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Three Absolutes (Part 3 of 3)

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are doing well. And since you have brought this up at this time, and since there are no accidents and everything happens in perfect timing, you can know that you are now aware of the fact that you have the ability to do this, or you would not have even conceived of the question. You are already beyond the old framework. Let yourself believe it by acting like you are and reaping the rewards of the reality that is representative of the fact that you now know you are beyond the old framework. You understand? Do you understand? Does this help you? Yeah. You don't sound too convinced. Keep it simple. Keep it simple. Explore what you must explore that you have uncovered about yourself. But in the exploration, love yourself. You certainly deserve to. Do you understand? Do what excites you the most? excites you the most. You can do it. It will work for you. And it will help you uncover more about yourself that you need to know. All right? Okay. Take the step and see what happens. And maybe we will talk again. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Shearing! Hello, Bichar. And to you, good day. Good day to you. Oh, one moment. One moment. Do you? also remember that in this conversation we are having with you, there are many levels to this conversation, and some of the conversation we have had with you this day will actually start to come out in your dreams. You did not hear everything with your ears. Pleasant dreams to you. Yes. Hello. Hello. In my becoming more experientially aware of the absolute of one is the all and all is the one. Yes. I have been as I'm expanding to encompass that, I have been experiencing both within myself and creating outside of myself an apparent duality. Yes, of course. As we have discussed many times, when you become more aware, you become more aware of positive and negative probability, because you are simply becoming more aware of all that is. Now, it doesn't mean that you have to buy into them. Sometimes the only reasons that these ideas of dualities begin to manifest in your reality when you expand yourself is because you bring along with the expansion, the belief that just being aware of a negative reality means that somehow it's going to spring to life. But you can still make the choice. Just being aware that it exists as a probability doesn't mean that it has to manifest. Do you understand the difference? I don't know. At the moment, I guess I don't because I'm experiencing both things happening at the same time in my life. All right.

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with the expansion, the belief that just being aware of a negative reality means that somehow it's going to spring to life. But you can still make the choice. Just being aware that it exists as a probability doesn't mean that it has to manifest. Do you understand the difference? I don't know. At the moment, I guess I don't because I'm experiencing both things happening at the same time in my life. All right. Well, remember that one of the ways to most quickly diffuse the negativity in any situation is not to first assume that it is automatically assume that it is automatically negative just because it looks the way you have been taught to believe a negative situation look you must stand back and realize that all situations are fundamentally neutral and do not have a built-in meaning to them. If you give yourself the opportunity no matter what happens to stand back for a moment and say all right wait a minute I started to react but wait a minute I now remember the situation is fundamentally neutral and there must be a positive reason why it happened this way because I say there must be then eventually you will begin to realize that it did actually serve you positively because every situation you can extract from every situation either a positive result or a negative result how you react to it what meaning you give to it determines the effect you get out of it. So give yourself the opportunity to stop yourself before you actually buy all the way into it and say oh oh oh look at the horrible thing I am creating and say all right all right just because it looks on the surface like what I have been taught to believe must mean something bad I now determine that it cannot be bad because I say so because I know I am now positively oriented and therefore I know that even if I never discover consciously intellectually what it is that this incident is going to serve me in a positive way and only a positive way somehow and I don't have to know how I just have to know that it is a part of the positive idea that I am and when you diffuse the situation that way by giving you a of positive meaning then you take control and you will begin to see positive synchronicity more and more and more and more in your life do you understand this principle yes use this tool and you will see the difference does this help you well can we go on all right and I think I've done that and what I believe about the situations that I've created was that I've created being able to look at both the positive and a negative at the same time so that I could be aware of the choice in front of me of course and then you can choose

