. All right. And he wants to know his roommate is sick right now. She's unconscious. And the doctor says she only have a few days to live. All right. And he says that he thinks that she's trying to communicate to him. But Don is not getting it. Don usually thinks. He is not getting it. That's right. And he's been sick, too. All right. So he may simply be the idea of sympathetic transformation, what you call sympathetic vibrations. Recognize that the time is at hand for that individual to realize that some of the individuals that are in his life are going to transform now in ways that will allow him to transform as well if he is willing to extend his senses into the realm they are going to proceed into.
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he's been sick, too. All right. So he may simply be the idea of sympathetic transformation, what you call sympathetic vibrations. Recognize that the time is at hand for that individual to realize that some of the individuals that are in his life are going to transform now in ways that will allow him to transform as well if he is willing to extend his senses into the realm they are going to proceed into. to allow them to function as mirrors, to allow them to function as lures, to allow him to expand, to reach out and broaden his understanding of what he is capable of knowing. He does not have to have conscious analytical awareness of a specific message, word for word, coming from that individual. The basic message is to simply feel that that individual is still vital, still alive, and always will be. And therefore, to feel the vitality and aliveness within himself, no matter. matter what realm, what level, what plane, he chooses to perceive that individual existing in. He is in touch with that consciousness, as he is in touch with his own consciousness, the idea of wishing to be in touch with that being. As that being makes a transformation from physicality to non-physicality is what will, let us say, lure him or trick him into being aware that he is in touch with his own non-physical aspects right now, because he will be willing to reach for communication with that individual beyond the physical realm, and that will lure him into being in touch with more of himself. Basically, that is the only message he needs to know. Trust the feelings, recognize the vitality in the individual, no matter what the choice of transformation, all transformations go on. All transformations keep occurring. Everything in life is a transformation. The idea is that there is no need to give support to what is, perceived or thought to be or judged to be the negative aspects of this, but to recognize that it is, in a sense, its own kind of birth, and he is attending at a new birth in that way. If he is willing to have the sympathetic vibrations for that, then he himself can also be reborn in that moment and recognize himself to be a far more expanded being than he previously thought himself to be. You follow me. Yeah, sure not. All right. One moment. I have another question. All right. Another friend of my. whose name is Jean-Too. I don't know if you remember her. She's come here. She's French-Canadian. Anyway, she just died, I guess, two months. Oh, right? Two weeks ago. And another friend of mine wanted to find out how she's doing, what she's up to. The fine, going through a period of transition, period of relearning, period of acclimatization, there is a little bit of disorientation in the sense of not understanding how the mechanisms of the non-physical reality work.
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don't know if you remember her. She's come here. She's French-Canadian. Anyway, she just died, I guess, two months. Oh, right? Two weeks ago. And another friend of mine wanted to find out how she's doing, what she's up to. The fine, going through a period of transition, period of relearning, period of acclimatization, there is a little bit of disorientation in the sense of not understanding how the mechanisms of the non-physical reality work. but she is having assistance, and you may find, again, that there is no accident, in the sense that the individual also, to some degree, about to cross over, as you say, can also add energy to the overall event and that they are connected. Both of them to some degree have some connections, and in this way they can reinforce each other. You can reinforce them by simply sending your unconditional love to allow them the most speedy orientation that is possible for them. You follow me. They are simply relearning a new understanding of the way reality is structured. They are learning as quickly as they can. They will be just fine. They are, as you say, in good hands. Great, thanks. Thank you. For you. All right, you. Yes. How do, you have some suggestion about how we can isolate for ourselves the primary belief vibration that define each of us as a being. All right. Now, the. The idea simply is, once again, to recognize what is going on in your life and allow what is going on in your life to show you what the primary beliefs are within you that you are examining at that very moment. Then, once you get in touch with them, you can then know what the definition is, and if you do not prefer it, redefine it. All you need to do is allow the physical reality going on around you to be an accurate reflection of the primary belief. you are working with at any given moment. The situations that occur in your life as they occur are indicative of the order in which you need to examine your different beliefs. Okay. You follow me. I do. Find you. Bashar. You. Then you. Bashar. I'm going with, following in this line. All right. I've been dealing with an issue that I would like to transform. I would like to transform. and I would like to get at the primary system of belief here so that I can transform it. What is you? Okay, this is regarding my work. I have created in the past, and I gather this through other systems of belief situations, which, where my integrity is questioned, and I get told that I either, either I have, done something that I didn't do, which is this case, or when I tell somebody about something that somebody else does, has done, I have not believed.
