Love At First Site Let It Play Out Naturally

Hello, Bashar. And are you good day? Cast your vote. Five. Why? Just easier, no? Just easier, yes. Yeah? It's just easier to do that. All right, we'll accept that. Anything else? Yep. So I wanted to discuss the concept called love at first sight. Love at first sight. Yes. All right. There is a concept called love before first sight, but... We'll stick with what you are offering. It's here and now, right? Here and now, it's love at. Here and now. So, I've experienced that. Yeah, it's all right. And it's one of the most exciting aspects of life, you could say. Yes. Though it doesn't always end. Stop right there for one moment. Notice the contradictory definitions creeping in. It's one of the most exciting experiences in life. Although... And then you shift to the other side with a definition that has absolutely nothing at all to do with the definition you just gave. So it is one of the most exciting things you can experience in life. Period. The although is a completely different definition of something else altogether and has nothing to do with love at first sight. Do you see how you're doing that? You're actually taking one thing. and making an association to something completely different that you have no business making an association to from this concept to that one. Each of these is its own concept. Love at first sight, one of the most exciting things you can experience in life. Period. Now, if you're going to go and explore something else that you don't prefer, that's what you're doing. But it has nothing at all to do with the effect that love at first sight being exciting has in your life. One does not lead to the other. other. They are completely separate ideas, completely separate definitions, and completely separate realities that you're describing here. Do you understand? Yeah. So it's not this, although, or but, it's this and that. Which do you prefer? Well, I prefer to keep it, you know, simple. Then stay in the vibration of love at first sight, regardless of the outcome. Did we not just define the entire formula as having absolutely no insistence on a particular outcome to justify the state? You do not need a particular outcome to justify your preferred state. Circumstances do not matter. Only state of being does. Do you understand this? Okay. Okay. Not really, but okay. So let me follow up on this. By all means. Okay. Love at first sight. Okay, so it, you know, it happened. Yes. And, you know, I decided to act upon it. All right. To the best of your ability. To the best of my ability. With no assumption of the outcome. Okay. If you didn't do it that way, you didn't follow the formula for excitement. Okay, so I did my best to avoid having any assumptions. But... Just having the experience of Love at first. Yes.

first sight. Okay, so it, you know, it happened. Yes. And, you know, I decided to act upon it. All right. To the best of your ability. To the best of my ability. With no assumption of the outcome. Okay. If you didn't do it that way, you didn't follow the formula for excitement. Okay, so I did my best to avoid having any assumptions. But... Just having the experience of Love at first. Yes. Implies something, you know... Implies what? Some hidden reality or some kind of connection that's supposed to be there. But don't have an assumption as to what that connection means. Okay. Don't have an assumption as to how that connection needs to play out. Love at first sight can happen for a number of different reasons. It doesn't mean that it has to play out a certain way. Sometimes your excitement will lead you in a certain direction simply because that's the direction in which it will serve you best to be less. but that has nothing at all to do with the style in which you are led. Okay, so it's actually to push, it could be just to push me forward. It could be just for that. It could be that you have to develop a different kind of relationship with the person that you have fallen in love with other than assuming that it must play out this way or that way. Let it be what it is. Let it be the reflection it needs to be to teach you how to be more of yourself because that's what relationships are for anyway. And support. the other in allowing them to be whatever it is they truly prefer to be because, again, that's what relationships are for. Don't assume that just because you fall in love with someone that it has to play out in a certain societal way. It may have nothing at all to do with that in terms of why that connection exists. If it does, it does. If it doesn't, it doesn't. But whatever it is will be what serves you best if you allow it to. Instead of putting those assumptions in the way of letting it do its job for you. Letting it be there for the real reason it is there. Instead of for the reason that your mind insists it must be there. Because it has all these ideas that if it's not there for that reason that I've been taught, it should be there, then somehow I'm going to be missing something. I'm going to be deprived of something. Something's going to go wrong. I'm going to miss out. Who says? Let it be what it is, because whatever it is is is what serves you best. Don't impose conditions upon it to the degree that prevents you from really understanding why it really happened.

it's not there for that reason that I've been taught, it should be there, then somehow I'm going to be missing something. I'm going to be deprived of something. Something's going to go wrong. I'm going to miss out. Who says? Let it be what it is, because whatever it is is is what serves you best. Don't impose conditions upon it to the degree that prevents you from really understanding why it really happened. Because it may have happened for an idea or a reason that you have absolutely no cognition of at this particular moment. So, use it for what it is, trust it for what it gives you at that moment, experience what is happening, and forget about the idea of predicting what will happen because your physical mind isn't capable of doing that. Only the higher mind knows how something's going to unfold. The physical mind only knows what's happening in front of it. All right. Does that make sense? Yes, it does. Is this helping you? It does help me. Are you feeling a little lighter? Yeah, I am. Are you feeling a little bit more in love with yourself? Because that's actually the first sight. If you're not in love with yourself, you can't really be in love with anything else. Does that make sense? Yes, it does. Because everything else is you, is a reflection of you. And if you insist that something, a reflection you're getting is somehow wrong and doesn't fit, you're actually rejecting a part of yourself that you need to understand. So if you're in love with yourself, and I don't mean in a narcissistic way, if you're in love with yourself, you will accept that whatever is going on in the way that it's unfolding has some information for you. Again, it doesn't mean that you cannot converse and you cannot explore the possibility of allowing things to change in a certain direction, but you can do that without any insistence that they must change in that direction. You can always explore the possibilities. But then it's up to you to accept whatever it is that does play out as what needed to play out for the benefit of all concerned, not just one side or the other in a relationship. Sometimes being in love with someone means that the best thing may be that you are not necessarily in love in a traditional way. It may mean many other things. Let it be what it naturally needs to be to support everyone in the relationship. And trust that the way it plays out is the way that serves you best as well. Does this make sense? What is an untraditional way? I'm not...

a relationship. Sometimes being in love with someone means that the best thing may be that you are not necessarily in love in a traditional way. It may mean many other things. Let it be what it naturally needs to be to support everyone in the relationship. And trust that the way it plays out is the way that serves you best as well. Does this make sense? What is an untraditional way? I'm not... When we talk about the idea of traditional ways on your plan, The idea is that someone usually on your planet assumes traditionally that if they fall in love with someone, it must lead to a particular kind of ritualistic marriage and so on and so forth. It may not. Do you understand? Yeah. Does this help you? It does. All right. It may lead to that, but why don't you just find out if that's what's natural instead of insisting on that having to be the way it must play out. Make sense? Yes. Take a deep breath. Take a deep breath. And let it out. And relax. Let your life unfold in a natural way. Your life already works. You've already made all the appointments and all the agreements and all the marriages that you need to make. Just let them unfold naturally. The only way to miss an appointment is to spend your life worrying that you have missed the appointment. That's the paradox. If you stop worrying that you're going to miss an appointment, you cannot miss an appointment that you cannot miss an appointment that you've made. because your life will unfold and everything will happen in perfect timing. Trust the timing. All right? All right. Does this help you? It does.