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use this tool and you will see the difference does this help you well can we go on all right and I think I've done that and what I believe about the situations that I've created was that I've created being able to look at both the positive and a negative at the same time so that I could be aware of the choice in front of me of course and then you can choose what you prefer but now I don't know how to create just one I just told you how okay once you have seen what your preference is then understand that first of all the negative quote-unquote reality has already served you by allowing you to see what your preference is and therefore has already served you in a positive way that's how you immediately change the energy you understand and then you start moving in the direction of what seems to be the thing that gives you the most joy the most excitement do you understand that yes I understand this does not have to be complicated okay keep it simple okay does this help you um I wish to be more specific so that we can see how this applies in your life can you pull up a specific incident yeah go ahead I can think of two one is an actual reality I just lived through and the other is a dream I just had which I think reflects the same thing. Both are actual realities, but let's start with the physical one. Okay. I just was on location doing a film. Yes. And the crew was treated as second-class citizens. All right. Placed in a different living circumstance than the producers and directors and actors. And it was an extremely painful experience for me to be in the lesser accommodations. And I created for myself. created for myself a friendship with some of the producers who had an extra room so that some of the time during the production I spent in their extra room when they didn't have guests and some of it I spent staying in the lesser accommodations. All right. So I vacillated between the two during the whole show. And what would you have preferred to have done? Stayed in the better accommodations. And what else would you have preferred to have done? Um, felt like I was in a surrounding where I and everyone else surrounding where I and everyone else surrounding was considered equal. And what could you have done to promote that? I don't think I... I mean, I spoke up to various people about my opinion on the subject on that show. In a loving way? Yes. All right. And what happened? I think so. It was received receptively by some people and it angered someone else. All right. And so, then what? How did you feel after having spoken your mind? Said what you believed to be representative of integrity?

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have done to promote that? I don't think I... I mean, I spoke up to various people about my opinion on the subject on that show. In a loving way? Yes. All right. And what happened? I think so. It was received receptively by some people and it angered someone else. All right. And so, then what? How did you feel after having spoken your mind? Said what you believed to be representative of integrity? How did you feel? More powerful? All right. Then what? Well, now I'm back home. All right. So everything worked out fine in your reality? I guess so. Now I'm... Then I had a dream which represented the same thing, and now I'm looking at trying to be able to create a situation where I can be in the producer's seat, so to speak, and director's seat, so that I can create a circumstance where the money is spent so that everyone will feel equal, and nobody is made to be lesser. So then the situation has served you to allow you to become... to allow you to become the director and the producer that you would prefer to be, yes? Well, in my own feelings and experience, yes, but not outwardly manifest yet. Well, it will, hold it. I intend it to. Well, then obviously, you have allowed the situation to serve you in a positive way. So what's the question? Where's the problem? The feeling that I have as I move forward is, so is a feeling of excitement and adventure of going forth and also a feeling of resistance and fear. But fear of what? Resistance to what? What? Of creating my own reality. Why? I don't know. But you've been creating your own reality for as long as you can possibly remember. Yeah, but I haven't always told myself that that's true. So? Well, I guess now that I'm acknowledging it, it scares me. Why? I don't know. Yes, you do. I'm afraid of what I can, I'll create, or I'm afraid of the result. Because you do not allow yourself to believe that you can only create what you really prefer. This is true. But you can't. Remember, as we have just illustrated, even situations you don't prefer ultimately are what to prefer if you use them in a way that allows you to be more the person you want to be. So even when you create something you don't prefer, you can transform it into something you do. So what are you afraid of? You've already exhibited to have the power to transform a negative into a positive. So no matter what you create from this point forward in the future, you always have the ability to transform into a positive idea. Right? I... You know so. Yeah. We'll say it. I know it, but I don't always believe it. I allow myself to...

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prefer, you can transform it into something you do. So what are you afraid of? You've already exhibited to have the power to transform a negative into a positive. So no matter what you create from this point forward in the future, you always have the ability to transform into a positive idea. Right? I... You know so. Yeah. We'll say it. I know it, but I don't always believe it. I allow myself to... I allow myself to believe that the circumstances around me have more power than I do. Then if you allow yourself to believe that, since you are now believing it consciously, you must be choosing to believe it. And if you're choosing to believe it, there must be something about experiencing that kind of a reality that somehow still serves you. Okay. that. Well, then you're still in control, aren't you? I guess so. Well, then, there's nothing to be afraid of. Because even if you create something you don't like, you're still in control. Well, then why do I experience it as if I'm pushing against opposing forces? Because you believe you are doing it that way. Because you believe there is an opposing force to push against. You believe there is something outside of you and there is nothing outside of you. There is no outside. It's not. all within you. All the opposing forces are simply opposing belief systems within you. You are simply at war with yourself. Because you believe that this belief system and this belief system must be in conflict just because of how you're defining them. What you need to do is create a new definition that says that you can have apparently opposing belief systems but that they don't have to conflict. Okay. Since you are capable of having what appears to be opposing belief systems, and since they both must come from you, then obviously that tells you that somewhere in you there is a place that they both come from, therefore they must have a commonality somewhere. They must, in a sense, be the same idea somewhere. Just look that from a different perspective, that's all. You don't have to believe that these ideas are actually in conflict just because one is positive and one is negative or because one is what you prefer and one is what you don't. You are simply associating the definition of conflict to things that seem to be meaningful mutually exclusive but which actually are mutually enhancing and simply a matter of equal choices, that's all. You understand? I think so. The way I interpret that for myself is that as I embrace all that is, and for me I look globally at the moment to do that, as I widened to see that everything around me is a part of myself, then I'm trying to find the way to allow all of these opposing needs. all of the opposing ideas to coexist together.

