Exploring The Definitions That Keep You From Changing

Good morning, Willa. And good day to you, darling. Thank you. I'm so excited to be here. We are very excited that you're excited to be where you are. Okay. My question regards the session that I had with Bashar, and I was asking about, I mean, I'm having some difficulty being overprotective with my son. And then he said that I had crossed. lifetimes with him and he said that he's dying in different realities or different parents and that that's kind of well someone is dying yeah but it isn't actually him okay yeah that's where I need more clarity well again every different idea that you may call a past life or a future life is simply another person they have their own person just like you are your own person and you're making energetic and informational cross-connections to them from the present even as they may be doing the same to you. And so the idea is that you may be cross-connecting to someone that may be dying in another life because you may need to draw upon that experience for some theme that you're exploring in your parallel time stream. But you are not that person and that person is not you. So you don't have to take it personally. Because you just said parallel realities interact. They interact through the exchange of information. Why am I still holding on to this? Oh, that's a very good question, Cookie. Why does it keep coming up? Obviously you're not done exploring that idea then. You think that there is something in this entire scenario that still in some way can provide some enlightenment to you or perhaps others if you go through through this experience that you're going through. If you keep a bright mind about it, if you keep a positive attitude about it, you will learn everything you need to learn, but if you approach it as if it's supposed to be over when it's not, then you're not necessarily using it up in the way it was designed to be used. The idea, nevertheless, is that you only keep doing things that you think are benefiting you somehow, and maybe you need to look deeper at some belief that is making you hold on to something that you don't necessarily prefer, but which you actually keep choosing because the definition that you have attached to it is saying that it actually benefits you more than the alternative, even though you may say you want the alternative. If you don't choose the alternative, then you've got a definition attached to that that says it's not the better choice for you right now. Now you can change that. You can change that by finding out what the definitions are that you've attached to each of those things to make them seem to be opposite of what you believe they ought to be. ought to be.

though you may say you want the alternative. If you don't choose the alternative, then you've got a definition attached to that that says it's not the better choice for you right now. Now you can change that. You can change that by finding out what the definitions are that you've attached to each of those things to make them seem to be opposite of what you believe they ought to be. ought to be. But you need to find out what those definitions are, darling, or you'll never keep choosing anything but the same thing. Exactly, because I would definitely would want to experience something else that feels good. But it doesn't so much matter what you want. It really matters what you believe and what you know to be true. You can want all you want. But the only thing that wanting creates is the state of wanting. And the state of wanting, and the state of want is not the state of being and not the state of knowing. So it's about knowing. It's about finding out and identifying and knowing that belief so that you know what it is. And when you know what it is, you have a tool in hand that you can work with. And then when working with that tool, you can change things. But wanting will not do it because wanting is only wanting. So I have to figure out what's the belief system is around that and then change. and then change that. Because you're asking yourself the question, are you not? If I am choosing something I say does not serve me, I must have a belief attached to it that says it does. For I know I wouldn't choose it otherwise. Because I know for a fact that you only choose things that you believe serve you. So if you're choosing something that is to your detriment, the only reason you would choose a detrimental thing is that you must have an overriding belief attached to it that says it actually serves you. If you find out what that belief is and you realize that it doesn't have to be true for you in that way, then you will let that belief fall away. You'll detach it from that thing. And thus then if that thing truly serves you and you recognize that it does, then you will be choosing it and nothing else. Right. But you've got to find out what that definition is. You've attached to it that colors it in such dire circumstances. You understand. You understand? Yes. For it's only your definition that does, as the Bashar has reminded all of you. No situation has any kind of difficulty inherent in the situation. Tis only your definition that makes it seem so. Does that bring clarity to your eyes and a little bit of a smile to your face? It does. Really does. Do you feel a little bit? a little bit lighter inside?

such dire circumstances. You understand. You understand? Yes. For it's only your definition that does, as the Bashar has reminded all of you. No situation has any kind of difficulty inherent in the situation. Tis only your definition that makes it seem so. Does that bring clarity to your eyes and a little bit of a smile to your face? It does. Really does. Do you feel a little bit? a little bit lighter inside? I do. Then as you are baking with this new idea, it will allow you to rise and be a fluffy cookie. Okay. I like that. All right. As far as different realities existing simultaneously, not looking at it. Blessings to you. Not looking at them. in a linear time. So is it right to say that whenever I focus on one reality, I would attract that parallel reality into this? Well, it depends on how relevant it is for your life stream. But you know, you're going about it in a very kind of detail-oriented, difficult way. You're adding difficulty to the something that has ease built in. Because this is why the Bashar has told you. has told you so often about the idea of acting on your highest joy because that is the organizing principle and it's all you have to do. And the idea of any other particular parallel reality that fits into that definition of the thing that gives you the most joy will automatically be the reality that you shift to because you are the vibration that contains all of the vibrations that can be potentially manifested in your life and they are all there all at once. they are all exactly the ones you need. So if you just have the overriding bubble of your holistic vibrational true reality, then any of those parallel worlds you need to experience will be the ones that you experience, and you'll experience ne'other. So you can do it that way and make it easier. Instead of focusing on every little detail and thinking you have to move all these little puzzle pieces one at a time and taking all that time to do so makes it very tiresome and you start perspiring. perspiring all over the puzzle and getting it all wet. And then the puzzle pieces get slippery and they slip out of your fingers. And then you have to go looking for it because the puzzle piece bounced across the room and perhaps fell down a crack and now you have to go looking for that puzzle piece deep in the crack and now you have to tear up your whole floor to get at that puzzle piece down at the bottom underneath the basement of your house.

puzzle pieces get slippery and they slip out of your fingers. And then you have to go looking for it because the puzzle piece bounced across the room and perhaps fell down a crack and now you have to go looking for that puzzle piece deep in the crack and now you have to tear up your whole floor to get at that puzzle piece down at the bottom underneath the basement of your house. And who knows even maybe when it fell down there, a little mouse came along and took that little puzzle piece and scurried through its hole and now you have to dig up your whole backyard to find that little puzzle piece so that you can go back and finish the puzzle when instead you could just be looking at the whole picture on the box cover and going, ah. You catch my drift, darling? Yes, I do. I really appreciate that. I feel fluffy right now. Oh, thank you. that is always our aim to fluff you up. Just one more general question. How do you see the future of humanity on Earth? Like this. That's how we see everything. Always looking up. Okay, nice. Thank you, my fluffy cookie. Thank you so much. Thank you.