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Transforming The Traditional Marriage Vows

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Part 1

Hello, Bashar. And are you good day? My heart's beating really fast. I hope it calms down a little bit. How exciting. I want to tell you a little bit about what I do for a living, and then I'm going to ask you a question about it. All right. I work as a marriage counselor. How exciting. And I see individuals and couples, a variety of subjects. Yes. And my highest passion is working with individuals. as they're uncovering their blocks and their belief systems that keep them from their highest. As I said. How excited. And invariably, when I work with an individual and they reach a higher level of consciousness, their partner starts having problems. All right. So I bring them in together and start working on revamping their relationship agreement. All right. And my question has to do. with our traditional marriage vow. It seems like it needs to be more fluid or it needs to be... Then invent one. That's what I'm having a problem, figuring out how... Why are you having a problem with this? Isn't that a fun challenge? It is definitely a fun challenge. And why can't every individual or every couple decide what their vows are anyway? I'd like that to be the case. Well, it is the case in many cases. Is it not? they're not individuals or couples on your planet that create their own vows? The people that are... Are there not? Yes, there are. Then, problem solved. No? With the couples that I'm seeing, the people that are vibrating at more like a red level. All right, a red level. You're like a lower frequency level. Yes. And the one that's expanded to maybe a higher vibrancy level. Yes. So one you're saying is sort of stuck in old-fashioned definitions, and one has gone beyond them. Yes. All right, so. So the higher vibratory partner can hold the energy of the lower one of the lower one of the lower one is faced with a choice. Yes. Either change or... Match the frequency of the higher level or not. So I'm wondering where are we going as a... as a, is our world vamping to a different traditional marriage? Do you have a similar marriage vow on your planet? No. How does it? We are all telepathically connected and all in one marriage. Our vow, if you want to call it that, is to be responsible, absolutely and totally responsible, not for anyone, but to everyone, to be our fullest selves. Because only when we choose to be our fullest selves, do we thus then allow ourselves to be in a state where we absolutely validate the differences and the fullness of every other individual. And when we validate the differences in every other individual, we all work in harmony. That's beautiful. That's our marriage. Yes, that's wonderful.

Part 2

to be responsible, absolutely and totally responsible, not for anyone, but to everyone, to be our fullest selves. Because only when we choose to be our fullest selves, do we thus then allow ourselves to be in a state where we absolutely validate the differences and the fullness of every other individual. And when we validate the differences in every other individual, we all work in harmony. That's beautiful. That's our marriage. Yes, that's wonderful. Your world, in a sense, can evolve and is evolving towards something similar, though it may still take a little while before you will experience that fully on your planet. But that's all right. You're exploring and examining all these things now on a fundamental level, which is exactly what you need to be doing. I'm seeing that. Yes. So thank you for your part in helping people examine these ideas and helping them to know that there are other opportunities. that can work for them more smoothly. Very good. Thank you very much. Thank you.