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a matter of equal choices, that's all. You understand? I think so. The way I interpret that for myself is that as I embrace all that is, and for me I look globally at the moment to do that, as I widened to see that everything around me is a part of myself, then I'm trying to find the way to allow all of these opposing needs. all of the opposing ideas to coexist together. I have a question for you. Yes. What is the opposite of day? Oh, come, come. I feel like this is a trick question. What is the opposite of day? Night. Yes. What is the opposite of night? Are they in conflict? No. Well then. Well then. Well, that's what I'm saying. I think I understand what you're saying. All right, then use that as your analogy. Okay. Day and night coexist. They coexist in perfect balance. in perfect balance. So does anything else that may seem to be a polar opposite. See it all as a perfect balance. There will be no resistance and no conflict. The interesting point to me is the point at which they come together. Yes, that is the interesting point. It is the paradox. That's when you know you are the closest to your spiritual threshold. Use the paradox by transforming the polarities into one thing. Well, that's what I think that I'm trying to struggle with in my myself is that I've created these opposites to see them in myself and I don't know how to find the midpoint or what to do with that midpoint when I find it. The idea is to simply utilize all of the information, the observation of these situations gives you to make the decision that is most aligned with what you prefer. When you make the decision that is most aligned with what you prefer, you are at the midpoint. You understand? Yes. It is the making of the decision. The final act of actually decided. The final act of actually decide. what you prefer and acting on it, that's what puts you in the center. Maybe you are confused because you think that if you act in the positive direction, that somehow you're not at a midpoint, but the midpoint is only the idea of balance. When you make a decision after all of your assessment, then you are at the midpoint. You're at the center of balance. You understand? Yes, so it's both the neutral and the PowerPoint. Yes. Does that help you? Yes. Thank you very much. Thank you. Thank you. Hi. And good day to you. I'm Ruklini. All right. I have, uh, well, I guess it's not an odd question, but it's odd to me at this point. All right. I am seeing in my daydreams and night dreams and sometimes when I don't even dream, I'm just going along. But I'm seeing this personality.

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the neutral and the PowerPoint. Yes. Does that help you? Yes. Thank you very much. Thank you. Thank you. Hi. And good day to you. I'm Ruklini. All right. I have, uh, well, I guess it's not an odd question, but it's odd to me at this point. All right. I am seeing in my daydreams and night dreams and sometimes when I don't even dream, I'm just going along. But I'm seeing this personality. personality, who is, I call him sort of like Batman, but on the other hand, he's female at times. Yes. And he's dressed in dark blue, dark blue boots, and the headgear. It feels to me, I realize, just in speaking to you now, that he has taken the place of my husband's face, which has been with me for many years. and particularly in the last two years since I haven't been very well the last two years. I am amazed at the vitality in this person. Is your husband non-physical? He's been gone 20 years. All right. How does this face allow you to feel? Good, strong, vigorous. And ready for what? ready for what? Whatever I want to go out and find to do. It is functioning as a guide for you. It may be, but I wasn't sure I wanted to check it out to see if that's what it was. And I admit that I've been so enchanted with the thing that I haven't asked him any questions. For how long has this been occurring? About four or four or five. five months. In a sense, we can say, although this will be relatively limiting in its concept because of the language that must be used. In a sense, it can be said that this is what the idea of your husband has become. Do you understand? Communication that allows you to touch aspects of yourself now to prepare you for another level. I always have been able to communicate with him since he's gone over. Yes, but now this is something that is a new level. Yes. Another aspect of the total soul that both of you share. Okay. Something that is common to both of you. In a way, you are being shown not only a reflection of an aspect of him, but a reflection of an aspect of you that is common to him in that you both come from the same soul. from the same soul. You are now looking at the concept of a more future self, a guide that you are, he is, together. One soul, now preparing you to look inward into other dimensions of experience, preparing you for experience of other dimensions. Over time, many things can change in your ability to affect other people around you, or you can simply choose to explore other dimensions, as is represented by the idea of the blue man.