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here so that I can transform it. What is you? Okay, this is regarding my work. I have created in the past, and I gather this through other systems of belief situations, which, where my integrity is questioned, and I get told that I either, either I have, done something that I didn't do, which is this case, or when I tell somebody about something that somebody else does, has done, I have not believed. And the feeling that comes up with me is I want to be, I want these people to believe me, and in there not doing so, I have in the past lost jobs over it. I do not want to create that this time because I am truly doing what excites me the most. All right. You may still be creating a double-checked. in your life for yourself. Recognize that ultimately you are the only one that can question your integrity. If you know you are functioning within your integrity, then simply trust that the situations you are attracting in your life are simply your belief that you need to consistently test whether or not within your own mind you are functioning within your integrity. If this is simply a program that is still running that serves no purpose any longer, then simply to recognize that you no longer need to test yourself. need to test yourself as to whether or not you are functioning within integrity and therefore no longer need to attract situations that bring up this idea. It is simply that you are, let us say, running on excess current. Allow yourself to center. Do not be so fragmented. Do not be so ready to accept the idea of the judgments placed upon you from outside. As long as you continue to react, to them and choose to be upset by them, you are still buying stock in the validity of those points of view. This is your opportunity to recognize that if you truly believe that you know what you are all about and truly believe that you are functioning within integrity, then even if you attract a situation of that nature, it will not cause a reaction within you. You will simply say what what you need to say to represent the being you know yourself to be, and you will let it go at that. This can be, also, do not forget, an opportunity for these other individuals to learn something as well, not just you. So you may be co-creating a situation in which you are willing to provide a service to them by allowing them to see how maybe they are very willing to judge and invalidate other individuals all too quickly.
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represent the being you know yourself to be, and you will let it go at that. This can be, also, do not forget, an opportunity for these other individuals to learn something as well, not just you. So you may be co-creating a situation in which you are willing to provide a service to them by allowing them to see how maybe they are very willing to judge and invalidate other individuals all too quickly. And by simply being centered within the being that you are, you can then attract the situation to manifest and unfold in a manner that may point this out to them, wherein then they may come back to you and say, sorry, we understand while you were doing what you needed to do all along. My mistake. You follow me. This is a two-way situation, not just all heaped upon you, poor you. I don't want to come with it. with victim and in fact i've been going in the my girlfriend said in the opposite direction all right then trust that you truly are going in the opposite direction and i've been i think to the point of overtaking responsibility okay why did i create this how did i create this what is it supposed to serve all right all right one moment one moment one moment now when we talk about trust it does not necessarily have anything to do with the idea of having to analyze every single scrap of data that comes into your life. You do not need conscious analytical understanding of every single event. As a matter of fact, you do not need it for most events in your life. Living your life out will allow you to understand all you need to understand. If you had absolute conscious analytical awareness of every single circumstance and situation, you would never have a spontaneously unfolding life you would be sitting there analyzing yourself to atoms stop chastising yourself because you think you are incapable of understanding you understand in whatever way will let the life unfold you will not have an understanding on a level that will impede your acceleration which many times is a conscious analytical understanding not always but many times In this way, cease to invalidate yourself by assuming that you are not picking up on what you need to be picking up on. If you simply know you are functioning within your integrity, then simply act like it and stop berating yourself for thinking that you are not. I guess I wanted to understand so that I don't have to keep repeating the same lesson in my life. But you aren't repeating it. That's the point. You are creating the illusion of a repetition. Nothing repeats. Everything is always different. Remember what we talked about. Surface situations have no inherent meaning. You are still assuming that they mean the same thing just because it appears to be the same thing on the surface.
