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Tools For Success (Part 2 of 4)

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Part 1

When you function in an integrated manner, when you function in an integrated manner, you realize a very important point. Very important, perhaps one of the most critical of all. Every single person, every single individual, is already as powerful as he or she needs to be to create anything they desire in life without having to hurt anyone else or themselves in order to create it. That's how powerful you are. Honest. You are that powerful. Everyone is, because everyone is a reflection of the infinite. All right, some of these terms, they may not feel familiar. But the idea simply is to understand that when you function in an integrated manner, when you know you are already a whole idea, not that you will not learn, not that you will not grow, but you are at any given moment a whole idea anyway, you can move on things, act on things, do things without word, about whether it is the right thing for you to do as long as you understand that you are doing the best you can in the most integrated way you can and the thing that excites you the most of all, you are doing everything you can do and everything you are supposed to be doing to get you to the next place. Keep it simple. It doesn't need to be complicated, not at all. For the purpose of this workshop, we will break it down a little bit further, step by step, so that you understand how to take yourself from a place you do not prefer to be to a place that you do. There are basically, basically, three overall areas, three basic functions, three basic functions, three basic steps. that are involved. The first one has to do with definitions and beliefs. The second has to do with emotional connections, and the third has to do with physical activity. That trinity, when balanced in equilibrium, will allow you to be a gateway through which anything you desire will manifest very rapidly, very clearly. Now, first idea, definitions and beliefs. Before we proceed, is everyone clear so far about what we are doing. Definitions and beliefs. They are, they are words, they are words, they are concepts, they are concepts. They can be very multi-leveled. Sometimes one belief will ride, as you say, horseback on another belief. And you do not even know that it has come along for the ride. It is there, because you have been taught to believe that it must be there, that this must go hand in hand with that. And therefore, no matter how many times sometimes you attempt to do this, you also always get that. And sometimes this is what is responsible for what you call blocks. Now there really are no blocks. None, zero. You are never blocked because you are always creating something. You're always creating. There is never a void, a true void, in creation.

Part 2

that it must be there, that this must go hand in hand with that. And therefore, no matter how many times sometimes you attempt to do this, you also always get that. And sometimes this is what is responsible for what you call blocks. Now there really are no blocks. None, zero. You are never blocked because you are always creating something. You're always creating. There is never a void, a true void, in creation. You already know, nature does not allow a vacuum in that sense. So, you can create the illusion that you're not getting anywhere. You can create the illusion that you're not in touch. with yourself, but you are still creating that scenario. And that is a very creative thing to do. So first and foremost, let's, shall we say, dissolve the primary block, what you would call the catch-22 block. And that is, many of you, when you catch yourselves blocking, will block yourselves even further by be waiting yourself for being blocked to begin with. Oh, no. I now find I have a terrible big block. That must mean that I am simply the kind of person who ought to be blocked, who has been blocked forever. I've wasted a lot of time being blocked, on and on and on and on. All the ideas that keep you from looking at the idea you call the block. All the ideas that keep you rotating right in front of the idea called the block, but keeps you afraid to go into it. Well, if I examine why I'm blocked, I'll probably find out that what I've believed all along is true, that I'm worthless when I can can't do anything anyway, and that's probably why I'm blocked. If you were truly worthless, you wouldn't exist. Because creation creates no worthless things, no pointless things. There are no extraneous creations anywhere. If you exist, you belong. You sit a part of the overall scenario. You cannot exist if you don't. Therefore, first of the whole, and foremost, be kind to yourself, be nice to yourself, treat yourself with respect, you deserve it. And you don't have to say, well, all right, I'll treat myself with respect because Bashar said I deserve it. I believe Bashar. I do not want you to believe me. I do not want you to believe one thing I say if you don't choose to believe it for yourself. If your beliefs in my belief coincide. That's because you choose to believe that what I believe happens to work for you as well. Not because I said so. Not because I said you deserve it, but because you say you deserve it. It won't stick unless you say it anyway. I can say it all day long. You deserve it, you deserve it. Until you believe it, my words are simply words. Now, I may feel greatly, very strongly about the fact that you deserve it, and I do.

