Trusting In The Negative More Than The Positive

Hello, Bashar. Andri, you good day! Ah, that's very nice to hear it in person from you. You as well. So I have a question. Yes. I'm still not very clear about the concept of karma. Yeah. In what sense? I was growing up in a family where that concept was always presented as punishment for something I'd done. Yes. And therefore, it created fear. me that if I do something, I'm going to be punished many times more. Yes. It creates such a deep fear in me. Yes. Because you're holding on to that definition as being real. But now you're saying that you know it's just a definition, so why are you still holding on to it? That's my question. Well, how is it serving you? Remember when we talked about motivation? The only reason you hold on to something is because you must have a definition that says it's serving you better than the alternative. That's true. So what are you? you afraid of if you let it go? What are you afraid will happen? You see, many of you say you can't figure out what that fearful definition is, but really you can. It's actually very simple. All you actually have to do is magnify it in order to get a good look at it. And an easy way to magnify the fear is by using your imagination to take it to the extreme levels of terror. What's the worst possible thing I can imagine would happen if I actually let go of that belief? of that belief. And if you're willing to hear the answer, you'll hear it. You'll receive it. You'll find out what it is? So what are you so afraid will happen if you stop believing that karma is punishment? Are you afraid you'll go wild, out of control? That you will do heinous things? Are you afraid that you're that kind of a person if you don't have that kind of a straight jacket governor on your behavior? Because you don't trust who you are? deep down really as a person? And so you need that strong iron fist to keep you in line. Are you afraid of who you really are? Are you afraid of your power? Do you have a definition also that your pure power will somehow make you go astray? What do you fear? I have a belief that if I'm in certain situation. Yes. And I feel I want to change it? Yeah. Oh, you want to change yourself? Put myself into a different situation. Well, all right, but you want to change yourself. When you change yourself, it doesn't matter if the situation changes, you'll respond to it differently, and that's the proof of change. Not that the situation out there has changed. Proof of change is that you respond differently even if the situation still looks the same. That's right. I know. That's why I said it. And you ask me what I fear.

into a different situation. Well, all right, but you want to change yourself. When you change yourself, it doesn't matter if the situation changes, you'll respond to it differently, and that's the proof of change. Not that the situation out there has changed. Proof of change is that you respond differently even if the situation still looks the same. That's right. I know. That's why I said it. And you ask me what I fear. Yes. So my fear is that if I'm in such a situation and I'm going to put myself into a different situation or choose to experience a different reality. Yes. Then I feel like it's going to go, it's going to change in the matter. It's going to be bad. It's going to be more challenging. Well, what kind of a definition do you have? of the new reality. Obviously you have a negative one. Why do you have a negative definition of the reality you're shifting to? Why would you assume that it's going to be negative? Because I left something what was really good for something what I believe it's going to be better. And so? Then why wouldn't it be better? And I'm afraid that it's going to be worse. But why do you have a definition that something better is going to be worse? going to be worse. Don't you hear the contradiction in your definition? You're saying you're expanding to something you believe is better, but you have a definition that that's going to be worse. Why do you have the contradictory definition that something better is going to be worse? That's a good question. Thank you. Do you have a good answer? Why do you have a contrary definition of the idea of better being worse? Why are you equating better as worse? Come on. That's why I cannot figure out. No, come, come, come. I already told it to you. Really, in different words. Plainly speaking, you don't trust yourself. You don't trust your life. Yeah. To be more precise, you trust in the negative more than you trust in the positive. It's that simple. It's that simple. that's okay. Say it. Say it with me. I trust in the negative more than I trust the positive. Go on. Come on, out loud. I trust the negative more than I trust the positive. I trust negative more than the positive. Say it again. Really mean it. Come on. I trust in the negative more than I trust in the positive. I trust in negative more than I trust in positive. Say it again. Come on. Put some force behind. I trust in the negative. I trust in the negative. more than I trust in the positive. Come on. I trust in negative more than I trust in positive. Now, do you recognize that while you were saying that you were laughing? Yes. You know why you were laughing? Because it's bullshit. Thank you.

the positive. I trust in negative more than I trust in positive. Say it again. Come on. Put some force behind. I trust in the negative. I trust in the negative. more than I trust in the positive. Come on. I trust in negative more than I trust in positive. Now, do you recognize that while you were saying that you were laughing? Yes. You know why you were laughing? Because it's bullshit. Thank you. Because you know it doesn't ring true. And yet, you've just never admitted it because you're a afraid to admit it because you think there is a carmic consequence to even admitting that you believe that you trust the negative more than the positive. But so what? So what if you did? Once you admit it, now you can change it because you've allowed it to be okay to have done it that way. All right, I trust it in the negative instead of the positive. Who cares? So what? Big deal. Now that I have admitted I did it that. that way. Now I recognize I don't prefer it, so I realize I have the ability to trust in the positive if I so desire. And if I should at any time, also change my mind and start choosing to trust in the negative. Well, again, so what? I must have had a good reason for doing so. Maybe by trusting in the negative it gave me an opportunity again, as we said before, carmically, to understand more clearly who I am not, so that I can understand more clearly who I actually am. Because many of you do it that way on your planet. You create circumstances and situations that are very strongly representative of what you don't prefer so that you can highlight more clearly what you do prefer. It's easier to see a single little match if you surround the match with the vacuum and darkness of all of space. So even if you're surrounded by negativity, all that negativity, all that darkness makes it easier to find the light. That's right. That's right. I do. Is this helping? Very much so. Why, thank you for being willing to trust in the positive now.