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I guess I wanted to understand so that I don't have to keep repeating the same lesson in my life. But you aren't repeating it. That's the point. You are creating the illusion of a repetition. Nothing repeats. Everything is always different. Remember what we talked about. Surface situations have no inherent meaning. You are still assuming that they mean the same thing just because it appears to be the same thing on the surface. If you know you are different, then give it a different meaning. it has a different meaning. Do not continue to assume it is a repetition. And then you will allow things to show you how they have in fact changed. You are the one that is not letting it change because you keep assuming that what you see on the surface is a repetition and it isn't. You keep giving it the same old meaning. Don't give it the same old meaning. Give it a meaning that is representative of the new person you know you are. And it does not even mean that you have to have an absolutely conscious analytical meaning to place to it. Simply trust that it has a different meaning now because you are now a different person. Then eventually, as you simply go on with your life, you will see how it is different. You do not have to have a conscious understanding in the moment. Simply live your life according to the integrity you know is there, and the events will synchronistically unfold to to show you how it is different. Well, when you were talking about the systems of belief in the echo, I was just wondering if I've been buying into the echo and what I need to do is change my basic system of belief so that the effect will therefore be different, or I change the effect, so that it's... Fundamentally, yes, but the idea is simply far simpler than you think. The situation, is there to show you that you are still invalidating yourself and still giving old meaning to apparently surface old situation. Therefore, you have now once again been given the opportunity to recognize that that is what you are doing. You are exercising that old belief system. If you are different than exercise a new belief system, that is all the situation is there to show you. What belief system could I put in instead to create it to be? created to be that it is not a repetition that it is something new that things are playing out exactly as they need to play out trust trust trust because I know I am functioning in my integrity and I know therefore that the situations my life must be a reflection of that integrity and cannot be otherwise that's the new belief rather than the old belief of oh yeah well I must be still doing something wrong these things keep happening I must still be doing something wrong.
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that things are playing out exactly as they need to play out trust trust trust because I know I am functioning in my integrity and I know therefore that the situations my life must be a reflection of that integrity and cannot be otherwise that's the new belief rather than the old belief of oh yeah well I must be still doing something wrong these things keep happening I must still be doing something wrong. That's the old belief. Now is your opportunity to change it. You see, many times you do not simply realize what the old belief is because it is far simpler than you think it needs to be in order to call it a belief system. They are deceptively simple. Keep them simple. Keep it right out in the open, right on the surface. I see. I am reacting. I am reacting to the situation. I am reacting and therefore, basically, fundamentally, the situation must have existed for the purpose of showing me that I still react in the old way. A lot of fear, I mean, showing me how much this job has come to mean to me and I do not want to lose this job. You can't lose anything. You can't lose anything. If you continue to place such specific importance upon that need, you are the one that is pushing yourself away from it. Relax. If you know you are functioning within your integrity, and if you know you truly are doing the thing that excites you the most in life, then trust that you will continue to do so. If the situation changes, then trust it needs to change in order to change in order to allow you to continue to do the thing that will turn out to be the next most exciting thing that you need to do. Not next in terms of greater or lesser. Next in terms of order. You follow me? Yes. If the situation changes, then do within that situation the most exciting thing you can do. Is any of this assisting you? Yes, it's assisting me. I... Keep it simple. Keep it simple. Trust that you are different. You simply are not trusting that you're truly different. You're right. I'm trusting the situation and judging that, therefore, it must mean that I'm still doing the same. You, yes, as we have said, you are taking validation from the echo rather than giving validation to yourself to begin with. You are attempting to base your validity on the existence of an echo. It has no substance. You are the original signal. Validate yourself and then the echoes you perceive will reflect that original validation. If the echoes you are perceiving are that which reflects invalidation, then the original signal you are sending is also one of invalidation. You follow me. Yeah, so at this point basically to just let go and not say or do it, try to do anything more to...
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the existence of an echo. It has no substance. You are the original signal. Validate yourself and then the echoes you perceive will reflect that original validation. If the echoes you are perceiving are that which reflects invalidation, then the original signal you are sending is also one of invalidation. You follow me. Yeah, so at this point basically to just let go and not say or do it, try to do anything more to... You always have the opportunity to stand up and share what your beliefs are. State them, simply, state them, honestly, state them clearly. Then go on about your business. Act as if you truly believe you are functioning within your integrity and it will get across. If you walk away from a situation acting as if they are correct, then you are only going to reinforce the idea that you truly are not functioning within your integrity. You follow me. Yes, but I acted so emotional over the fact of being accused that I, you know, I said to them, I swear to an attack of bibles if you'd, you know, to believe me that I'm telling you the truth that it didn't happen in the way you're accused. You see, if you know you are telling the truth, then you do not have to prove anything to them. Period. I'm telling me that I do have to prove it. So you decide to listen to them. That is your choice. Your proof is in being who you are. And how can you prove anything to anyone anyway? If they truly do not want to see the proof, they won't see it no matter how much proof you attempt to provide. Simply, function within your integrity, know you are functioning within your integrity. You can comply to within what you call reason to point out that you have been functioning within your integrity, but set your own standards, set your own limits in that sense. There is no need to abase yourself to their belief system in order to feel that that constitutes proof of your integrity, because then you are not functioning within your integrity, you are attempting to live out their ideas. what you should or shouldn't be doing. All right? Yes, thank you so much. Thank you very much. One moment. You are next. Go ahead. First of all, I'd like to thank you all for creating these sessions. I've been listening to the tapes for about six months, so I've been with you down in Costa Mesa, actually, and it's had a tremendous impact on my life in terms of creating greater excitement, joy, and love. And it's been very much fun sharing it with friends and clients. May I ask you a favor? May I ask you a favor? Will you share it a little more loudly, please? My concern adds very much to do with your introductory remarks and probably can be based in that, I suspect.