Part 3

I believe happens to work for you as well. Not because I said so. Not because I said you deserve it, but because you say you deserve it. It won't stick unless you say it anyway. I can say it all day long. You deserve it, you deserve it. Until you believe it, my words are simply words. Now, I may feel greatly, very strongly about the fact that you deserve it, and I do. As a matter of fact, it's more than a belief. I know you deserve it. Beyond the shadow of a doubt. I have no doubt in my mind. You deserve anything at all. But again, until you believe it, you won't see it. So the idea is to first of all, give yourself, as you say, a break. Please. Give yourself a rest from the cycle of hitting yourself over the head. Now, when you come up with what you think is a block, Allow yourself without fear, therefore, to dive into it, to explore it, see it as an opportunity. Before we continue, I would like to remind you of something very critical. As we discuss these ideas, because of the upbringing that many of you have had, you will hear these words as philosophy. Well, that's a nice philosophy. It's a nice attitude. Those are nice things he's saying. Too bad they're not really indicative of the real world. I wonder what he means by how you actually go about doing these things. All he's doing is talking about nice concepts, about exploring, about not being afraid. Well, all right, that would be nice. I'd like to have that attitude. But having that attitude doesn't mean that that block is not to be feared. What I would like you to understand is that every single thing I am saying as far as far as my civilization is concerned, is an actual physical concept, a mechanical concept. Because again, remember, the vibration you are is what you get back. Attitude is everything. Everything. Whatever frequency you give off, that's what you see in the mirror. That's what you get reflected back to you. Therefore, when I say, all right, see that idea and treat it. Not as a block, not as a fear, but as an opportunity. I am not just using that word rightly. I mean it in every sense of the term. It is your gateway. It is your doorway. To learn more about yourself and to get closer to what you want. The more you turn away from the idea of that block, the more you are afraid to explore what is in there, the farther away you take yourself from what you really want. Those things are given to you by yourself. So that when you explore them, you discover more of who and what you are.

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your gateway. It is your doorway. To learn more about yourself and to get closer to what you want. The more you turn away from the idea of that block, the more you are afraid to explore what is in there, the farther away you take yourself from what you really want. Those things are given to you by yourself. So that when you explore them, you discover more of who and what you are. Because if you think about it, logically, as you say, only by being more of who and what you are, will you be the kind of person who will be able to do that thing you say you want to do? If you're not acting like that person, you can't be that reality. And we'll get to that later. But first of all, again, sees that idea as an opportunity. rather than reacting, act. Thy windows. Oh, goody. A block. An opportunity. Oh, goody. I'm going to discover something new about myself now. All right. All right. First state. Definitions. Definitions. Now, as we're going along with this, all of you, as part of the meditation, as part of this exercise, get something personal in your life and use as we go along, that will be time enough, and if there isn't time now, there will be time later, on your own time. But use it as an example. Have an example now of something you feel is blocking you, of a concept you feel that represents the opposite of what you want, that you feel is a block, that you feel you can't get past, can't get around, can't get over it, can't get under it, can't get through it. And look at the definition of what it is, define what it is. It is this. It is, I haven't got enough of that. It's I have too much of this. It's, I'm not getting any help here. I have too much help here. I don't have peace and quiet. I don't have enough noise. Whatever it is. Define the main idea you would perceive as a block. That, of course, assumes that you have already decided on what it is that you would like to do. And again, just to help you, when I say, find the thing you would really like to do most, the thing that excites you the most. I don't necessarily mean you have to have a lifelong project in mind. I just mean the next thing you would like to really do, really excitingly, moment by moment. If you feel that in any way you should perform, you are blocked from that, then define that block now. See it before you. Now, understand again. that all you are doing is discovering parts of yourself because you as a society in being so physically oriented have fragmented yourself into pieces. You're not functioning as a whole being.