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soul. You are now looking at the concept of a more future self, a guide that you are, he is, together. One soul, now preparing you to look inward into other dimensions of experience, preparing you for experience of other dimensions. Over time, many things can change in your ability to affect other people around you, or you can simply choose to explore other dimensions, as is represented by the idea of the blue man. It is to some degree an archetypal symbol of night of entering a whole new realm of the self. One moment. What gives you joy? What do you like to do? What do you like to do? Dance, sing, act, the arts. One moment. Have you attempted in any way, shape, or four moment. Are you connected in any way, shape, or form to the concept of children or flowers? Well, I have four children, eight grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren, if that's a connection. Are you in contact with all of them? Yes, all but one, and I'm trying to locate her. How do you communicate with these children? How often and in what way? A letter, telephone? Do you ever get a chance to physically see them? Not very often. When was the last time, when will be the next? Um, I saw the last one about six months ago, and I don't know when the next time will be. They're all very busy. But they communicate with me. Can you create an idea in your letter form communications that would allow them to begin to share with each other a kind of new cohesiveness, exploration of new ideas, new inspirations to allow them to know that they really can do whatever they wish to in life? Can you generate this kind of momentum, this kind of spark, this kind of thrill, this kind of electric shockwave through all of them by some creative act on your part that you can initiate? initiate? I can try. Two or three of them are in their older 20s and they are not very interested in things of this nature. You do not have to use this terminology. Everyone is interested in understanding that they can have a life of ecstasy, that they can do whatever it is that they really desire. Everyone is interested in knowing that they can create the reality they want. You have more than enough ability to to be very clever about how you say these things. Thank you. You are and have been a storyteller many times over. Yes. Now at this time you are being urged by the Blue Man to start telling and weaving a story again. Weaving this story among the children, whether connected to you biologically or not, can be one of the great ways that you can share something very strong with the world. story books. Would it be possible for me to write books at this time? As I just said. No, you said books.

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times over. Yes. Now at this time you are being urged by the Blue Man to start telling and weaving a story again. Weaving this story among the children, whether connected to you biologically or not, can be one of the great ways that you can share something very strong with the world. story books. Would it be possible for me to write books at this time? As I just said. No, you said books. You didn't say I should write them. I said story books that you could initiate, did I not? Yes. Well, then you can write them. Will you do so? Yes. Will it give you joy? Probably not at first, but I'll try to really hard. One moment. One moment, the man in blue is scowling. Yes, well. Wincing, grimacing. Probably not. I think that I will probably make them too complicated at first and they need to be simple. Then the first story you will write will be for you and you alone. Okay. A story of how to tell a simple story. Okay. And then, from that point forward, you will write for others. And I promise you. I promise you. I guarantee, because your energy and your momentum at this time is too strong for this energy to change in any other direction, I guarantee you will be giving others more joy than you know if you will do it. Will you do it? Yes. The Blue Man says thank you because it is part of your agreement that you should. Thank you. All right? Yes. Now, with all due modesty, the Blue Man suggests that you might be able to might be able to use a variation of the idea of the Blue Man in one of your stories at some time. You got it. But he will leave that up to you. Buttercup. No, that's it. That's it. That's it. That's why it's there. All right. Okay. Thank you very much. Thank you. And sharing. Hello, Bashar. And to you, good babe. I'm puzzled by something that happened to me about a month ago. Oh, boy, puzzled. Do share. I was going to visit someone. Yes. And a relatively nice neighborhood in Los Angeles, and someone came up to me with a gun and asked for my money. Oh, how exciting. And what did you do? And what did you do? At first, I wasn't sure what I wanted to do, but I decided I would give him my money. Oh, right. And it sort of all happened very quickly from there. Basically, he took off with the money. Yes. He robbed several other people down the street, it seems. Yes. But the puzzle for me is I don't usually attract some experience like this. This is the first time anybody's really used violence like that against me. Oh, right. And I'm not sure what to make of it. Again, as we have discussed.

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money. Oh, right. And it sort of all happened very quickly from there. Basically, he took off with the money. Yes. He robbed several other people down the street, it seems. Yes. But the puzzle for me is I don't usually attract some experience like this. This is the first time anybody's really used violence like that against me. Oh, right. And I'm not sure what to make of it. Again, as we have discussed. it is a golden opportunity to decide what you want to make of it. Let's talk about it from the idea of realizing that you have attracted the situation. Now, of course, in no way shape or form does this in any way excuse a lack of integrity on someone else's part. Because that is generated from their fear, their belief in their own lack of power. That is why people do those things. However, you can still have attracted the experience to be an extent. spiritually elevating experience. You are only showing yourself that it doesn't really matter what kind of an experience you attract to yourself, you can still transform it. Now, what does this touch on in terms of issues of abundance for you or other issues? How did it allow you to feel? Well, I guess on one level it made me realize money was just a sort of transient thing. Oh, I? That it can easily change hands at a moment's notice unexpectedly. Right. One moment I had it. Previous to this idea, what was your definition of money or abundance? I guess it was something that you used towards some other end. All right. Did you imagine that it was something that you had to somehow collect? Somehow I have enough of. I don't know about collect, but just kind of enough of it. Have enough of. All right. Having enough of whatever form of abundance you need to do what you need to do is a direct reflection of being enough of the person that is representative of the expanded idea. Right? I think so. No so. Can you say it again? Yeah. The idea is that whatever level of abundance exists in someone's life is absolutely not a penny more nor a penny less than a directly equal representation of whatever level of expansion they are operating on. Yes, I'm with you on that one. All right. Now, the release of the money of the money in that way, As we perceive your energy now, we'll actually serve many different purposes.