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in Costa Mesa, actually, and it's had a tremendous impact on my life in terms of creating greater excitement, joy, and love. And it's been very much fun sharing it with friends and clients. May I ask you a favor? May I ask you a favor? Will you share it a little more loudly, please? My concern adds very much to do with your introductory remarks and probably can be based in that, I suspect. I think what has happened in listening to your ideas, I have been forming new beliefs. Oh, right. And what's happening now is I'm attempting to integrate them with a little difficulty with a series of beliefs that I probably had for lifetimes as a nun and currently coming out of a yogic system of beliefs. I see. Which has to do with reverence for spirit, surrender to spirit, yes. As seeking the higher will as opposed to the lower will be done, that kind of thing. Yes. There is nothing contradictory in what we are saying. You are simply using different semantics, which perhaps has a different understanding of the mechanism. The mechanism can be described regardless of the symbols that are utilized to represent it. And the mechanism will be found to be the same for both ideas. The ideas we are presenting the ideas you have now just. is you have now just outlined. Simply have one particular mechanism, though many individuals may look at them in different ways and mean them to represent different kinds of action. Can you talk more about this mechanism? Yes. The idea simply is that what you call surrendering and going for the higher will as opposed to the lower will in that way is simply the understanding of centering within your being. Surrendering is, in a sense, taking control, being control, being fully. responsible for what you create in life. Surrendering is going with the flow, but going with the flow means you then have, paradoxically, given yourself the ability to create what you desire. That means you are in control. Surrendering is being in control. It is not giving up. The idea of going with the higher will as opposed to the lower will is simply recognizing that you have free will, but that you can choose to express yourself in a negative way or a positive way, and that if you choose to experience yourself in an integrative positive way, then you will be in synchronous harmony with the higher consciousness that you are, and you will be able to know that you are in synchronous harmony with the higher consciousness that you are. Whereas if you choose the negative way, what you call the lower will, simply by definition, you may not know that you are in synchronous harmony with the higher consciousness that you are. You follow me? Yes. Do you wish to continue?
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you will be in synchronous harmony with the higher consciousness that you are, and you will be able to know that you are in synchronous harmony with the higher consciousness that you are. Whereas if you choose the negative way, what you call the lower will, simply by definition, you may not know that you are in synchronous harmony with the higher consciousness that you are. You follow me? Yes. Do you wish to continue? No, I knew that there would be a way of integrating a way to hold all of that. I just wanted to hear you say it. Thank you. We thank you for bringing up the idea, for you will find that this is a paramount importance in your society at this time. In each and every one of you, as you examine the different ideas of belief systems that exist within your society will recognize that very often, where many different societies think they truly disagree, it is only a matter of how they are calling the idea rather than truly disagreeing on the fundamental basics. individuals do not realize that what they purport to be true within their system of reality and what they purport to be false within someone else's system of reality is only a difference of labels and nothing else nothing else thank you I want to explore that concept of surrender because in our language in our society it means giving up it doesn't mean taking control. There is, in some factions of your society a new understanding now being applied to the term surrender. We are assisting in providing that understanding. You simply utilize as a society that term because it is the closest approximation to the idea that you have in your language. It does not necessarily precisely describe the mechanism that is involved, but it is the closest label you have. Absolutely the closest. There's no better synonym for what the concept you're trying to convey. Let us scan. We find. within the vocabulary of the channel that are in your language will all have to do with the idea of giving up control. And thereby gaining greater control. The idea we are saying is that all of the reference words that could possibly be used from your language will all generally mean the same thing as your colloquial meaning of surrender. You do not have a word in your language that means that means giving a giving up and taking control at the same time. But that's the concept you're attempting to give up control and therefore gain greater control. No, no, no, not to give up control. To give up trying. To give up trying. Yes, to give up trying to control is to have ultimate control. Ah, that doesn't. Okay, I have another paradox I'd like to, a parent paradox. apparent paradox for me that I'd like to ask you about. Oh, what?