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just mean the next thing you would like to really do, really excitingly, moment by moment. If you feel that in any way you should perform, you are blocked from that, then define that block now. See it before you. Now, understand again. that all you are doing is discovering parts of yourself because you as a society in being so physically oriented have fragmented yourself into pieces. You're not functioning as a whole being. Therefore, as you go along this path of self-discovery, what you're doing is picking up the pieces, pulling them back together, pulling yourself together, so to speak, literally. Your consciousness has been fragmented. Now, when you find what you desire most, that's the beacon to get back to your centered self, your God-child self. In a sense, for your civilization, colloquially speaking, when you figure out what it is that excites you the most and you go for it, you're actually going, quote, unquote, back to your original state. Yes, you're progressing ahead, but you're actually going back to your original state. Your natural state of creatorhood. So as you go back to your original state, you find all the pieces you left scattered on the path as you were growing up, all the fragmented beliefs, all the ideals that were beat out of you, and you pick them up and you examine them. Now, sometimes the reason when you find the piece you are afraid to look at it or what it appears as a block is because, as we said, many of the beliefs you have been brought up with, many of the things that made you drop that piece of yourself to begin with, sometimes comes with little catch-22 beliefs. a law. Such as, if you pick that up, you'll be sorry. If you pick that up, you might find you really can't do it and then you'll be a failure. If you pick that up and you do this, then you have to act this way too, and you know you don't want to act that way too. If you pick that up, if, if, allow yourself, when you are creating a definition of what this piece is, this block is, allow yourself to recognize all the beliefs within it. Don't just allow yourself to lump it all into one thing. See it for all the different ideas that it is. Look at it from all different points of view. As an example, we have used this many times because we know many of you are focused in this area, what you call abundance, what you call being rich, physically wealthy. Many of you, oh yes, yes, yes, you say, I would love to be rich, I would love to be abundant, infinitely abundant, staggeringly wealthy. All right, that's fair. It is a way to be.

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Look at it from all different points of view. As an example, we have used this many times because we know many of you are focused in this area, what you call abundance, what you call being rich, physically wealthy. Many of you, oh yes, yes, yes, you say, I would love to be rich, I would love to be abundant, infinitely abundant, staggeringly wealthy. All right, that's fair. It is a way to be. However, beliefs that hitch a ride onto things like that, that sometimes you think are all one belief, but aren't, are beliefs such as, yes, but to be staggeringly wealthy, you have to stomp on everyone in your path, and I don't want to do that. Many of you think that's one belief to be wealthy, Wealthy is to be inconsiderate. Many of you think that automatically, because that's the way you were taught. Many of these beliefs in your terms may be unconscious, maybe subconscious, but as you grew up, you have been shown examples, sometimes physically, sometimes telepathically. See that, Sonny? See that daughter? That man over there, he's stunningly rich. But you know what? He has walked over so many people to get there that no one likes him anymore. one likes him anymore. Maybe he doesn't care, he's so rich, I don't know. That made an impression on you somewhere, and then you may have forgotten the incident, but then somewhere down the line when you are attempting to be an adult, and you say, well, now, an adult thing to do would be to be staggeringly wealthy, and somewhere in the mind, it goes, yes, but how many people do you have to walk over to get there? And you don't even hear it necessarily because it's buried so deep, but something in you twists and something in you holds you back from knowing you can be staggeringly wealthy. Because ideally, you don't want to walk on anyone. Ideally, you think, I'm a nice person, I don't want to do that. If that's the only way I can be rich, I don't want to be rich. So all the opportunities for being wealthy, stay away, because I'd rather be loved. You may be telling yourself these things all the time and not hearing them. That is why it is very important in quiet, relaxed, silent, personal thought and meditation, to get honestly, very honestly in touch with what you really believe about this or that. What are your absolute definitions? Play the game. It's all right. It is a game. Have fun with it. Don't belate yourself for discovering that. that you may believe a certain way that you find distasteful or non-preferential. It doesn't have to be the way you are. But simply accept that it may be the way you are now. If you don't prefer it, then you can change it. But how are you going to change it?