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Can you say it again? Yeah. The idea is that whatever level of abundance exists in someone's life is absolutely not a penny more nor a penny less than a directly equal representation of whatever level of expansion they are operating on. Yes, I'm with you on that one. All right. Now, the release of the money of the money in that way, As we perceive your energy now, we'll actually serve many different purposes. One, it may allow you to decide in the future to be of assistance in establishing centers of learning, centers of housing, centers of help and assistance to individuals like that individual, to teach them that they don't need to do those kinds of things, to learn that they are already as powerful as they need to be to create the reality they want without having to hurt anyone else or themselves in order to create it. You might get involved in that because of this incident. Another thing that works for you, again, is to reassess the notion of the flow of abundance, understanding that people who are quote-unquote rich are only flowing money through them. They don't actually hold on to it. This idea can also assist you. That it is truly a complete system going to and fro, exchanging back and forth. Now, you can recognize that you do not prefer this to happen in this way, but again, you can also use this incident to get in touch with your true feelings, your true desires, and reassess how you wish to define the world, and in so doing, how you wish to begin to relate to the other people in it, and how you can share with them by example the ideas that they are powerful enough to also be rich, to also be abundant, that they do not have to fear the idea of lack or loss, and then fear that they must dominate others and take from them in order to experience a false sense of power. All of these things are now bubbling around within you to allow you to make certain decisions about how you wish to act in life and how you wish to interact with others in life. Keep an open mind, keep an open heart, and you will discover the ways to use this scenario to your advantage. That is our first and foremost advice, you understand? I have a second question. Tomorrow I have to go down to the courthouse and possibly identify this person. All right. And the dilemma is, if he has... has served me in this purpose, whether I still sort of pursue this through the legal system. But you have not necessarily served him yet. You understand? Mm-hmm. The idea now is to complete the cycle that you both attracted yourself to, but you can do it in a loving way.

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question. Tomorrow I have to go down to the courthouse and possibly identify this person. All right. And the dilemma is, if he has... has served me in this purpose, whether I still sort of pursue this through the legal system. But you have not necessarily served him yet. You understand? Mm-hmm. The idea now is to complete the cycle that you both attracted yourself to, but you can do it in a loving way. What you might call your legal system may not necessarily be the most loving representation, but at least it will allow the individual to begin to assess the notion of responsibility. However, it is very critical, very critical to reinforce this idea so that he does not only focus on what your system creates to be a punishment aspect. It is very important that you find some way to communicate to this individual, that the reason that this happened is because he fears he is not powerful enough to create abundance in his life without having to take it from someone else. Then you will have served him. by reminding him of a principle that in time can work its way into his consciousness and truly change him. Then you will have completed the cycle. So, yes, identify him, but also identify to him who you really are. And the love that you have that in sharing the concept of his power with him will really allow him to see eventually how blessed he was in attracting you into the situation. Do you understand? Yes, I do. Does this help you? Mm-hmm. Thank you very much for your love. Thank you. And your boldness in the creation of that exchange. At this timing, allow us to extend to each and every one of you. Once again, our deepest appreciation for the co-creation of this interaction, your world is changing rapidly and will change even more rapidly now in this new decade. I can absolutely. guarantee that even within what you call the next three years your world will find itself in many different areas turning completely upside down be prepared for a ride there are many things that are going to take even the most open-minded of you by complete surprise but enjoy it because you are doing it it is only more of you revealing itself to you the bubbling of your consciousness to the so that you can become one, absolute one, and yet absolutely the individual that you uniquely are. We thank you for this opportunity to remind you of your connection to creation and your ability to create in joy in ecstasy and in love, whatever it is you wish. Our love to you and the fond. Good day. Thank you all again very much for being here today.