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control at the same time. But that's the concept you're attempting to give up control and therefore gain greater control. No, no, no, not to give up control. To give up trying. To give up trying. Yes, to give up trying to control is to have ultimate control. Ah, that doesn't. Okay, I have another paradox I'd like to, a parent paradox. apparent paradox for me that I'd like to ask you about. Oh, what? In your initial remarks and in my question, well, when you were answering the other lady, you said, trust that everything that's happening, that you're perfect, don't look at the echo or indications that there's something wrong with you. Trust that you are doing fine in your integrity. So that's one concept. But when I asked the question, you said recognize that everything happening in your life right now is a reflection of what you may need to consider changing. Just as her echo is an opportunity for her to get in touch with what the belief system is. We are simply saying pay attention to it, but do not seek your validity in it. Seek your validity in yourself. The paradox is a person is valid, but nevertheless there's room to change and grow. Of course, always. But then when you change and grow, you become a different validation. And from your new perspective, we have a tendency in our concept of growth to look back on where we were and think, boy, am I glad I'm here and not back there? It's all right. With a concept of, but you're suggesting that that's all, what? You can always recognize the joy of being where you are. We are simply adding to the concept, the idea, of allowing yourself to recognize that where you are is also in existence in your linear terms because of where you were. And thus, where you were is a part of where you are. So, to truly invalidate where you have been, we are not saying that you cannot appreciate. where you are now, comparatively speaking. But the idea is not to invalidate where you were, not to invalidate yourself for being the you were then. But to simply recognize that by validating the you you were then, that is what allowed you to be the you you are now. Whereas if you had invalidated yourself as the you were then, you would still be that you. Thank you. Thank you. Bashar. You! Sir, I'm experiencing confusion. in just about all areas of my life right now. Good. Yeah, I thought you'd say that. Some of your remarks earlier on the backdrop of one's reality. My backdrop actually has changed. Nice. And I think that's part of my confusion is because I don't quite know what to do in it now. Oh, very good. This is, once again, still, to some extent, the limbo state in which you have unplugged from your previously conceived of.
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all areas of my life right now. Good. Yeah, I thought you'd say that. Some of your remarks earlier on the backdrop of one's reality. My backdrop actually has changed. Nice. And I think that's part of my confusion is because I don't quite know what to do in it now. Oh, very good. This is, once again, still, to some extent, the limbo state in which you have unplugged from your previously conceived of. structures, and you have as yet to plug into the idea of the new structure, so you are still examining all the probable ways that you can create that structure to be. It may seem to be a foundering state, but that is simply because you are not used to the idea that change is truly the only constant. When you recognize that all the changes that are going on that may make you feel as if you are in limbo is truly a solid foundation, because you are now in touch with far more probabilities than you were before, then you will be able to find. solidity within it and give yourself a sense of direction. Now, within that limbo state, once again, the idea of orienting yourself is always very simple, very simple. Do what excites you the most at any given moment that you are able to act upon. Well, that worries me a little bit. Why? Well, because I've always thought that I had to have a job. Okay, my belief system says, I have to have a job. And yet, I have to have a job. I either leave the job or I get fired. And recently, I've been fired in the last three months from three jobs. All right. Did you enjoy those jobs? Well, actually, I got a lot done. All right. But I also didn't enjoy being in the office space that I was in, in all three jobs. Well, then. I wasn't doing what I wanted, didn't you? I did. I wasn't enjoying it. All right. And it wasn't excited. That right there is what we are talking about by taking that as a sign that everything is working perfectly. You got what you wanted. Your life always works. Always works. When you place invalidations upon yourself, you do not see that it is working. That is the only difference. I do see that. That I did get what I wanted. And now, um, is I'm really concerned. Oh, concerned. Yeah, I'm concerned. Then you are still not willing to trust that your life is working perfectly. Well, it is working perfectly. Then why are you concerned? Because I haven't paid my rent. So, maybe you don't need to. Well. Oh, she was about to consider it just for a second. You are not as closed as you thought. That's true.