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your absolute definitions? Play the game. It's all right. It is a game. Have fun with it. Don't belate yourself for discovering that. that you may believe a certain way that you find distasteful or non-preferential. It doesn't have to be the way you are. But simply accept that it may be the way you are now. If you don't prefer it, then you can change it. But how are you going to change it? Unless you allow yourself to discover that right now you believe that way, unless you take responsibility for it right now, there's no way you can change it into what you prefer it to be because you cannot change what you do not own. If you shy away from that exploration, no, no, no, I don't want to find out, I don't want to find out that I might think I'm a rotten person for believing this. I don't want to find out that I have to walk over a million people to be rich. That's not an absolute, but you may believe it is. That might be another belief that's riding along, that you can't change the belief. That that's the way it is. All right, now you've found out, okay, you want to be staggerly wrong. want to be staggerly wealthy now you found out that you have a belief that says you have to walk over a million people to get there and now you also found out you have another belief that says you can't change that belief you are not yet reaching true foundational reality they are still beliefs but they seem so grounded to you so fundamental to many of you that you don't even question them you say yes that's the way it is I look around and I see that I see that all the people that have become staggeringly wealthy they've all stepped on everyone to get there I see that reinforced again and again and again of course that's the way it is look around you everyone who's rich has been that way but you see what you are forgetting is this every belief by definition in order to be experienced as real has to be self perpetuating to be self-reinforcing. So anything you believe is going to radiate out and is going to attract examples in your life that reinforce the belief you have so that that is all you will see. Of course you only see rich people who walk on other people because that's the way you believe it must be. Therefore that's your reality. Therefore that's what's reinforced so that you can perpetuate that reality. Or, or and here is the doorway through. or instead of reacting, as we said, to that reinforcement, to that reflection, you can say, or I am being shown all of these rich people who have stepped on everyone else, simply to reflect to me that that is the way I believe rich people must be.

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believe it must be. Therefore that's your reality. Therefore that's what's reinforced so that you can perpetuate that reality. Or, or and here is the doorway through. or instead of reacting, as we said, to that reinforcement, to that reflection, you can say, or I am being shown all of these rich people who have stepped on everyone else, simply to reflect to me that that is the way I believe rich people must be. Doesn't mean that's the way it is, it means that's the way I believe it must be. Now, wait a minute. If that is simply the way I believe it must be, how would I prefer to believe it is? Ah, so now I can see that instead of seeing all this reflection as an indication that I am stuck in that reality, it's now a reflection of opportunity. It is an option now. Now I am being shown what I do believe so that if I want to, I can decide to believe something else because now I'm aware of what I do believe. Because I can't change it if I do believe. don't know what I believed before. So what you see in your reality around you, day to day, everyday occurrences, all the things that happen to you, what you see around you are opportunities being offered to you constantly. This is a belief. This is a scenario. This is what you now hold to be true. Do you like it? Do you want to change it? Do you want to keep it the way it is? Because you have been taught for so long that physical reality is immutable when you are usually presented with an idea like that, you don't even question that it can really be changed on a fundamental level. And you accept it. And you find ways to settle with it. To settle for something that is not you. To settle for less. Well, all right, if I can't have it that way, that's the way it is. I guess I'll have to settle for this. maybe I'll just be moderately wealthy. Maybe I'll just keep struggling to be wealthy. Maybe there's a chance I might get wealthy. But, well, you know, the odds are overwhelming. You will justify these ideas in any way, shape, or form. You have to prevent yourself from feeling badly that you believe it can't be changed. Don't believe. it can't be changed. That's where you settle for less. When you believe that you have to because it can't be changed. Because you are dealing with fundamentals and you can't change those. There is only one fundamental in creation. Just one. Wasn't that simple of the Creator? Wasn't that nice of the Creator? The Creator said, all right, there will only be one law. Not 10, not 50, not a thousand, one. And it will be the same law for everybody. Wasn't that fair? Wasn't that simple? Wasn't that nice?

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to because it can't be changed. Because you are dealing with fundamentals and you can't change those. There is only one fundamental in creation. Just one. Wasn't that simple of the Creator? Wasn't that nice of the Creator? The Creator said, all right, there will only be one law. Not 10, not 50, not a thousand, one. And it will be the same law for everybody. Wasn't that fair? Wasn't that simple? Wasn't that nice? How much of the head start do you want? There is only one idea. And it isn't even really what you might call in your classical sense. It is the structure of existence itself. Simply put it is. What you put out? is what you get back. That's it. That's all there is to it. That's all there is to creation. What you put out is what you get back. What you put out depends on your definition of who you think you are. So, who do you think you are? Who do you believe you are? And sometimes you get that as a negative too. Who do you think you are? We're accepted as an opportunity to answer. Well, I think I'm a wonderful creative being who can have anything he or she wants. That's who I think I am. Who do you think you are? Oh, wow, that's just nonsense. How childish. Or grow up. Join the real world. Get a clue. Wake up. Smell coffee and all that. All right. All right. Fair enough. Remember. Remember that in responding to other individuals as well, we're not saying that because you may find that your preferential beliefs are different from theirs that you should berate or belittle theirs. Because in doing so, that puts you right back on the same vibration that you want to get out of. Remember, your biblical phrased, judge not, lest ye be judged. Doesn't mean you're being judged from outside. It means as you judge others, you become the vibration of judgment. As you become the vibration of judgment, you go to that realm of judgment. And as you are in the realm of judgment, all you can receive is judgment against you. It's a reflection. It's simple physics, simple mechanics. What you put out is what you get back. judge others. You get judged. Keep it simple. So definitions, definitions is the first step. What is it you do believe about this or that? Find out what excites you the most. And take some time to find out what you believe. There are all the aspects you can imagine of that thing that you say excites you. You may find sometimes, again, that if you chose the idea from anger, anxiety, you may find that when you do examine all the things you do believe about what excites you, that you may actually have chosen it from anxiety rather than excitement. You may find that you're not willing to really believe in this.