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did get what I wanted. And now, um, is I'm really concerned. Oh, concerned. Yeah, I'm concerned. Then you are still not willing to trust that your life is working perfectly. Well, it is working perfectly. Then why are you concerned? Because I haven't paid my rent. So, maybe you don't need to. Well. Oh, she was about to consider it just for a second. You are not as closed as you thought. That's true. If you truly trust and are willing to do what excites you the most, you will have what you if you need the money to pay the rent, if that paying of the rent is what will allow you to continue to be the thing that excite you the most, then being the thing that excites you the most will allow you to pay the rent. If you can be the thing that excites you the most without paying the rent, you won't get the money. But that means you don't need it. Because if you can be the thing that excite you the most without having to pay the rent, then simply take it for granted that that's not something you have to worry about. You will have what you need. You will be comfortable. Because if you are not comfortable, you can't be the thing that excites you the most. One way or another, you will be made to be comfortable. It doesn't have to be having to have money to pay the rent, does it? Can it not be that someone may simply give you a place? to live? Yeah. Well then. All we are saying is that why not open up to the possibility that another avenue can come to you rather than being so insistent on the particular avenue of having to have money to pay the rent? Because that's what closes the doors that allows all the other things to come to you perhaps even more easily than having the money to pay the rent. You're right. Oh, thank you. That's true. I did have a look at that and you're right about that. right about that. And I want to ask you one thing about self-love, and that is, I've had the most wonderful experiences with people recently, and their reflections are absolutely beautiful. As are you. Thank you. You are welcome. Now, I'm wondering why it is that I don't quite understand why they should like me or love me the way they do. Yes. Because you don't believe you love yourself that much or that you are worth loving? Well, I think I am worth loving. Then why is it a mystery? Um. Are you willing to love them? Oh, yes. Well, then why is it a mystery that they love you? I'm not sure why it's a mystery. Then it isn't one. Okay. All right, it's not a mystery. Thank you. You're welcome.
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the way they do. Yes. Because you don't believe you love yourself that much or that you are worth loving? Well, I think I am worth loving. Then why is it a mystery? Um. Are you willing to love them? Oh, yes. Well, then why is it a mystery that they love you? I'm not sure why it's a mystery. Then it isn't one. Okay. All right, it's not a mystery. Thank you. You're welcome. One more thing, and that is, is I have a constriction in my throat, which occurs. which occurs at no predictable time that I'm aware of. And it's like I want... What is it you wish to do in life? Um, talk. I see. I really enjoy talking. Well, then, when you allow that to be the thing. Well, then, when you allow that to be the thing you are, and when you use it as what excites you the most, there will no longer be a concern. no longer be a constriction, will there? No. When you let it flow, you won't constrict it. It's correct that I don't let it flow. All right, then. Let it flow and there will be no constriction. May I remind you, your primary job in life is to simply be you. And that is a job you will never get fired from. You have it for life. Well, I do enjoy it. All right then. Enjoy it in whatever way you desire to enjoy it. Enjoy it in the way that excites you the most. You will be supported. Plain and simple. Trust, trust, trust is all there is. I agree. Oh, fine to you. And thank you, Bashar. You are welcome, yay. In relation to what the last girl was just saying about her job situation. That's the last girl, yes. So in doing that, I realized on Wednesday night that I had set up the idea that the only way to pay the rent was to do something that I didn't really enjoy. Alright. So when I realized that that limitation that I had created, it immediately had served its purpose. And so the next day I left, like I gave in my notice for the job. All right. So I just wanted to share that with you that we do impose limitations. impose limitations sometimes on ourselves to show us. No kidding. Thank you for letting me in of that. Oh, thank you very much. Yes. As we're talking about all this, I remember an experience I had many, many years ago, where I almost, I almost died, but this is really a beautiful analogy to what you're talking about. All right. Do you have? It was in Pennsylvania. There was a quarry there with a waterfall that fell into some very turning water and then moved over to the right and it went down in this long shoot of water into a kind of a quiet pool.
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remember an experience I had many, many years ago, where I almost, I almost died, but this is really a beautiful analogy to what you're talking about. All right. Do you have? It was in Pennsylvania. There was a quarry there with a waterfall that fell into some very turning water and then moved over to the right and it went down in this long shoot of water into a kind of a quiet pool. And people were swimming in it and they were used to doing it and it looked very exciting. So I jumped into it and into this changing water and when I jumped into it. it was very changing indeed because I found that I could not really keep my head on the surface and I was getting tired very rapidly and I began fighting it in an effort to remain on the surface and remain in control. And of course my, because of that my