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what you believe. There are all the aspects you can imagine of that thing that you say excites you. You may find sometimes, again, that if you chose the idea from anger, anxiety, you may find that when you do examine all the things you do believe about what excites you, that you may actually have chosen it from anxiety rather than excitement. You may find that you're not willing to really believe in this. You're not willing to really be persistent about having this thing, because maybe this thing isn't really what you're all about. Or maybe it is. And maybe the whole issue of why you're not willing to believe in it and be persistent is the thing you need to examine. But that's up to you. theoretically you will find out what it is by examining your definitions of life. All the definitions are your own. Regardless of how many of them where society says are shared by so many other people, so it must be true for everyone. You do have collective realities, yes, that you agree to have collective realities telepathically. All right, all right, I'll say there's a chair in the room and you all say there's a chair in the room. because we both want to agree that when I'm at rest, I will appear to be sitting in what you call a chair. It's convenient. It's automatic. It's a definition. It's a symbol that we can both use. Maybe my chair's a little bit different than your chair. It doesn't matter. We both agree enough so that we can get along in one particular idea envelope or bubble. But remember, there are literally as many chairs in the room as there actually are people in terms of the whole set. In other words, you have your chair, but you are also creating everyone else's chair. Your version of everyone else in that chair. Your version of the room, every one of you. So how many people there are, that's how many rooms there are, and how many versions of all the chairs there are, overlapping and intertwining. Agreeing with each other on enough points so that you can have what you call a common experience. A common experience is simply plain by the same rules of a particular game at one particular moment. Individuals that do not agree to share common experience with you, or at least not very much common experience with you, you call insane. They see things you don't. And sometimes you see things they don't. It doesn't mean that what they are perceiving is less real. It means that they are choosing with a higher percentage rate to see another definition of reality than the one you mass. massively agree upon. Now, get in touch with your definition. Understand that when you do see the thing that excites you the most, that is the signal for who and what you are. Define the reality you prefer.

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see things they don't. It doesn't mean that what they are perceiving is less real. It means that they are choosing with a higher percentage rate to see another definition of reality than the one you mass. massively agree upon. Now, get in touch with your definition. Understand that when you do see the thing that excites you the most, that is the signal for who and what you are. Define the reality you prefer. How would you like your reality to be? If it isn't this definition, the one you don't prefer, create the definition you do prefer. This is the two steps of the defining process. Part one. A and B. Define the reality you have. Define the reality you want. Now, this does not necessarily mean that you have to spend the next 200 years defining the reality you want before you do something about it. That's another fear mechanism to stay in your estimation beyond the necessary time to continue to break it down into further and further and political definitions, never really doing anything about it. Because once again, it gives you busy work to do, gives you something to do, and you think you're doing it, but it's actually keeping you from doing it. It keeps you thinking about doing it, but it keeps you from doing it. Because again, you may have another belief that says, if you ever, ever, ever got around to actually doing it, you might fail. You might not succeed. You don't ever have to have to actually doing it. You don't ever have to have that belief. If once again you remember, whatever it is that excites you the most is who you are. You can't fail at being you. It is the one thing you can't help but be. But when you, quote, unquote, fail is when you try to be everyone else, is when you try to be everyone else, thinking that this being everyone else is actually being you because of what you have been taught to believe, you ought to be. You should do this. You should do that. Then that at some point in your mind may be who you think you are. If I'm not doing this, I'm not being me. I'm not being me. I'm not being the person I'm supposed to be. Thank you.